Your a moron.
Why don't you stick to asking questions that most people with an IQ of 50 would already know the answers to.
What would punching a woman do for him?
Especially after the fact.
It's not like she continued to try again.
Is this why I started in this hobby?
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Why don't you stick to asking questions that most people with an IQ of 50 would already know the answers to.
What would punching a woman do for him?
Especially after the fact.
It's not like she continued to try again.
Moi, you should relax on this asian mps, it's almost borderline 'rascist'. To each it's own; 'hate those places'? well, a lot of us go there, and also see 'non-asian', it's called variety.
sorry that not everyone can afford $$$/hr. this is how the free market works. If someone doesn't like your rates, you probably dont' want their business, wrong market, wrong clientele. So don't blame the asian mps if they have lower prices.
And I'm not condoning BBFS. but like another pooner said, don't be surprised that it's offered at non-asian places too; heck, why would any SP tell you that she offers it? It's like who tells their friends and family that "I'm a pooner" or "I'm an escort", "I offer these services...", etc.?
You are correct Sir,
I am surprised at myself that I am finding it difficult to count myself lucky & move on! That was the motivation of this post. I was looking for inspiration from you guys, even if you have to resort to slingin' mud at me.
She jumped on me without me having a condom on. I was only inside her for a couple of seconds. Do you guys remember what it felt like having your first orgasm, or getting laid for the first time back in high school. Do any of you remember being so sexually charged that you could have an orgasm in your sleep? This is how fetishes are born - having sexual feelings that are so intense, I'll have this memory burned into me for life. She surprised me so much that this is what has happened to me! That is what it felt like to me!
Does she know this? Was this her intention I wonder?
I know, I know !!
I am surprised at myself that I am finding it difficult to count myself lucky & move on! That was the motivation of this post. I was looking for inspiration from you guys, even if you have to resort to slingin' mud at me.
She jumped on me without me having a condom on. I was only inside her for a couple of seconds. Do you guys remember what it felt like having your first orgasm, or getting laid for the first time back in high school. Do any of you remember being so sexually charged that you could have an orgasm in your sleep? This is how fetishes are born - having sexual feelings that are so intense, I'll have this memory burned into me for life. She surprised me so much that this is what has happened to me! That is what it felt like to me!
Does she know this? Was this her intention I wonder?
So what have you decided—go back or not go back? I say go!
Hey t1163, thanks for baring your soul. I love that kind of post. Also love your quote from Oscar Wilde. Amazing, isn't it, how the mask of our anonymous handle helps us tell the truth on a place like PERB?
I totally relate to your fixation on that erratic, safe sex-flaunting Asian micro chick that gave you such an intense burst of pleasure, followed by 3 painful months of no sex and having to lie to your wife...and now those obsessive fantasies about going back to her, to get that fix from her once more.
Speaking of literature, this scenario is reminiscent of Somerset Maugham’s story in OF HUMAN BONDAGE where the protagonist, a doctor, falls obsessively for a waitress named Mildred who harms and exploits and ridicules him in all sorts of ways. And that's precisely what whips his sensual fantasies of her into white heat. Reading this book was quite an effective antidote to getting addicted to inappropriate love partners for me.
Your situation also makes me think of a former girlfriend whose first sexual experience was getting raped as a teenager, and who only got turned on by re-enacting rape & bondage scenarios a la "The Story of O." There’s nothing voluntary about the way fantasies colonize our minds and start delighting or torturing us. And it’s often the worst perversions that are the greatest turn-ons.
t1163, "if you repress you’ll continue to obsess"—so I say, go for it, see this chick again a few times, bang her like crazy (but with a condom). Usually, when there's no real harm to others, the best way to flush an unhealthy fantasy out of one’s system is to act it out, until it becomes less of a big deal.
But I agree with Beautiful Anna: to move on you should see a good counselor. Your desire for this micro chick isn't healthy, rational or morally exemplary, but that's hardly to the point. Erotic desire thrives on political incorrectness and intermittent reinforcement. By some quirk of human psychology, pleasure alternating with pain is far more addictive than just pleasure; and sometimes even the pain itself becomes pleasurable. There're all sorts of deep reasons why both men and women become addicted to, or co-dependent on, the most unsuitable partners. The right counselor should trigger some real self-understanding that might help you get over this—and perhaps restore your commitment to marital fidelity.
Hey t1163, thanks for baring your soul. I love that kind of post. Also love your quote from Oscar Wilde. Amazing, isn't it, how the mask of our anonymous handle helps us tell the truth on a place like PERB?
I totally relate to your fixation on that erratic, safe sex-flaunting Asian micro chick that gave you such an intense burst of pleasure, followed by 3 painful months of no sex and having to lie to your wife...and now those obsessive fantasies about going back to her, to get that fix from her once more.
Speaking of literature, this scenario is reminiscent of Somerset Maugham’s story in OF HUMAN BONDAGE where the protagonist, a doctor, falls obsessively for a waitress named Mildred who harms and exploits and ridicules him in all sorts of ways. And that's precisely what whips his sensual fantasies of her into white heat. Reading this book was quite an effective antidote to getting addicted to inappropriate love partners for me.
Your situation also makes me think of a former girlfriend whose first sexual experience was getting raped as a teenager, and who only got turned on by re-enacting rape & bondage scenarios a la "The Story of O." There’s nothing voluntary about the way fantasies colonize our minds and start delighting or torturing us. And it’s often the worst perversions that are the greatest turn-ons.
t1163, "if you repress you’ll continue to obsess"—so I say, go for it, see this chick again a few times, bang her like crazy (but with a condom). Usually, when there's no real harm to others, the best way to flush an unhealthy fantasy out of one’s system is to act it out, until it becomes less of a big deal.
But I agree with Beautiful Anna: to move on you should see a good counselor. Your desire for this micro chick isn't healthy, rational or morally exemplary, but that's hardly to the point. Erotic desire thrives on political incorrectness and intermittent reinforcement. By some quirk of human psychology, pleasure alternating with pain is far more addictive than just pleasure; and sometimes even the pain itself becomes pleasurable. There're all sorts of deep reasons why both men and women become addicted to, or co-dependent on, the most unsuitable partners. The right counselor should trigger some real self-understanding that might help you get over this—and perhaps restore your commitment to marital fidelity.
maybe not racist but bigoted and judgmental towards guys that maybe just can't afford $300 an hour. not every person on this board makes ceo, executive cash.
lets say the average pooner on here that works and it takes them between 10 to 35 hours depending on wages and work to make $300. would you think its that easy to toss away on an hour of someones time with you, intimate or not? let me tell you, you think twice about where you are spending it.
i haven't in a while but i used to go to asian micro's and as i've said before i've shown these women nothing but respect and often times tipped them more and brought gifts or whatever the case may be.
now if your objection is about forced sex work and human trafficking then i agree with you but i doubt all places are like that and thats not just asian places anyway, lots of eastern european and russian girls unfortunately fall into that horrid situation.
She basically raped him by not using a condom and it's to teach her a lesson. This woman had a job to do and is pay to be safe. She obviously didnt ask him if it was possible to do the session bareback. This bitch will continue this behavior unless some client does something like scream and bitch slap her. You're the cowardly moron.
Im sure every guy she's taken advantage of without asking is as wimpy as you. That's why she probably does this all the time. If those rape victims thought the same way you did nobody will ever be caught. So please dont give me that after the fact bullshit. This guy is just lucky he didnt get some std from this situation or she gets pregnant and sues for child support etc
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Yeah he sounds like a rape victim, he's debating and asking for comments on whether or not he should go back. How many rape victims ask for more?
So you think it will teach her a lesson to punch her in the face?
I pity the women in your life.
Your intelligence is showing again.
The only thing he needed to do is try to inform others about her actions which he sorta did by giving a description of her and her possible locations.
So you think it will teach her a lesson to punch her in the face?
I pity the women in your life.
Your intelligence is showing again.
The only thing he needed to do is try to inform others about her actions which he sorta did by giving a description of her and her possible locations.
That's cause he's thinking with his tiny penis. Ask other pooners how they'd feel about some sp who goes bareback without their permission.
Your wimpy attitude is showing again. You probably smile and take it up the ass if this same sp puts on a strapon and pounds your hairy discusting asshole
Interesting?
Prince Khurram had a harem; multiple wives and concubines. Arjumand (his favorite wife) died from complications following child birth. The Prince became so distraught from the loss of his (favorite wife) that he dedicated the rest of his life to honoring her… his “passion”. Imagine if someone had told him to “get help”? Imagine if a therapist could help him “get over it” and “move on”? The world would not have one of it’s great wonders today!
Prince Khurram built the Taj Mahal in memory of this “favorite wife”!
Interesting what forms this “passion” between men a women can take eh?
Seek help. Help for what? To understand that I am suffering from generations of evolutionary genetic predispositions? Do I need “help” to stomp out this passion? Will I become a better member of this society allowing a therapist to reform me into a monogamous eunuch? Or, was your response you being as facetious as your contemptuous screen name suggests?
Prince Khurram had a harem; multiple wives and concubines. Arjumand (his favorite wife) died from complications following child birth. The Prince became so distraught from the loss of his (favorite wife) that he dedicated the rest of his life to honoring her… his “passion”. Imagine if someone had told him to “get help”? Imagine if a therapist could help him “get over it” and “move on”? The world would not have one of it’s great wonders today!
Prince Khurram built the Taj Mahal in memory of this “favorite wife”!
Interesting what forms this “passion” between men a women can take eh?
I think you are correct, but...
So, thank you. I appreciate your thoughtful reply.
I don't trust myself yet! Your suggestion will more than likely be helpful, but, at this time, if I were in the same position & she tried the same thing I would probably allow it happen! So I am better off (for the time being) to struggle my way through these "withdrawal" symptoms.
So, thank you. I appreciate your thoughtful reply.
I used to see this girl and played safe.
Once, some time ago, she tried with me to go CG without cover, but I stopped her as this is really off the edge.... no BBFS here. Opted for a HJ finish.
Why no cover I asked and she says "customers like and want it". With a reply like that, you can figure how many clients have done BBFS with her, eh?
I haven't seen her since.
Name starts with "T", together with hints in first post of this thread, you know who she is.
Once, some time ago, she tried with me to go CG without cover, but I stopped her as this is really off the edge.... no BBFS here. Opted for a HJ finish.
Why no cover I asked and she says "customers like and want it". With a reply like that, you can figure how many clients have done BBFS with her, eh?
I haven't seen her since.
Name starts with "T", together with hints in first post of this thread, you know who she is.
It would seem that she, rightly or wrongly, T---- got the impression that BBFS was favoured by clients and was giving you the "preferred treatment" with much presumption because you (and t1163 as well) were one of her regulars. She should have asked first -- good that you caught her just in time!
If you don't mind my asking, since you were always playing safe with her anyway, what prompted you to stop? Is it because, knowing what she would do with others, "safe" just isn't safe enough?
I wonder if t1163 might find using a female condom on her an acceptable compromise: it's safer than going BB, yet may still feel "more free" and like your first time. Bring one with you when and if you go back.
yes i am on the focus of forced sex work and like i've said before, i have spoken to a couple of these girls in a language other than english. the reason i focus on asian micros is because they are the most exploited. find me as many threads about other races and paying so little for them.
maybe you don't earn as much as others, and maybe you treat them better but don't give me a sob story about how much you make. I have worked for minimum wage and i STILL DO. I have expensive taste too but i can't afford it so I just save up til i can treat myself once in awhile.
anyways, do what you will, obviously my opinion won't stop you but this is afterall, my opinion. do you REALLY think they wouldn't go to a licensed MP and charge $250 if they could? how much did you really think they get to take home at an asian micro?
Condoms are not 100% safe. There remains risk, albeit greatly reduced. And infection does not happen only through vaginal sex. One takes risks with this hobby, and it makes sense to manage the risk.
Certainly the regular occurrence of SP BBFS raises the stakes; as the prospect of the girl carrying some sort of STD both not so serious and also very serious, as in HIV or Hep-C, is considerably higher.
Who here would have even safe sex with someone who was known to carry HIV or Hep-C? Not me.
So where there is the known fact of regular BBFS with perhaps scores or hundreds of partners (and thereby indirect contact with perhaps thousands of unsafe persons), raising the risk immensely, why would one risk even safe sex with the unsafe SP?
well not that it is your business but what i make suites my lifestyle just fine. also if you still work at an mp then no you don't make min. wage, maybe you do in your civ. job but good for you that you have a great supplementary income eh.
also take into consideration that prices where you are might be different. to go to a massage place around here in vancouver you can still pay under $200 and thats for......................... hold it, wait for it....................
WHITE GIRLS!!!!!! i can name three places in the lower mainland that offer these rates which are a licensed establishment.
also yeah if these women were here on a work visa then yes they might go to a licensed mp, but since most are here on tourist visa's as they are easier to get then that would be illegal for them to work in one of those establishments. have you thought about that? many come here cause they might be a bit on the thicker side for asian men's tastes, or they are a little older and can't get the top dollar they did in china or wherever, so they come to canada cause they can still make some money here.
also yes its a hard ship to just take away $100 or $120 an hour or more out of the $160 to $200 i pay
thats a sarcasm smiley.am i pissed off? yeah a little and i'm not going to back down on this cause like you i have an opinion as well and i'm just as entitled to mine as you are to yours.
for the most part on this board i think you've made valid and good contributions. i've enjoyed a lot of your posts and defended some of your positions in the past. however taking it upon yourself to paint every man on this forum with the same brush that just so happens to pay lower rates based on whatever their reasons may be, i won't put up with.
every situation is unique and every person has different reasons for doing what they do, yet you've taken it upon yourself to be the judge and jury and guess what? we're all guilty in your eyes cause you've talked to these women in their native tongue right? have you talked to all of them? even the ones in different cities? is every single woman that works in an asian micro a victim of sexual slavery? i highly doubt it.
i'm not just speaking for myself here, i'm speaking for every decent man on here that goes to cheaper priced providers whatever their reasons. as long as they treat these women right and with dignity and respect and these women are not victims of sexual slavery or human trafficking, then what business is it of yours? that being said i applaud you if you are actually trying to do something to curb human trafficking and sexual exploitation of women, too many people these days are apathetic and have no empathy for the plight of others. from the sounds of it, you are not one of these people and thats good cause there aren't enough out there.
merry christmas.
Obviously you don't keep up with my posts enough as I actually MADE a thread explicitly stating I quit the MP business. November income? $840 paycheck and about $800 in tips.
my point exactly about if they could choose, they would work in a licensed MP but because they are on tourist visas, they have to resort to those lowlife assholes that fly them around canada.
I can somewhat compare this to buying electronics. If i can't afford the 50" big screen tv at Best Buy, I'll resort to buying it from a booster who stole it for a cheaper price because I can't afford 5k. How is that ok?
i think maybe we are both such strong willed, passionate, stubborn
people that we don't see that we are both agreeing with the same thing.i totally agree with you about not going to places where women are exploited like this. what i'm saying is that i don't think all places treat women like this and i think its wrong of you to paint every perb on here with the same brush. i myself am quite sure that i haven't frequented a place like this. i have made some friends in the industry, sp's to be exact and none of them have those horror stories you speak of.
as for your comparison about the tv. i see where you are going with that but again, shades of grey. i and i'm sure many men would live without a tv as opposed to living without sex. your point of view is from a females point of view and i respect it. however try pumping up your testosterone up 300 points and see how long you can save your pennies and nickles to pay top dollar for a girl that may or may not give you good service before you go nuts.
fact of the matter is some guys just can't afford $300. i'm sorry but thats the way it is. it doesn't mean they are cheap assholes or bastards, i forget what you called them, it just simply means that they can't afford any thing else. if they could, i'm sure they would but they don't and there ya have it. i've seen you state in another thread where "if you don't want a repeat you won't give good service." well how the heck is that fair? do you give the guy half his money back? he did work very hard for it and chose to spend it on you and you chose to give him the bums rush.
i could see $300 girls if i want but i've stated my reasons in many threads before as to why i don't and i think my reasons are quite valid. i work damn hard for the money i make and its up to me where i want to spend it. anyway i think maybe agree to disagree or like i said we are both agreeing but being too stubborn to see it. i think you are a pretty cool customer and i know that i am doing nothing wrong and am not a cheap asshole or bastard.
