How important are the following for Women?

[kauffman]

curious to know how important the following are for women (in a dating sense, not client). Rate each out of 10

Face
Money
Dick size
Personality
Height

Personality 10
face8
money 8
dick size 7
height 6
intelligence9
respect for ALL others (types) 9 (everyones allowed some dislikes)
standard good looks 6
personal comfort and confidence with self 9

Given that there is room for growth in most of those areas so a willingness to pursue personal goals and if in a couple situation a willlingness to pursue improvements in areas important to one another. SHared goals.

 

[kauffman]

not always true

a good looking guy asking a girl to dance in a club is considered confident

an ugly guy asking the same girl would be considered a "creep"

Not true at all. Creepy guys are the ones that cant take no for an answer or stand too close or stare too much etc

 

[normisanas]

What manner are you accustomed to?

When an SP talks about what she's accustomed to, it goes something like this:
$300 per hr.
At that rate, she only works a few hours a week and that makes enough for rent and food and more. A pretty easy life. Let's say 3 hours a week, that's $900 per week or $3600 per month.

It sounds like if she has kids, she's going to be too busy taking care of them to be working. Fair enough. So if she's talking about feeling accustomed to her past lifestyle, then its at least $3600 per month.

But that's still not enough because there's kids in the picture, so add another $2000 per month if they're young and maybe 2 of them. That brings us to $5600 per month, net after tax, or about $7500 per month gross income.

Now of course, that's if she only works 3 hours a week at $300 per session. If she works 8 hours a week, that's $2400 a week or $9600 a month. If a guy had to earn that net of taxes, it would be about $17000 per month gross income - to give her what she's accustomed to. That's a guy who earns $204,000, or in the top 2.1% of income in Canada (see http://www2.macleans.ca/2011/10/25/rank-your-income-where-do-you-stand-compared-to-the-rest-of-canada/)

I've personally been through this anxiety-ridden and frustrating calculation myself. The lesson I've learned is that a lot of women, SP's in particular (but not all), have no f**king clue what they're talking about when they mouth off such vagaries as "what they're accustomed to", especially when they're earning a wage that is completely beyond realistic.

And in complete contrast to most SP's I've met, I hold my glass of champagne high to PlayfulAlex for being a real heartfelt woman true and true.

 

[Pacific Coast]

curious to know how important the following are for women (in a dating sense, not client). Rate each out of 10

Face
Money
Dick size
Personality
Height

You forgot intelligence. If it's not important to her I have no interest in her anyway.

 

[deathreborn]

When an SP talks about what she's accustomed to, it goes something like this:
$300 per hr.
At that rate, she only works a few hours a week and that makes enough for rent and food and more. A pretty easy life. Let's say 3 hours a week, that's $900 per week or $3600 per month.

It sounds like if she has kids, she's going to be too busy taking care of them to be working. Fair enough. So if she's talking about feeling accustomed to her past lifestyle, then its at least $3600 per month.

But that's still not enough because there's kids in the picture, so add another $2000 per month if they're young and maybe 2 of them. That brings us to $5600 per month, net after tax, or about $7500 per month gross income.

Now of course, that's if she only works 3 hours a week at $300 per session. If she works 8 hours a week, that's $2400 a week or $9600 a month. If a guy had to earn that net of taxes, it would be about $17000 per month gross income - to give her what she's accustomed to. That's a guy who earns $204,000, or in the top 2.1% of income in Canada (see http://www2.macleans.ca/2011/10/25/rank-your-income-where-do-you-stand-compared-to-the-rest-of-canada/)

I've personally been through this anxiety-ridden and frustrating calculation myself. The lesson I've learned is that a lot of women, SP's in particular (but not all), have no f**king clue what they're talking about when they mouth off such vagaries as "what they're accustomed to", especially when they're earning a wage that is completely beyond realistic.

And in complete contrast to most SP's I've met, I hold my glass of champagne high to PlayfulAlex for being a real heartfelt woman true and true.

amen brother.

 

[deathreborn]

When an SP talks about what she's accustomed to, it goes something like this:
$300 per hr.
At that rate, she only works a few hours a week and that makes enough for rent and food and more. A pretty easy life. Let's say 3 hours a week, that's $900 per week or $3600 per month.

It sounds like if she has kids, she's going to be too busy taking care of them to be working. Fair enough. So if she's talking about feeling accustomed to her past lifestyle, then its at least $3600 per month.

But that's still not enough because there's kids in the picture, so add another $2000 per month if they're young and maybe 2 of them. That brings us to $5600 per month, net after tax, or about $7500 per month gross income.

Now of course, that's if she only works 3 hours a week at $300 per session. If she works 8 hours a week, that's $2400 a week or $9600 a month. If a guy had to earn that net of taxes, it would be about $17000 per month gross income - to give her what she's accustomed to. That's a guy who earns $204,000, or in the top 2.1% of income in Canada (see http://www2.macleans.ca/2011/10/25/rank-your-income-where-do-you-stand-compared-to-the-rest-of-canada/)

I've personally been through this anxiety-ridden and frustrating calculation myself. The lesson I've learned is that a lot of women, SP's in particular (but not all), have no f**king clue what they're talking about when they mouth off such vagaries as "what they're accustomed to", especially when they're earning a wage that is completely beyond realistic.

And in complete contrast to most SP's I've met, I hold my glass of champagne high to PlayfulAlex for being a real heartfelt woman true and true.

amen brother.

 

[NataliaBijoux]

Face: I tend to like men with darker features, kind eyes, nice smile and nice teeth

Money: Right now I make my own money and don't depend on anyone to take care of me. But what would be important to me is if we had children and I wasn't working anymore, taking care of kids (until they started school, then I would start working again to help with the family income)He should make enough money to support our family.. As long as our family has a comfortable life, where we were not struggling, I would be happy. As long as he is financially secure and doesn't have huge debt.

Dick size: Isn't important to me.. what's important is that he knows how to use what he has!

Personality: By far the most important thing!

Height: Has to be at least 5"11, when I wear my heels (Depending on size) I can be over 6"

 

[PlayfulAlex]

...snip...And in complete contrast to most SP's I've met, I hold my glass of champagne high to PlayfulAlex for being a real heartfelt woman true and true.

Thanks dear, I'm just being real.

 

[Man in Submission]

Seems like 5' 11" (thankfully gets you in under the wire. Always liked it even as a teen when girls would wear high heels and be an inch or so taller than me. The genesis of the submissiveness I guess. Now how important are blue eyes, soft skin and a flat, toned tummy?

 

[Cami Parker]

Are you claiming to have knowledge about the manner in which I'm accustomed to? Lol I would expect that if you take a wife and have children you would be able to support them.. Especially when your wife cooks and cleans and watches the kids, gets them to their activities, helps with their homework, does the shopping, keeps the books, and gives you great massages and blowjobs when you get home from a long day at work all while staying super sexy.... Sorry if that's too much to ask! Lol

apparently cami does. support her and her kids in the manner accustomed to. a one income household in vancouver?? good luck with that. guess only guys making $200,000 per need apply as potential suitors.

 

[Cami Parker]

Actually I only see 3 or 4 clients/week sooo ya lol you have no idea about the manner in which I'm accustomed to. I don't live lavishly, but I don't want every month to be a struggle and I would like for my children to be afforded a good education and after school activities, as well as the opportunities that I had growing up, being able to visit the theater and galleries.... I'm not looking for shopping sprees or anything for myself, I just want to have well cultured and properly educated children... I don't have any yet, but when I do I want them to have a father that will give them the opportunities needed to build themselves into strong and successful adults....

amen brother.

 

[1nitestan]

None of this is important to a woman....until she is dissatisfied in some way with the relationship. How many times have a couple been arguing and a woman blurts out something about the size of your bank account or your cock...etc. just to piss you off. It may or may not be true but she will make it an issue.

 

[VanessaofBC]

A couple can do a lot, if they're both taking home $3500 or so per month. Of course, 100k is a great income to aspire to and work towards but it shouldn't have to be a starting income. That target severely restricts the available dating pool. I'd rather that we succeeded in making that income together, being a great team!

Thanks Alex, exactly. I would also like to clarify I have no kids and do not plan on having any. If I had kids, I may look for someone who could help support the children, but I would certainly make my contribution to our "wealth". I am not a leech.

 

[CLUB78]

curious to know how important the following are for women (in a dating sense, not client). Rate each out of 10

Face
Money
Dick size
Personality
Height

You didn't mention the things that are more important to me than anything else, that being intelligence and kindness. I also like hard workers and people that are nice to service staff and kids. Funny is really high up there as well.

 

[CLUB78]

That's right!!!! But, back to the point at hand... (I'm assuming this is seeking a LTR)

Face - warm eyes and a friendly smile are important to me. Everything else eventually fades with age but warm eyes are forever, and a friendly smile, even if it likes all it's teeth eventually, will always be cute!
Money- you should make enough money to support me and our children in the manner which I am accustomed to. My children and I should want for much of anything...
Dick size-not important at all, (unless it's the type that you look at and go "OMG ITS SO TINY!!!!" Like in a shockingly deformed 4 year old penis on a grown man and it won't stay in type of way) because I'm pretty tiny myself, not to mention very orally inclined.
Personality-most important... Especially if it includes virtues such as kindness, humor, compassion, intelligence etc...
Height-meh... I think tall guys are sexy, and admittedly they are the ones that catch my eye when I am out. However, personality us still key and I would never not date someone because they were not tall....
I guess nothing physical is of much I trance to me because those things change with. Time, and besides I'm supposed to be the pretty one in this relationship!

Your answer made me feel all tingly. Mmmmm...so well written..and pretty,pretty, pretty...okay I'll stop staring at your picture now.

 

[tokugawa]

Thanks Alex, exactly. I would also like to clarify I have no kids and do not plan on having any. If I had kids, I may look for someone who could help support the children, but I would certainly make my contribution to our "wealth". I am not a leech.

:thumb::thumb:

 

[addicted2lov]

None of this is important to a woman....until she is dissatisfied in some way with the relationship. How many times have a couple been arguing and a woman blurts out something about the size of your bank account or your cock...etc. just to piss you off. It may or may not be true but she will make it an issue.

Good point.
But if you're confident enough you gonna be able to take whatever she's gonna throw to your face. We know women are emotional and tend to over react. But if this becomes chronic she may be actually right so you need to wonder... Or she may be a bitch and then you can just leave, right?

 

[Cami Parker]

Haha thank you Doll! *smoochies*

Your answer made me feel all tingly. Mmmmm...so well written..and pretty,pretty, pretty...okay I'll stop staring at your picture now.

 

[Cami Parker]

Thank you very much Lovey. I didn't think it was that unreasonable... Not like I'm looking to be one of those real housewives of wherever lol

Seems as though there is consternation among some here in regards to Cami's comments on wanting a man, would she be married to and raising children with, to be able to handle a financial condition which is not about taking a dive in living standards, and handle it. I don't understand the trouble with that, this is pretty normal and what you hear from most women. Of course there are dual-income relationships and nanny's too. Honestly, that is a primary concern on marriage and children for most women. Sure it doesn't sound as romantic, but that's the reality out there. Doesn't have to mean to the extremes some might be thinking either and writing about... but it all depends where you live and how you live.

Likewise, I wouldn't want to marry a woman laden with debt and/or money control problems that dropping massive amounts of money without pause with little return or value means nothing to them. I know this from experience personally.

It's all pretty normal expectations, one would think - and it goes both ways.

 

[normisanas]

Actually I only see 3 or 4 clients/week sooo ya lol you have no idea about the manner in which I'm accustomed to. I don't live lavishly, but I don't want every month to be a struggle and I would like for my children to be afforded a good education and after school activities, as well as the opportunities that I had growing up, being able to visit the theater and galleries.... I'm not looking for shopping sprees or anything for myself, I just want to have well cultured and properly educated children... I don't have any yet, but when I do I want them to have a father that will give them the opportunities needed to build themselves into strong and successful adults....

Not lavish?

3 to 4 clients a week at your rate of $500/hr, $750/1.5hr and $800/2 hr.... hmmm. Let's do the most conservative estimate:
3 clients per week at $500/hr = $1500 per week, or $6000 per month. That's $72,000 per year, net of taxes presumably so a gross income of about $150,000. According to http://www2.macleans.ca/2011/10/25/rank-your-income-where-do-you-stand-compared-to-the-rest-of-canada/ for Canada, the man has to be in the top 2.07% of wage earners. Assuming the lifestyle you lead currently is what you're accustomed to, that's the kind of guy you'll need. Not too modest, is my opinion.