A time I get to spend with family and friends is what counts for me. As for presents, my little nephews opening gifts is what does it for me. I agree that Christmas has become way too commercialized. I used to get stressed out about holidays (what to get various family gifts, who is hosting the dinner, etc.) but now, for me its a time to relax, drink rum and eggnog, bourbon and eggnog, spiced whiskey and eggnog and watch the wood fire crackle in the fireplace as I doze off into my turkey coma. A lot of people hate Christmas, I do not blame them. I think Christmas is what you decide to make of it.