What To Say?

[FunSugarDaddy]

Tell 'em the truth

I know easy for me to say.

Personally I think the more people know about this activity and the people who engage in it, the less it'll be stigmatized.

The average SP is far from being a crack-head living on the street, most are intelligent, attractive women with goals and aspirations.

And the average John is far removed from the loser watching porn in theatres by himself. Many are single guys wanting to get laid, or married guys looking for attention, and many are professionals.

 

[treveller]

More than just one for the Team

All you women who show your faces on your web sites and in your adds are doing everyone a favour by showing you don't need to hide who you are and what you do for a living. I hope it all works out well for you and you prosper by your choices.

 

[kisskiss]

i appreciate every ones imput. ive taken into consideration. offcause being human a handfull of people close to me know but not family. most accept it and those that dont are just really conserned.


for the guys that see girls regulary (and say i should just be who i am and tell the truth) what i wonder is if you tell your gf's family and freinds about your regular visits? if its hard for you to admit to seeing a girl on the regular then imagine being the girl on the regular for many people. (im talking in general not necessarily about myself)

in other words, its easier said than done. we are all caution is sometimes necessary especially if this is not something you want to make a career of.

 

[Good Gloria]

very good

LOL

Exactly what I was thinking. But I decided to play nice. Well, for now anyway.

I especially liked how the ad was not all in the first post, which of course would have been detected right away, but that she just added a little here, and a little there.


im rather new to the industry

my ever booked schedule (that one was a nice touch)

young girl who is very independent


im a fitness buff

personal training WHICH IVE DONE in the past

im stil in great shape

im not as muscular as i used to.



Nice intro, then hook them with a nice mental picture (good choice on going with personal trainer instead of bikini or fitness model, which would have been a give-away)

So, basically all we need is some details about , a comment about how much you love men (again, more subtle than saying you love sex), or maybe how much you like to be naked whenever you can.

Hmm. Yup, that's about it. And no one ever saw it coming. Whew.

Same question...what to say I do !

To family and in this lounge, as both have to be lied to !!

 

[deslicher]

I cant spell either so hubbahubba can kiss my ass.

If you live by yourself then how would anyone know you are traveling around ?

The only thing i can think of is tell them that you do some work with theater shows that travel city to city. I dunno, it would be hard to cover up.

Its like me being 25 and single traveling from Vegas to Amsterdam to Bangkok all the time. Its hard to cover up.

To your last sentence: Why? Because you are a drug dealer/runner? Or a human trafficker???

 

[Mojo]

Pro Poker Player

 

[lenny]

for the guys that see girls regulary (and say i should just be who i am and tell the truth) what i wonder is if you tell your gf's family and freinds about your regular visits?

There's no need to. They know we're at the gym working out ; .

OTOH, if these guys were making regular visits to Vegas, NYC &
Bangcock w/o the GF, that might be something else. Something
to attract the attention of the GFs antenae.

BTW i've been spending the winters in BKK & tell family members
i'm there for the economical "massages" ;

 

[blazejowski]

Pro Poker Player

Millionaire Astronaut Cowboy, to be exact....

 

[Banger77]

and live double lies ripped me apart emotionally.. and you end up living in a world alone, secluded from those you love and are close to. I would say tell who can so at least you can still be who you are around them, and you wont lose the bond of friendships, and family around you. Those two things are very important to have in your life.

I agree mostly with Tianna except you are leading a more of double life than a lie. This may sound stupid but, a good analogy is the batman; the way his butler Alfred is always there for him to patch his wounds, listen to his problems and cover his unual disappearances. Thou it's just a fake person; the essential point is you need confidant(s) to rely on for support.

Whatever job title you decide to use your confidant(s) have your back covered.