Advice: Reference Checks

[kd75]

One pooner got killed by a party girl and it was all over the news. How many sex workers have died / gone missing and it’s not reported? The media is clearly working to make you think we are as dangerous as men are.

“give stranger the power to potentially hurt someone” welcome to being a person who sleeps with/interacts with men/lives in the world. Welcome to my reality, my every day, my job, my personal life, me walking home at night, or even in broad daylight.

you need a reality check my friend

We all here ( whether it is pooners or SW) preach for people to always be cautious and prudent, and sending you adress and info to someone you dont know is quite certainly the definition of imprudence,thats exactly what my advice was. Clearly you agree that showing someone where you live is not the most prudent thing to do ( this is why you don't do it).

I’m upset because you’re seeing danger where there is none. I know what real danger is and giving an established provider ID is not it.

Don't get upset for no reason Charlee. I have never said that it you were dangerous, I was just saying it gives the ability of people to become dangerous, theres a slight difference. Again you talking from your POV which is ok, and Im talking from a pooner POV, the two arent the same. And I can guarantee you that theres not no danger whatsoever for pooner. I will never dismiss or diminish the dangers that SW have to deal with, but I am not going to do the same with pooners either. Your thinking is 2 dimensional, it seems like it is a us vs them . Not my views at all. It is safer for any individual when people don't know their personal info than when people do. This is a simple fact wheter it is in this buisness or anywhere else. The less things people have that can hurt you, the less likely they will try to hurt you, its as simple.

 

[kd75]

We all here ( whether it is pooners or SW) preach for people to always be cautious and prudent, and sending you adress and info to someone you dont know is quite certainly the definition of imprudence,thats exactly what my advice was. Clearly you agree that showing someone where you live is not the most prudent thing to do ( this is why you don't do it).

Don't get upset for no reason Charlee. I have never said that it you were dangerous, I was just saying it gives the ability of people to become dangerous, theres a slight difference. Again you talking from your POV which is ok, and Im talking from a pooner POV, the two arent the same. And I can guarantee you that theres not no danger whatsoever for pooner. I will never dismiss or diminish the dangers that SW have to deal with, but I am not going to do the same with pooners either. Your thinking is 2 dimensional, it seems like it is a us vs them . Not my views at all. It is safer for any individual when people don't know their personal info than when people do. This is a simple fact wheter it is in this buisness or anywhere else. The less things people have that can hurt you, the less likely they will try to hurt you, its as simple.

You come in the middle of a conversation about pooners about our safety, then complained that our main concerns are our safety. doesn't make sense

 

[blakealridge]

Don’t be stupid and give your ID to someone who isn’t legit. You’d give your ID to so many other people. It’s discrimination 🤷🏼‍♀️ don’t be stupid but don’t be so paranoid either. I’m telling you that giving a reputable provider your ID isn’t unsafe.

 

[blakealridge]

Misinformation and paranoia and discrimination like this convo makes it more likely we will have to put ourselves at risk by seeing complete strangers without ID.

 

[kd75]

Don’t be stupid and give your ID to someone who isn’t legit. You’d give your ID to so many other people. It’s discrimination 🤷🏼‍♀️ don’t be stupid but don’t be so paranoid either. I’m telling you that giving a reputable provider your ID isn’t unsafe.

ok so with the same logic, if I show you my ID then I become safe right? Then would show me also your ID as well? ( because you said the reason for asking is because you don't know me). has nothing to do with discrimination. "You'd give your ID to so many people"... Hum no not really no....

 

[blakealridge]

ok so with the same logic, if I show you my ID then I become safe right? Then would show me also your ID as well? ( because you said the reason for asking is because you don't know me). has nothing to do with discrimination. "You'd give your ID to so many people"... Hum no not really no....

Why do I need to show you my ID? I’ve already proven myself with my brand. How else are you going to prove yourself?

 

[zippy45]

I’m upset because you’re seeing danger where there is none. I know what real danger is and giving an established provider ID is not it.

At no point did the OP say it was a reputable provider, so you may be talking about 2 different things

 

[kd75]

Misinformation? I'm not sure I have really used information, but I would love for you to tell me precisely which of the info that I used is not real. And I dont see how saying that giving personal info to a stranger increases the likelihood of the info being used is paranoid, please explain to me.

Why do I need to show you my ID? I’ve already proven myself with my brand. How else are you going to prove yourself?

So if have an instagram with thousands of subs does it delete the need for my ID, or do I still need to send it?
I'm not going to speak for all pooners but you prove yourself to me ( I'm really sorry about wording just using the same as yours) when the services that I had paid for are met not before, thats quite literally one of the main reasons we do reviews, otherwse just a website would suffice.
Misinformation? I'm not sure I have really used information, but I would love for you to tell me precisely which of the info that I used is not real. And I dont see how saying that giving personal info to a stranger increases the likelihood of the info being used is paranoid, please explain to me. Are we also paranoid when we say don't send e-transfer?

 

[blakealridge]

At no point did the OP say it was a reputable provider, so you may be talking about 2 different things

Yeah I know haha: I’ve definitely mentioned a couple of times REPUTABLE. I did my time without screening and it was a nightmare but I understand no one knew who I was yet 🤷🏼‍♀️

 

[kd75]

At no point did the OP say it was a reputable provider, so you may be talking about 2 different things

reputable, no reputable same thing, does not matter to me. No prepaid, no personal info. I don't ask SW for anything in advance so I am expecting the same. Thats what kept me safe for the last 10 years with hundreds of women in more than 5 countries. But sure each their own

 

[blakealridge]

So if have an instagram with thousands of subs does it delete the need for my ID, or do I still need to send it?
I'm not going to speak for all pooners but you prove yourself to me ( I'm really sorry about wording just using the same as yours) when the services that I had paid for are met not before, thats quite literally one of the main reasons we do reviews, otherwse just a website would suffice.
Misinformation? I'm not sure I have really used information, but I would love for you to tell me precisely which of the info that I used is not real. And I dont see how saying that giving personal info to a stranger increases the likelihood of the info being used is paranoid, please explain to me. Are we also paranoid when we say don't send e-transfer?

Honestly there’s no point talking to you anymore 😂

 

[blakealridge]

reputable, no reputable same thing, does not matter to me. No prepaid, no personal info. I don't ask SW for anything in advance so I am expecting the same.

You don’t expect anything from an SP? No photos, ad, info, nothing? Wild 🤔

 

[zippy45]

reputable, no reputable same thing, does not matter to me. No prepaid, no personal info. I don't ask SW for anything in advance so I am expecting the same. Thats what kept me safe for the last 10 years with hundreds of women in more than 5 countries. But sure each their own

Technically you have her adress phone number, and usually a photo

 

[kd75]

Honestly there’s no point talking to you anymore 😂

You don’t expect anything from an SP? No photos, ad, info, nothing? Wild 🤔

Apparently, there is no point talking to me to answer my question, but theres point to answer yours? Clearly you didnt get my last message its ok.

 

[kd75]

Technically you have her adress phone number, and usually a photo

obviously I was talking about not expecting extra than the minimum ( I thought it was implied).

 

[blakealridge]

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Yeah I know haha: I’ve definitely mentioned a couple of times REPUTABLE. I did my time without screening and it was a nightmare but I understand no one knew who I was yet 🤷🏼‍♀️

obviously I was talking about not expecting extra than the minimum ( I thought it was implied).

IMHO the minimum is knowing the identity of the strange man who is going to come over to my house and fuck me. Sorry I’m asking so much lol

 

[blakealridge]

If you’re a public figure with as much notoriety as me, yes, I will see you without ID.

So if have an instagram with thousands of subs does it delete the need for my ID, or do I still need to send it?
I'm not going to speak for all pooners but you prove yourself to me ( I'm really sorry about wording just using the same as yours) when the services that I had paid for are met not before, thats quite literally one of the main reasons we do reviews, otherwse just a website would suffice.
Misinformation? I'm not sure I have really used information, but I would love for you to tell me precisely which of the info that I used is not real. And I dont see how saying that giving personal info to a stranger increases the likelihood of the info being used is paranoid, please explain to me. Are we also paranoid when we say don't send e-transfer?

 

[kd75]

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IMHO the minimum is knowing the identity of the strange man who is going to come over to my house and fuck me. Sorry I’m asking so much lol

Charlee you have to make up your mind: Either theres point talking to me and you present your arguments and we have a civil conversation, or as you said 2 mins ago theres no point talking to me and therefore you refrain from messaging me ( both are fine by me). But it can't be this back and forth when you refuse to address what I write when it suits you just to be sarcastic or place you POV as universal truth ( this is not how an exchange of POV works I am sorry). Thanks

 

[blakealridge]

Charlee you have to make up your mind: Either theres point talking to me and you present your arguments and we have a civil conversation, or as you said 2 mins ago theres no point talking to me and therefore you refrain from messaging me ( both are fine by me). But it can't be this back and forth when you refuse to address what I write when it suits you just to be sarcastic or place you POV as universal truth ( this is not how an exchange of POV works I am sorry). Thanks

I replied to your question 😂 misinformation is saying it’s unsafe to share your ID with an established business.

 

[kd75]

I replied to your question 😂 misinformation is saying it’s unsafe to share your ID with an established business.

questions not Question but sure. 1st off you might want to check the difference between information and point of view. Second tell me, how is sharing personal information bears no possible safety issue( whether it is physical safety, safety of these info, and more)? We have literally threads here where pooners urged one another to do do incalls for safety reason. So explain to me how it is not.