"I am blessed". A thank you to the wonderful women here!

[Buddyguy66]

I had a visit with an SP for the first time who asked me...what brought you here?

An interesting question and I think I've thought about it more as...why do I choose to do this and how do I decide to see who I see? So...Its not "for the hobby"..its not "for the sex" (well it is..but much more than that)..its not to "pop my cherry".

I do have a "type" I favour..no doubt on the who do I want to see front..I have broken type to dabble out of curiosity, variety or based on reviews..

But I'm drawn back to a woman really⁸..by how she treats me in the moment. I'm under no illusions that there's a relationship to be had, mind. Just enjoy the company of a woman who has the ability to leave me feeling emotionally and physically "well" when I walk out the door.

I've met probably 3 SPs who have that talent (out of say 15 i've met from BC to Alberta).

So saying all that in meeting one if these favorite SPs this weekend I intend to:

-Thank her for her time and being a kind and attentive woman

-Ask her if I can be a once a month regular (not taking for granted my money talks)

-Tell her how I appreciate very much, what she does.

I think its easy to take for granted its just about the money for an SP. But I know for some it is more than that. Almost a calling? And I've been blessed in this journey so far, to meet some treasures.

PS. I told her because I am lonely. Certainly true but hardly all if it.

Happy Friday!

 

[happycanuck99]

This is so well put, and I so whole-heartedly agree! Thanks for articulating this.

 

[GeeBeeP]

"the ability to leave me feeling emotionally and physically "well" when I walk out the door." This articulates my reason for seeing an SP perfectly. Thank you for putting it into words.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I think you are a pretty good guy Buddyguy66! Very well said, all of it.

Mind you some of us are just really horny but you got the jist of the game.

 

[Kikoolol]

-Ask her if I can be a once a month regular (not taking for granted my money talks)

What do you mean? Why not simply making a booking request every month? Are you trying to negotiate her rate? What kind of carrot are you dangling here?

 

[Buddyguy66]

No carrot. Especially with Covid, I've noted a lot of providers are advertising they are being very low volume and in some cases are indicating being more selective. I'm not looking for a discount. I do hope that if I would like to have regular visits with someone, they are agreeable (assuming we continue to have a mutually satisfying arrangement).

Again, I am not assuming that simply because I have the money and they have the time on their schedule, that they would like to see me. Its my own personal sense of respect and courtesy. Especially if its someone I would like to see again and again.

 

[grusse]

I like Buddy's post and his outlook.

For me, it's about connection....there are some sessions that seem robotic, others where the lady is fully engaged.
Conversation adds to any meeting.

Nice feeling to walk out knowing you'll see the lady again for another top time.

 

[Buddyguy66]

I like Buddy's post and his outlook.

For me, it's about connection....there are some sessions that seem robotic, others where the lady is fully engaged.
Conversation adds to any meeting.

Nice feeling to walk out knowing you'll see the lady again for another top time.

Thanks for the above and everyone else for thoughts.i'm not looking to start a debate with anyone here. More simply, we should honour and thank our favorite SPs especially..but really all SPs for what they provide to us..especially with the crazy world these days.whether you do it with a kind word, a tip, a gift or maybe an expensive pillow (true story)... I'm thankful to the women i've met and to those I hope to meet again....an extra special thank you.

 

[Sophia Fae YVR]

What do you mean? Why not simply making a booking request every month? Are you trying to negotiate her rate? What kind of carrot are you dangling here?

It sounded like more of a conversation about consent to me 🤷🏻‍♀️

 

[Buddyguy66]

It sounded like more of a conversation about consent to me 🤷🏻‍♀️

Exactly!🙂

 

[steverino]

People will forget what you said
People will forget what you did
But people will never forget how you made them feel

Maya Angelou

 

[angry anderson]