Ok, Bobo;
But who makes the standard, and what exactly is it? I've seen at least 20 if not more descriptions of what a "GFE" session is since I've been on PERB. And when you start talking to SP's you get even more interpretations??
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But who makes the standard, and what exactly is it? I've seen at least 20 if not more descriptions of what a "GFE" session is since I've been on PERB. And when you start talking to SP's you get even more interpretations??
Okay Bad Santa, let us pretend I am sitting on your lap as I attempt to explain my perspective. ( LOOK UP BAD SANTA... my lips do the talking...not me boobies~~lol)According to a recent PERB poll in the "Lounge", which I may have had something to do with
Should we have "Majority Rules" for a standard GFE??
It's a buyer's market, so some sellers will always sell it and an awful lot of buyers want it.
I guess that leaves me only 37% of Perbites to play with~! And I think I'm okay with that.
( Dammit Bad Santa LOOK UP~~!)
The standards are shared all over merb/terb/perb, same way every gas station has the exact same price for gas.
Oh Shit!!
Maryn, you sweet doll!
Don't you know it's cruel to make an old man drool?
I'm so confused!
What were you saying??
I don't believe that it is only 37%. I believe that, that is the percentage of who voted in this poll.
A lot of my clients don't post, lurk, or have under a hundred posts since perb began, lol. There are many, many perberts who do not approve, want, or need bb anything. Like I have said a hundred times, the people that are trying to force us into being little robotic sexual machines are just the ones with the loudest voices.
If it is 37% (which I don't believe), then I am perfectly fine with that, because that is still a lot of men to play with.
bb of any kind should never be considered part of anything. It should always be individual choice. I also believe that bbbj should never be advertised by anyone. If you want to offer it, by all means, but do it on the down low with clients you like and know.
It is cheapening the whole industry, this ignorance (as in ignoring) of the possible harmful, (emotional, spiritual, and physical) side effects of catching an std.
I do think sex can be a lot of good, sweaty, uninhibited fun even if you use condoms on your penis. If you are with the right girl it will all be fun.
I think it would be a perfect world, if everybody (except the women) had nice clean pretty penises. That is not the case though. The reality is very much different. I love all my clients and really enjoy them. I do not love all their penises. To put a cock in my mouth without a condom on it, I have to really love and trust where its been. I had a boyfriend years (I was 19, he was 21) ago tell me, he paid a girl on Hastings street $5 in an alley to give him head. He told me he did it on a dare. It just goes to show, that even a young good looking guy puts his cock in some dubious places. I was quite grossed out. I wouldn't be now, though, lol. I am sure he never told another girlfriend, lol.
I know in order to get an std that the guy must have an std, and 99% probably don't, but considering there are many diseases, that can be transmitted without any symptoms being known or present. Then even 1% is high, when it is so simple to just wrap it up. If it is an issue with condoms and desensitivity maybe find a girl that gives an amazing hand release. Finish that way. Experiment, there is so much fun to be had, if you have an open mind.
I don't understand why you guys do not care more about us and less about your self and your orgasm? Is it because we are hookers? So we don't matter? During a bbbj, it is the girl that is at risk more than the guy. Many std's affect the ability to conceive and have children. Its all about priorities and how you perceive things. If you want your experience to be mind blowing, it is all about connection and attitude, not acronyms.
I also posted a version of this in the other thread. We are doomed to constantly repeat ourselves. A few men saying this is what it should be, and a few women saying it shouldn't be
I know a few girls that love giving head, and they don't like to do it with condoms. Great for them. It is their choice. I also know a few women who only offer it because they think that is what the majority of the customer wants and they won't get business if they don't. They hate it, but do it anyways. I find that sad.
A lot of my clients don't post, lurk, or have under a hundred posts since perb began, lol. There are many, many perberts who do not approve, want, or need bb anything. Like I have said a hundred times, the people that are trying to force us into being little robotic sexual machines are just the ones with the loudest voices.
If it is 37% (which I don't believe), then I am perfectly fine with that, because that is still a lot of men to play with.
bb of any kind should never be considered part of anything. It should always be individual choice. I also believe that bbbj should never be advertised by anyone. If you want to offer it, by all means, but do it on the down low with clients you like and know.
It is cheapening the whole industry, this ignorance (as in ignoring) of the possible harmful, (emotional, spiritual, and physical) side effects of catching an std.
I do think sex can be a lot of good, sweaty, uninhibited fun even if you use condoms on your penis. If you are with the right girl it will all be fun.
I think it would be a perfect world, if everybody (except the women
) had nice clean pretty penises. That is not the case though. The reality is very much different. I love all my clients and really enjoy them. I do not love all their penises. To put a cock in my mouth without a condom on it, I have to really love and trust where its been. I had a boyfriend years (I was 19, he was 21) ago tell me, he paid a girl on Hastings street $5 in an alley to give him head. He told me he did it on a dare. It just goes to show, that even a young good looking guy puts his cock in some dubious places. I was quite grossed out. I wouldn't be now, though, lol. I am sure he never told another girlfriend, lol. I know in order to get an std that the guy must have an std, and 99% probably don't, but considering there are many diseases, that can be transmitted without any symptoms being known or present. Then even 1% is high, when it is so simple to just wrap it up. If it is an issue with condoms and desensitivity maybe find a girl that gives an amazing hand release. Finish that way. Experiment, there is so much fun to be had, if you have an open mind.
I don't understand why you guys do not care more about us and less about your self and your orgasm? Is it because we are hookers? So we don't matter? During a bbbj, it is the girl that is at risk more than the guy. Many std's affect the ability to conceive and have children. Its all about priorities and how you perceive things. If you want your experience to be mind blowing, it is all about connection and attitude, not acronyms.
I also posted a version of this in the other thread. We are doomed to constantly repeat ourselves. A few men saying this is what it should be, and a few women saying it shouldn't be
I know a few girls that love giving head, and they don't like to do it with condoms. Great for them. It is their choice. I also know a few women who only offer it because they think that is what the majority of the customer wants and they won't get business if they don't. They hate it, but do it anyways. I find that sad.
Harmony if you don't wanna do BBBJ, you can do FS or sGFE, hell you can offer HJ only sessions for all anyone cares.
The issue is with SPs who advertise as doing GFE but then say "oh CBJ only".
That is sGFE not GFE.
No one is here to force you to do anything, but don't say you do one thing when you really do another.
I myself don't ever get BBBJ, but I am against calling CBJ GFE, it is sGFE.
Call a session what it is, the guys know what they are getting and the girls can be comfortable doing what they do.
If you cant provide the level of service GFE entails then you cant, so don't advertise and try to ride off the backs of the hard working girls who can and do.
The issue is with SPs who advertise as doing GFE but then say "oh CBJ only".
That is sGFE not GFE.
No one is here to force you to do anything, but don't say you do one thing when you really do another.
I myself don't ever get BBBJ, but I am against calling CBJ GFE, it is sGFE.
Call a session what it is, the guys know what they are getting and the girls can be comfortable doing what they do.
If you cant provide the level of service GFE entails then you cant, so don't advertise and try to ride off the backs of the hard working girls who can and do.
but they do have the same standards for 90 octane 92 octane and 95 octane.What are you talking about???
Not all gas stations have the exact same price for gas.
Not to mention every car will get different mileage.....maybe some of us guys just need a tune up?!Good point.......yes they do!
But there's no way that this topic can be compared to gas prices.
Gas station prices differ and so do the services of us gals.
I am not talking about prices when I made the comparison between regular gas (FS) mid grade (sGFE) and Premium (GFE)
Its a perfect example.
I go to a gas station/MP and request premium/GFE and if you give mid grade/sGFE but call it premium guys will be upset, call it what it is.
I am sorry it went over your head, I honestly thought it was a fairly basic idea I was presenting, next time I'll dumb it down more.
Its a perfect example.
I go to a gas station/MP and request premium/GFE and if you give mid grade/sGFE but call it premium guys will be upset, call it what it is.
I am sorry it went over your head, I honestly thought it was a fairly basic idea I was presenting, next time I'll dumb it down more.
Lauren,
Don't mind Bobo.
He thinks his opinion actually matters more than yours.
So sad....
Welcome back Kendra!
I agree with you but unfortunately some small minds on perb want everything "they want" in a session to be categorized into the term "GFE".
This is so they can pressure you girls into providing unsafe sex because it's supposed to be part of a "GFE".
The whole concept is actually "sick"!!
Well said Jessica and Miss Maryn.
Jessica you eloquently stated your pov and I agree with you. Miss Maryn, well you know what I think of your ability to play safe yet totally erotic.
Jessica you eloquently stated your pov and I agree with you. Miss Maryn, well you know what I think of your ability to play safe yet totally erotic.
Thank you Jim, very much. I appreciate the continued interest in this topic. As I said before, not nearly enough credit goes to the clients and not nearly enough credit goes to the ladies. If I drank I would raise my glass to all of you now and say cheers to a truly open minded, easy to get along with bunch of excellent conversationalists who all have one thing on our mind ..... SEX~When~Who Next~Where~What should I wear ....all I ask is that you wear a smileWell said Jessica and Miss Maryn.
Jessica you eloquently stated your pov and I agree with you. Miss Maryn, well you know what I think of your ability to play safe yet totally erotic.
And Kendra ~ An under the table handshake (or a bit of footplay) to show my appreciation for a recent gesture of kindness on your part which was very much appreciated by me. I will return you a favor when the opportunity arrises and I know for sure Karma is also going to do it's part in making sure good things come your way.
Maybe we can get together sometime and share a client or two??....errrr, just a suggestion (but a good one I think)!!
Jessica P. Rabbit
www.jessicaprabbit.com
This is a very judgmental thing to say. There are tons of people with great educations that don't do what they want to do for a living, due to circumstances of one kind or another. I know several girls with university educations that are in this business. I also know girls that dropped out of high school. Just like in any walk of life, there are all kinds of people that make up the population. You never know why somebody is doing the things they do. Please keep the judging to yourself. It is not an attractive quality in a person.
Wow, I'm not known to judge anybody's writing so I will try to do this without being too harsh.
Moneymaker ...you are part of the required chain which makes up this business ...should I assume you don't have a 'real good education'? My bunny ears are down, I'm not impressed with what you've written but I realize you are likely not here to impress me, I also am not condemning you for speaking your opinion, I simply don't like it. I know you would be surprised at the level of education many of the ladies have, including myself. (I can't speak for the gentlemen, but I would think nearly the same ratios exist for both ends of the tipping scale).
And trust me when I say ...I am not 'bothered with this business' at all, au contraire as a matter of fact. If you are seeing providers who leave you feeling they are bothered, perhaps you should see ladies with a better outlook on life.
and ...as badly as I don't want to be 'that guy' ... it's quite funny to read your post in all it's formally written grammatical accuracy.
JessicaP.Rabbit
www.jessicaprabbit.com
Moneymaker ...you are part of the required chain which makes up this business ...should I assume you don't have a 'real good education'? My bunny ears are down, I'm not impressed with what you've written but I realize you are likely not here to impress me, I also am not condemning you for speaking your opinion, I simply don't like it. I know you would be surprised at the level of education many of the ladies have, including myself. (I can't speak for the gentlemen, but I would think nearly the same ratios exist for both ends of the tipping scale).
And trust me when I say ...I am not 'bothered with this business' at all, au contraire as a matter of fact. If you are seeing providers who leave you feeling they are bothered, perhaps you should see ladies with a better outlook on life.
and ...as badly as I don't want to be 'that guy' ... it's quite funny to read your post in all it's formally written grammatical accuracy.
JessicaP.Rabbit
www.jessicaprabbit.com
moneymaker,
Some infantile assholes are just born to spew shit! You'll need the XXXtra large sized diaper to shut you up!
