Gfe

[Deepstrokes]

GFE, the girl friend experience. More, and more sp's are using this term when posting there ads. However I believe that many of them don't provide a GFE session.

What is you interpretation of GFE.

When I see a provider that offers GFE I think, LFK to DFK, Daty, and BBBJ. However many of the sp's that are offering this service don't even offer LFK. Never mind Daty, or BBBJ.

 

[newman78]

i have to agree with your definition on GFE and your right a lot of sp's are advertising it

to me it almost feels like a bait and switch granted your seeing the right girl but you had expectations leading up to your session and then it changes

its only happened to me once mind you and well i should have taken everyones advice off this board but I took a chance with an sp off cl and when i arrived not only was it nothing as we discussed in our conversations early it was like wam bam out the door

 

[smartGUY]

I have to agree with PSECURIOUS. BBBJ is not a GFE prerequisite. It is widely offered now. I've even been surprised by a few SPs who didn't offer it but felt it was the right thing to do once we got started. (Yay me!) FK in some form is definitely part of GFE, iMHO. Unfortunately, this is the one I find is the most elusive. Too many SPs claim kissing is part of the package but don't really want to. I know it's a YMMV thing, but several times I was told it was "okay" then found out it was "something I save for my partner." Post-coitus, I had a great conversation with one SP who told me the kissing is THE most intimate thing that a SP can offer. Most men might think it's intercourse, but I've had several lovely ladies tell me the kissing is the intimate part. As for variations on GFE, I've had kissing withheld, DATY withheld (which is fine quite frankly; I know some SPs do enjoy it but all those pooners who think they're taking the SPs to the moon two or three times are dreaming. Think about what it is they do for a living.) The weirdest one was a SP who kissed like a hormone-crazy teenager, provided wicked and sloppy BBBJ but didn't want me to blow a string of pearls on her fabulous breasts. Too bad, cause that's my thing. Anyway, her get out of jail free card is the ubiquitous "YMMV."

 

[ihatebullshit]

I diagree, GFE should include BBBJ, that is way if the SP calls herself a GFE but does not do BBBJ, the terminology was changed to Safe GFE, everyone knows then that BBBJ is not included

 

[ruralgeezer]

To me GFE means a warm and cordial experience. Lots of foreplay kissing and cuddling. Pretending for an hour or so that you are friends and lovers. Getting to know each other. Best experience by far, if you can find it !!

 

[Avery]

I diagree, GFE should include BBBJ, that is way if the SP calls herself a GFE but does not do BBBJ, the terminology was changed to Safe GFE, everyone knows then that BBBJ is not included

I agree with IHBS. Apart from the inevitable cases of YMMV due to hygiene or behavioural issues, ladies who never do BBBJ shouldn't describe themselves as GFE. On MERB, reviewers who call non-BBBJ ladies GFE get roasted alive. Fortunately, in Montreal, those ladies are on the endangered species list.

 

[stanley manley]

To me GFE means a warm and cordial experience. Lots of foreplay kissing and cuddling. Pretending for an hour or so that you are friends and lovers. Getting to know each other. Best experience by far, if you can find it !!

Agreed. That for me is often what I remember more than the services offered. As long as there is DATY, FS, CBJ and LFK I am happy, as far as services go. But the cuddling, sweet attitude, warm experience, smiles, is all part of a GFE experience as far as I am concerned.

 

[peg_sheg]

Has anyone of you guys had the same experience as me with Holland? I finally saw her after getting the run arounds. I was disappointed, would not repeat. Ofcourse she's good looking and has great body, but no kissing period, Just one verry light kiss as I was leaving. Every time I tried to kiss during the session she'd turn her face away. I like kissing, if I don't get that, then thats a big turn off for me.

I agree 100% with DeepS that a lot of the sp's don't even offer LFK, how can you expect BBBJ from them.

 

[hbunter]

You're right! You are a smartGUY you agreed with me!

I totally disagree. I've never had a girlfriend that did a cbj, or didn't let me DATY.

 

[MRGREEN]

peg_sheg's comments mirrors my experience exactly! Never had the same issue before and haven't subsequently with any other provider.

Peace
MG

 

[who cares!!]

With the issue on kissing, it's totally up to the SP and what she wants to do/what she is comfortable with.. I have seen a few SP's(Nikita,Holland,Courtney,Destiny)that do not allow kissing and left totally satisifed.You can still have a great session without kissing, IMHO.
With Holland, she does not advetise as a GFE so I didn't really expect it.She plays safe and I respect that.

Simple solution, ask if the SP offers kissing. If she does not, try another one. Not every SP plays by the same rules(kissing, BBBJ)Etc, and you can't really fault them for that. To each their own.

 

[grizzly]

GFE stands for "girl friend experience." The key word here should be "friend." Act like you like the person, and want to be with them. YMMV in any relationship, and pro's and non pro's alike have likes and dislikes, as do I. I've had girlfriends that won't put their mouth anywhere south of my bellybutton, and i've had some that would suck the chrome off a trailer hitch. All my non pro experiences had one thing in common, they were always passionate. It's the ladies personality and enthusiasm that does it for me.

The one's that recieve a failing grade from me are the SP's that advertise GFE and you recieve a mechanical dead lay. Even if they don't offer one service or another, they should be creative and make it up in another area.

 

[Marius]

Nicely said Grizzly. The true GFE stops reminding you that you just left $200-$300 on the table as you walked in the door. I don't think a condom accompanying a blowjob matters. It's the whole experience, and always involves a lot of kissing. If you are dating or with a 'real' girlfriend who doesn't kiss you, I understand why you pursue this hobby. In a perfect world, providers would be called out for not providing that which is advertised, pictured, etc. Sadly, a lot of the time our little heads are doing the thinking and the substandard continues. GFE is subjective - we've all had different girlfriends - but they all should act as if they are our girlfriends. If they don't, CALL THEM OUT HERE. False advertising is false advertising, no matter where it is. I've had some serious hits and some laughable misses in this industry. It will always be sex, but the best of it will be the kind where you forget you dropped that envelope on the nightstand on the way in...