How important are the following for Women?

[VanessaofBC]

"Being poor is a frame of mind."
-- Mike Todd
What do you think of money?
Our beliefs create our reality. If you have struggled with money most of your adult life, chances are that something happened when you were young to create limiting beliefs around money and prosperity. Look back to your early years. What beliefs did your parents and other influential adults have about money? Chances are you're also carrying those beliefs. Are they serving you?

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[BORKO]

Your accountant is a magician if your 95k a year gross is netting you 72k. You're just thinking income tax, right? I wasn't. You can't live life in Canada avoiding all the other taxes and still function.

Anyways, even if we just look at income taxes and ignore all the other obligatory taxes we all pay just to live, putting someone in the top 7.5% of wage earners is not reasonable. Why do I say this? Because the income is not earned in the same manner as the income of an SP, you know what I mean? So can it be deemed a reasonable expectation that is spawned from what one is "accustomed to"? Did you know that the top 10% of wage earners account for 80% of the income? Being in the top 7.5% is being within that top 10%.

As for "business" costs, please do tell us what the business cost of an independant SP are that would change the figure significantly? I'd say the revenue to costs ratio are about 98%. 2% cost is not significant enough to call it cost in the "business" sense of the word.

As for money buying happiness, and not much happiness being bought above 75k/year household income, that I think largely depends on how hard it was to earn the additional income. If it is extremely taxing, then why would someone want the added stress. On the other hand, if it's a pretty easy or passive income, then why the hell not have more money. Having more money is not something people get unhappy over.

Now of course I'm not planning on proposing to C.Parker, but all I've been ranting about is this common thing I've found when it comes to the vagaries of the statement used by such, "what I'm accustomed to", when brought into the harsh light of SP economics in the real world.

What other taxes are you talking about other than income tax are you talking about? Deductions for EI or CPP?

 

[bcneil]

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You are aware this guy has been banned permanent a few times.

 

[BORKO]

You are aware this guy has been banned permanent a few times.

I thought he volunteered to be banned once? Or was this not tobleroney?

 

[PlayfulAlex]

snip...I make good money (a little over 310K per year) and I don't brag about it, but this is the first time I've ever had someone do that to me lol.

Oh really.......................... :eyebrows:

And did I miss something?

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You are aware this guy has been banned permanent a few times.

 

[VanessaofBC]

I thought he volunteered to be banned once? Or was this not tobleroney?

Yes. He asked to be removed last night, I was informed by a credible source.

IDK who tobleroney is/was or why you guys don't like him but he is just a kid with too many hormones. IMO. Whatever...countdown until his return.....

 

[PlayfulAlex]

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You are aware this guy has been banned permanent a few times.

Yes. He asked to be removed last night, I was informed by a credible source.

IDK who tobleroney is/was or why you guys don't like him but he is just a kid with too many hormones. IMO. Whatever...countdown until his return.....

Again, forgive my ignorance, but who are we talking about? OMGoodness, BonerHB? What happened? Yeah, never mind...peace and harmony is such a nice thing!

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Forget Tolblerony or whatever his name is, I'm trying to figure out why people laughed at Vanessa's 40K/year comment. Reading some of the comments here, you'd think I was the only 99%'er on this forum.

All smoke and mirrors, my dear...I didn't laugh, as you can tell from my comments!

 

[VanessaofBC]

All smoke and mirrors, my dear...I didn't laugh, as you can tell from my comments!

Exactly. The more ,money you have the more debt you have. Just because it looks like you HAVE money, does not actually mean you have any. Plain and simple. It costs a lot of money to pay the mortgage & car payment for one person a month let alone two. I am thankful we live in a time where transit is getting more efficient and car sharing is becoming common. That cuts back on a huge expense. I think after that it would be food & entertainment. For a single person anyway.

 

[Dickson]

I find this very interesting. Perspective is everything. Every thing is relative. I personally live in a different world. The women in my past are very much focused on what I can give them. That is one reason I keep my income low. However my companies pay my expenses. I work all the time so it is all expenses and I make little.
The women I know out side of SP try and hide it but they are worst than SPs. Personality has always been my killer. Money has never been an issue. By the way guys it is not how much you make but what you spend and your net worth. There are tons of ways to move the money. That is why we have accountants.

Height has never been my issue either at 6'2" I have the height. Dick size has been a problem. Some women just do not like big cocks.

I would not say looks are a problem as cash will trump looks. So I would say personality is the kicker guys. Everything else is secondary.

 

[Dickson]

I find this very interesting. Perspective is everything. Every thing is relative. I personally live in a different world. The women in my past are very much focused on what I can give them. That is one reason I keep my income low. However my companies pay my expenses. I work all the time so it is all expenses and I make little.
The women I know out side of SP try and hide it but they are worst than SPs. Personality has always been my killer. Money has never been an issue. By the way guys it is not how much you make but what you spend and your net worth. There are tons of ways to move the money. That is why we have accountants.

Height has never been my issue either at 6'2" I have the height. Dick size has been a problem. Some women just do not like big cocks.

I would not say looks are a problem as cash will trump looks. So I would say personality is the kicker guys. Everything else is secondary.

 

[bcneil]

Forget Tolblerony or whatever his name is, I'm trying to figure out why people laughed at Vanessa's 40K/year comment. Reading some of the comments here, you'd think I was the only 99%'er on this forum.

I think the only one that laughed was toby, a university student according to him. I guess he figures one day he will be making much more. How he passes a job interview is anyones guess.
It all depends where you live. 40k with a stay at home wife in kids would be very hard in Vancouver. In Winnipeg my younger cousin and his wife both make low 30s and have a beautiful new home with a pool.
One thing with higher paying jobs is you are stuck where you are. I make a decent amount, but for my job I am basically stuck working in Vancouver or Toronto for the most part.

 

[Dickson]

I do not understand when people say they are stuck. If there is a will there is a way. People put the focus on the money and not on doing what they love and do well. Now a days few people are stuck unless they allow themself to be stuck. Money is of no value and it does not make one happy. I believe most people live how they want to live. It is easier to have excuses that to go out and change it. I don't care if you make 30,000 a year or 3 million a year it really does not matter. It is just money. Question is are you happy? Happyness is a state of mind. Not stuff.

Now on the question of what is important to Women personality has to top the list. However perceptions change and it is a moving target. Today they want flowers tomorrow they hate me for sending flowers. To day I am charming and funny tomorrow I am and asshole and a fool. If they do not know what they want they can not tell you. Today they want a big dick tomorrow you an't putting that thing near me. Go figure. SPs are the best for me as you generally get what you pay for. Not always but generally.

 

[Dickson]

I do not understand when people say they are stuck. If there is a will there is a way. People put the focus on the money and not on doing what they love and do well. Now a days few people are stuck unless they allow themself to be stuck. Money is of no value and it does not make one happy. I believe most people live how they want to live. It is easier to have excuses that to go out and change it. I don't care if you make 30,000 a year or 3 million a year it really does not matter. It is just money. Question is are you happy? Happyness is a state of mind. Not stuff.

Now on the question of what is important to Women personality has to top the list. However perceptions change and it is a moving target. Today they want flowers tomorrow they hate me for sending flowers. To day I am charming and funny tomorrow I am and asshole and a fool. If they do not know what they want they can not tell you. Today they want a big dick tomorrow you an't putting that thing near me. Go figure. SPs are the best for me as you generally get what you pay for. Not always but generally.

 

[retriever]

curious to know how important the following are for women (in a dating sense, not client). Rate each out of 10

Face
Money
Dick size
Personality
Height

Face:- People always seem to take a second glance.

Money:- Hummmmm. In the six figures. Two paid for homes. One here and one in Toronto.

Dick size:- 6.7529 inches but who's measuring?

Personality:- Off the wall and slightly bent.

Height:- 6'2" 180Lbs. Blue eyes.

Just for the record.

 

[SeductiveCameronDEL]

curious to know how important the following are for women (in a dating sense, not client). Rate each out of 10

Face
Money
Dick size
Personality
Height

I don't know if I can individually rate these things. Other than personality, the ability to make me laugh, and keeping up with an intelligent conversation being a 10, I think it all depends on the person and how confident/charismatic/what their beliefs are. What I really can't stand is being put on a pedestal by a potential suitor incessantly talking about how attractive he finds me. I get it. I'm flattered. You'd better hope you have something else going on in your head, because the, "you're so pretty" thing gets old really fast.

I've had LTRs with much shorter guys, guys that have a few extra pounds, poor guys, rich guys....

...but I do like a big dick. It's not a deal breaker if you don't have one, like Vanessa said, there are other things to please, but sometimes you get lucky.

I will also mention that if you're at all conservative, that's a big deal breaker. Oh, and I don't know why, but it seems that I am one of those girls with a penchant for musicians/actors/photographers/artists of all kinds. Passion and the ability to keep me on my toes is a must. I get bored easily and I have been called a man eater in my past

 

[MissJ]

curious to know how important the following are for women (in a dating sense, not client). Rate each out of 10

Face
Money
Dick size
Personality
Height

Relationship wise :
Face, fairly important as there has to be some kind of attraction initially.
Money, fairly important as I am not a "career girl" and have children to think of.
Dick size, not that important but I do prefer a bigger one to a smaller one lol
Personality, most important as nothing else lasts or matters in the long run.
Height, important, I really perfer men above 5'8 or so.

Work wise... well none of it really matters if I'm getting paid and appreciated for my service