Is this why I started in this hobby?

[t1163]

Let me explain...

I was poonin' around this past summer, slowly becoming addicted to the (average) asian micro standard service & price, when all of a sudden... BAM! This fun, bubbly, happy (slightly chubby) middle aged asian chick slams down onto me WITHOUT a condom! I was laying on my back & she was on top of me doin' her thing when she just pounced!

She laughed out loud when I flipped her off of me, but, not before she got me so HOT I came instantly!!?? I was inside her without a condom for about 2 pumps; maybe 2 seconds, & I blew! I haven't blown like that since I was a kid! She completely caught me off guard & it scared (and excited) me!!??

I ran home & showered. I made all kinds of excuses to the SO. I went without sex (intercourse with any SP or the SO) for 3 months until I could get tested. Tests came back just fine! I am lucky I guess!? Or am I??!!

All I can think about is going back to see her!! What is up with that?? I haven't fantasized about a girl this much since high school. I should count myself lucky and move on right? She really isn't that great looking; massage is kind of lame and I can't communicate with her! So what is the deal with me? Why am I finding it so hard to stay away?

She is part of the crew that moves around from Richmond, New West, Surrey, Coquitlam & now Burnaby. She was off the CL ads for awhile back in September & for part of October, but I see her ads all the time now. I don't want to ID her exactly but, if this story creeps you out, don't poon at an asian micro in the Burnaby area for awhile. An experienced pooner will know who I am talking about with the details that I have mentioned in my post.

Fact is, that, although I know she is dangerous &/or crazy, I liked her! I liked her from the first time I met her. And, I am having a hard time getting her out of my mind.

Is this the end of my pooning, or the rerason I started in the first place?

 

[moi]

First of all, I could call you so many names right now as I very firmly don't believe in supporting asian micros at all, but yes, you are a cheap bastard and I do hope you get STDs. And I have no worry of you seeing my friends or myself that work in an MP as you are too cheap for it.

BUT

Most men with HPV don't have any symptoms and so diagnosing HPV in men is difficult. Since there is no treatment for asymptomatic HPV, most men are not treated. It is possible for men to think they have no symptoms when they actually do. That doesn't mean you're in the clear.

HOWEVER, no one can blame you for constantly thinking about this girl even though she has no brain, skills or a personality from what I gather from your post. WHATEVER! The point is, whether you're infatuated with her or in lust with her, DO YOU THINK ITS SAFE to continue fucking this girl? You can barely have a conversation with her, so there's not too much of a connection there above a sexual level, so what makes you think she's not doing this with some other cheap asshole who likes to take advantage of a cheap fuck as well?

But hey, that's just my 2 cents.

 

[DQ Guy]

In the words of the great Jim..


ARE YOU INSANE!!!

 

[eurhythmia]

Geez, a fella bares what's troubling him and a couple of f*ck-wits offer their tender mercies. Well T your not the first to have a sex-crush on an SP. Hell I've been nursing regrets for not seeing the fabulous Ivy more when she was working at Tom's. And I was seeing her almost every other day for a couple of months until I got sent overseas. Upon my return she was gone. And I'm not the only perbert lamenting her absence.

Sure, an SP jumpin on you without a condom is a mighty serious concern. I would've freaked figuring her to be purposely wanting to infect another or being a bug-chaser.

Frankly don't see her again. And go ahead and post her details. It's always Bro's before Ho's. You protect me, I protect you.

Now go drop some zinc (for face painting) and fuck off (in a good way of course).

 

[DQ Guy]

This has to do with the BBFS...

Crazy talk I tell you. you just don't do that.
Think how many other guys has she done that with??

 

[anonanon]

If she BBFS's you then how many other people will she BBFS, without warning?

Stupid, stupid, stupid....

 

[slamma]

I can relate to your sense of panic t1163. Fifteen years ago I was an avid pooner here in Edmonton. Off the top of my head I can recall five times when a SP or a SW offered BBFS and there most likely were several more times that I just don't remember. Every time she was the one who initiated it. Twice I was loaded and went ahead with it, twice I had the presence of mind to decline and I wrapped it, and the other time I can't recall what happened, it was so long ago. After the first BBFS I remember how I raced home and took the ol' water blast shower scouring every part of my body for an hour. Luckily I didn't have a SO at the time.

And moi, you must be awful young and naive to think that this only occurs in asian micros. To my knowledge Edmonton didn't even have asian micros back then. One of these incidents happened with a SW on the high track and the other four times in MPs - every time with caucasian girls. In fact some of those MPs still exist ( although they may have had a name change or two, or twelve ) .

I have been back in the hobby for a year now, about thirteen sessions. I'm sure that BBFS is even more rare these days than before. But how can you be sure what your ' friends ' do in the room ? I'm sure that the fellow SPs of the ones I mention didn't know what they did in the room. I am older and wiser and I have seen the shit a lot of SPs engage in so I will never be talked into it again. But by the same token I have a better grasp than ever before of how competitive this industry is and what some girls will do to get or steal ( as they see it ) a particular client. There is no doubt that in some circles there is a big demand for BBFS. I saw what happened with the desperation in this industry during the eighties. With the looming economic slowdown do you think there will be more or less of this being offered to some behind closed doors ?

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

not sure what you label it, but I've certainly had 3-4 encounters where the condom has broken...I guess that's almost the same as BBFS, albeit unintended.

 

[mclovin76]

I think that in the heat of the moment we as humans can have prehistoric feelings of procreation and lust that can b overwhealming

 

[MrPeterNorth]

We've been procreating for the last how many years? And it's only in the last 15-20 years that condoms have been a must for everything.

We're talking about an industry where 'money talks'. If you think BBFS does not occur in the city of Vancouver on a daily basis, you need to give your head a shake.

I'm not condoning it - but we can't get on his case for being honest and sharing his story either.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

I would kick her ass and give her a beating if she pulled that stunt on me. You must have lost a few of your marbles to let a sp do this to u. Maybe it's the same chick who offered ITB bareback service. Plus i dont care if there are some asian gangster dude standing outside she still wouldnt have gotten away with it.

middle aged asian chick slams down onto me WITHOUT a condom! I was laying on my back & she was on top of me doin' her thing when she just pounced!

She laughed out loud when I flipped her off of me

 

[schizo_man]

Sometimes I wonder the exact dangers of BBFS. I know it exists between escorts and clients. Yet I wonder where are all the outbreaks that should be occuring?

would you broadcast it if you had an STD?

 

[Yman]

you need to give your head a shake.

This has got to be one of the most overused stupid expressions ! It's almost always used to question someone's judgement. Will shaking their head improve their outlook or decision process ? Maybe a brain shake caused the problem in the first place.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

Having an SO is why this is wrong. If you didn't have an SO than I would say do whatever you want, it's your life and you may or may not have any consequences to pay. But if you have an SO and you're sexually active with her, than this is just wrong.

 

[t1163]

I hear you...

I think this is the reason you started in the first place man. The risk, the rush. Whether you want to admit it or not, you liked she did you without a rubber & you'll go back and let it happen again.

But, it's like a drug!

I am struggling with myself to stay away. Each & every time I get the urge I have to talk myself out of calling - what the hell!! I'm an old man; I've been around the block; I know what an infatuation is. Yet, I'm drawn to her? I haven't seen her in (more than) 5 months - you'd think I'd be over it by now?

I am "o.k." with some of you guys giving me shit, but, here is the thing:

I liked her! The fact that she works in an asian micro, can't speak english and only charges $ is beside the point! I liked her! I can't help that she made me so hot I had forgotten what it felt like to be that excited!! I haven't felt that way in years!!

It sucks that I have to let her go.

I'll never see her again & I'm whinning about it to you guys.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Can she use you to stay in the country if she gets pregnant & child support? Id be careful if i where u and think of every possible outcome. They have a record of who calls with the cellphones and im sure it isnt that hard to find out who u are.

But, it's like a drug!

I am struggling with myself to stay away. Each & every time I get the urge I have to talk myself out of calling - what the hell!! I'm an old man; I've been around the block; I know what an infatuation is. Yet, I'm drawn to her? I haven't seen her in (more than) 5 months - you'd think I'd be over it by now?

I am "o.k." with some of you guys giving me shit, but, here is the thing:

I liked her! The fact that she works in an asian micro, can't speak english and only charges $ is beside the point! I liked her! I can't help that she made me so hot I had forgotten what it felt like to be that excited!! I haven't felt that way in years!!

It sucks that I have to let her go.

I'll never see her again & I'm whinning about it to you guys.

 

[moi]

And moi, you must be awful young and naive to think that this only occurs in asian micros. To my knowledge Edmonton didn't even have asian micros back then. One of these incidents happened with a SW on the high track and the other four times in MPs - every time with caucasian girls. In fact some of those MPs still exist ( although they may have had a name change or two, or twelve ) .

I never said it ONLY happens there. I was merely pointing out the fact he is even contemplating going back, AND the fact that he supports asian micros. YOU may not read my posts often but EVERYONE that knows ME knows i hate those places and anyone who posts a thread about I'll say something about it.
As for the unsafe sex thing I think that's just fucked for ANYONE to have a SO and still be on the fence about a BBFS. That's just wrong on so many levels. Even for girls that offer. I sure as hell I don't ever work with any! You know what they say: You can always judge a person by the company they keep.

 

[schizo_man]

ya know, bb anything is bad. these days I even use a rubber glove when wack off, hey I know where my hand has been!

 

[ShqTth]

dude you were raped.


And now you have a fetish about it with her.

in one way or another all guys fantasize about this.

I don't blame you.

But taking her age, and what she does for a job, your lucky you didn't get anything yet.

So don't risk it.

The fact she did 'rape' you, means it puts her in a catagory of the women you shouldnt touch with a 30 foot poll.

Your better then that to chase the nastys.


Its too bad she doesn't speak english then she could clarify things better. Who knows it could be one in a lifetime thing for her, and you will never find out. But chances are that is just a pipe dream.

But if you like her and have a fetish about her, go get her tested,,, and then test her in another 3 months, then in another 6 months etc, then she is safe to fuck for sure.

But can you wait that long? And will she avoid doing her job that long?

And how do you explain this to her?


See, there is no way it will work, so enjoy the fantasy while it lasted.
And be lucky that nothing happened bad and that you got your kicks.
The chance of you winning the lottery twice and walking away a winner is not likely at all.


But just to be safe, try refrain from pooning until your urge clears as BBFS presents itself a lot so it seems.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

he should have clenched his fist and punched her in the face

dude you were raped.