Who do you attract the most?
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Losers. (No judgment) LOL
I think most men are fairly clueless when a female is hitting on them. I know I am. I will say that gay men tend to hit on me. I take it as a compliment because I must be doing something right.lol
Cats and dogs mostly, when it comes to the female of the species,I'm clueless..
If a beautiful woman comes out of nowhere and starts talking to me I get suspicious.
I think “Hey, woman aren’t attracted to me. What the hell does she want ?”
I think “Hey, woman aren’t attracted to me. What the hell does she want ?”
Other than when I'm out at a bar, work or through social circle, I only get hit on by a woman maybe once a year, if even that. Sometimes a random girl will strike up a conversation with me in public, but it's usually not very direct, so I don't really count it as being approached unless I make a move to get her number or something.
Back when I was a male stripper, it was mostly the ladies in their 30s to 60s who were the most aggressive and entitled. They often broke the rules and crossed boundaries. If a man acted the way these women did towards male strippers, they would probably get cancelled, beaten up, or thrown in jail. I noticed that the older or heavier the women were, the creepier and more aggressive they tended to be.
women are pretty selective when it comes to swiping on dating apps - they tend to only swipe right on about 5-10% of guys they come across statistically.
Back when I was a male stripper, it was mostly the ladies in their 30s to 60s who were the most aggressive and entitled. They often broke the rules and crossed boundaries. If a man acted the way these women did towards male strippers, they would probably get cancelled, beaten up, or thrown in jail. I noticed that the older or heavier the women were, the creepier and more aggressive they tended to be.
women are pretty selective when it comes to swiping on dating apps - they tend to only swipe right on about 5-10% of guys they come across statistically.
I tend to attract Asian woman. I just put a profile on Bumble. So out of 10 women who responded to me 7/10 are Asian. Maybe cause I’m Asian. I tend to swipe to all ethnicities I find attractive females without any regard to race
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In the past it seemed like bad ass ladies seemed to get interested in me. I’ve been told I’m a nice guy so that could be why. Of course not a rule but I’ve seen many times where the nice quiet type girls are attracted to the bad ass guys, and the bad ass girls are attracted to the nice guys and vice versa. However being a supposed nice guy, I actually still have mostly preferred nice sweet girls.
Now, a good majority of my time, when I’m out I’m with the kids the most that I would get would be admiration, because not too many are lining up to show me there attracted to me, and I would probably be oblivious if they someone was.
Now, a good majority of my time, when I’m out I’m with the kids the most that I would get would be admiration, because not too many are lining up to show me there attracted to me, and I would probably be oblivious if they someone was.
I know how that is, I’m Asian whom dates or are attracted to Caucasian women. Dating apps don’t work for me, I go old school and talk to them in the real world face to face. I get a lot of success with that.
also I tend to attract married women or moms, messy situations. Super fun tho lol
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I guess you didn’t read my post clear enough, I never said I believed I was a nice guy. I said I’ve been told ( which has been often through my life). I’m not self proclaiming anything. And in the other sentence I said “being a SUPPOSED nice guy.” You can interpret that how you want to, but you are misunderstanding what I actually said.” If I said I’ve been told I was a fake guy and that being a “supposed” fake guy, would you think I was announcing my fakeness?
Just sayin 🤷🏼♂️
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Ive had so many mixed messages over the years I dont even know if someone is hitting on me
I was at the beach recently. Someone's doggie brought me a stick and wanted to play fetch. Walked up and down the beach throwing a stick for nearly an hour.
That's the highlight of the past three years being single. Some random puppy thought I was fun.
That's the highlight of the past three years being single. Some random puppy thought I was fun.
You have a lot of inquiries, 10 is a lot!! You are really doing something right if as an Asian you are attracting Asians. Most Asian women want white guys.
A woman could be bent over showing me her butthole and I figure she wants me to check to see if she has hemorrhoids 🤔
Lol. When setting up a profile Photoshop the pics. Lie about your age Sound a lot like what the SPs do with their ads , Right ?
It helps if you implied you are well off and generous and fun to be in your description too.
I don’t agree that most Asian women want white guys.
I think it’s common feeling a girl of any race would want a Brad Pitt/George Clooney type that pops up
But there are many Asian women that like to date their ethnicity and outside
Garden Gnomes & future ex-husbands!!
Nope. I'm bigger and stronger than most of my friends, but have a gentle demeanor. Much higher than average income, so those in our circles look up to me. I've been told that I am the typical 'manly man', whatever that is. I don't, and won't, ever hit on someone else's wife or girlfriend.
I had a friend who's wife would gawk at me rather awkwardly. I wasn't comfortable with it. They divorced.
