I’ll play, I mostly attract older white men, 40+. Real estate brokers/investors or accountants to be more specific.
Who do you attract the most?
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Me too!
There’s always notes in my mailbox from agents offering free evaluations. And we know they aren’t talking about my house.
Speaking of that, there’s a restaurant in my city (Montreal) that once left flyers on cars parked on the street and it was just a white lined sheet with “see you at [name of the restaurant] on [day of the opening]” written in a font that looked like it had been made with lipstick and it got a few men in trouble 😅
Asian women mostly. I'm on Bumble most of the time but my matches usually time out before they reach out it fizzles out quickly.
Seems like I still have a lot of work when I comes to getting to know people on dating apps
Seems like I still have a lot of work when I comes to getting to know people on dating apps
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None but im also the type to completely miss any ques in being hit on. Otherwise I'd say it's usually just my fellow brownies.
I agree most men don't fit that criteria, so do you think women in those relationships approached the men first? He's not saying you need those to be in a relationship lol. I don't agree with his criteria but I do believe you have to be somewhat exceptional to be approached.
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I think the fact of the matter is most of us tend to play games. If a guy is exceptional as you stated, I think a lot of women if they were interested would not want to make things obvious but play it cool and be more subtle. If it is an exceptional guy who’s well put together, I think a lot wouldn’t want to look needy or desperate because they figure he might not take to that, all the while he see’s her and also wants to play it cool, so he doesn’t look directly and doesn’t spark up a conversation or give off any signals for fear of showing her any interest, when he might actually be. So they go their merry way and nothing comes of it. We kind of shoot ourselves in the foot that way sometimes. I guess that’s why alcohol is so attractive to many, or aka liquid courage. Not sure if any body can relate, or maybe just the story of my life.
Young cocky athletic types live in a reality of abundance so they don’t need to wait for girls to approach . Because they approach women all the time w no fucks given . They don’t even have to think of it as an approach as it’s just another day . If they get rejected they could care less and move on to someone else .
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maybe its a generation gap here, but I disagree with this.
I know some and am friends with some good looking, well-put-together guys who have a lot of female attention and have woman throwing themselves at them constantly. Whenever we hang out, it's common for them to be approached. It's not like the woman are playing games or anything, they approach and make the first move. Even if the woman doesn't initiate the approach, they usually give clear signals that they'd like the guy to come talk to them. If you take a peek at these guys' dating apps and dm's, you'll see that they're bombarded with messages from a ton of attractive girls, many even offering easy sex.
And that's just scratching the surface with good-looking guys who have their shit together. I know some guys who are professional athletes and minor celebrities, and their experiences are on a completely different level.
I don't personally know a lot of confident and attractive guys who hesitate to approach women, especially when they receive positive signals. This is particularly true for good looking men, as even if a woman turns them down, it is often done in a friendly and polite manner.
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Ya could be a generation gap or the circles you run in. Maybe I’ve been out of the “game” so long, and just remembering and reliving my high school and young adults days.
I think where I might have been wrong was when I said “most” which was probably a little presumptive. I was giving a scenario however, that I think would be fairly common, I could be wrong. But I don’t think all of those “exceptional” guys are always looking for woman to throw themselves at them and a woman who’s interested might pick up on that, and not all women are so straightforward. Are all “exceptional” men who fit the criteria outgoing? There are all sorts of personalities even in the rich, buff, tall guys. I just heard a lot of guys on this thread say they are oblivious to when a girl is interested in them. I can’t imagine that all these oblivious guys as they have stated themselves ( not my words) have never had women interested in them. I am also speaking as one that doesn’t fall into that category of “exceptional” guys since I don’t meet all the criteria mentioned (6'2+ , white, a millionaire and have muscles). I pass on one for sure, I do have muscles but underneath a couple layers. I am going a bit on assumptions in my scenario and maybe a slight exaggeration, but with your experience I stand corrected. I haven’t really rolled with that scene of high profile famous people, so I appreciate your point of view in this matter. Most of my friends are middle class married with children.
Having said all that, I have picked up at times that certain women were interested in me and other times I have been oblivious later to find out they were interested in me. Most of those times it was too late.
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