My intention for making this post is simply to share a point of view, not to change standards or menu item definitions (if there truly are any set in stone) ...and especially not as an insult to any girl who offers an exceptional gfe session at a $$$ premium or higher.
I post this thread in a small way to 'come out of the closet' as the service provider with exceptional reviews but seemingly not much in the way of 'menu items' to back up those compliments.
I realize many of my theories are out of step with the masses but I am happy and content providing each client with a unique session catered to them at the highest truthful level of comfort in the most real and honest way. I simply can not offer items on a 'menu' to every client unconditionally. Perhaps the following example will help to make clear that I don't mean to be malicious to anyone with that statement.
I hope this does not come across horribly~ The gents who visit to meet in studios; there may have been a lady or two with whom you would NOT share gfe based on any number of things ...yes you know I'm telling the truth, gents pass on gfe in many cases &perhaps take only f/s or go somewhere down the road for the gfe because something about the lady does not physically appeal to them. I am not talking about a mole on her butt ...something ....bigger that they may not wish to overcome to enjoy themselves ...you know exactly the kinds of things I mean.
If you want to argue the point that "SP's get tipped for their time and gents give them the tip so they should do what is expected on a menu no matter who the gent is, think ...That simply is not reasonable, please read on.
I believe SP's have an obligation to share a session with every client who requests a session (barring previous poor behavior) I do not believe there should be an obligation on any SP to provide equal services to every single client. Reality rings when your "GFE booked appt" arrives and he is 120 years old, very old stinky clothes that have not been washed in eons, one tooth, it's brown, rotted and smelly, no lips, no ability to really move so he hasn't washed properly in years and thus smells like a very dirty diaper ...painting the worst of the worst but it's simply the truth. If that was the female you could have gfe with ...would you? (close your eyes and see her, she is 120 (ok 80) years old, wrinkled and hunched, moving slowly as she shuffles to greet you in her knit slippers, one black rotted tooth, horrible breath, shriveled up lips, smells like a dirty diaper... I know you can see her in your mind, so tell me do you want to dfk and daty her?)
I don't state more than light gfe as a 'menu item' as it is unfair to some clients who come in only to receive a below par session if they have tipped for GFE. Translation~all of my sessions are very honest and I enjoy them from beginning to end. My sessions are based on mutual chemistry which happens differently between every sp and every client. I decided 2 years ago to NOT advertise gfe, nor would i ask for a tip over f/s. because I know i can not provide it exceptionally and unconditionally 100% of the time. If you can't do something right …) Result-No one expects what I may not be able to truly feel good about giving. The clients I do share gfe with, it is because I am enjoying myself and feel it is unnecessary to ask for a higher tip, although when able to, most clients will tip higher anyhow. Possibly my reviews don't go on about what was received in session more as a 'kissing and not telling' thing because I do not ask for the +tip as it is not something i feel an SP should be obligated to provide to any client if she is not comfortable doing so. My clients are aware that I am not doing this in an effort to 'undercut' any other lady (if I was I would certainly have advertised this long ago) I don't 'act' to win my clients return visits. I am able to maintain a regular client base as a result of my customer service standards regardless of the many levels of service my clients expect, enjoy and receive. No, I can not please all of the people all of the time but I do make every effort to try when given the chance.
Rather than stating i offer gfe and having clients offended by poor acting skills or refusal of service I just keep things on the downlow and cross my fingers that everyone leaves having had as pleasant a session as I can give being genuine, being me.
Hamburgers are available on every menu on every corner, no two taste the same. The 'menu' that has been laid out in this industry, in my opinion is a rather bad idea given that no 2 burgers will ever taste alike when eaten by 2 different people. Does that make any sense? I like Harveys for their personal choice of toppings but I find their beef fails to meet my personal expectations. A piece of meat can add toppings to try to impress (like acting a gfe role) but it is the substance that really counts ...isn't it?
As usual, walking to the beat of my own drummer in a hopefully polite and pleasant manner, not trying to offend, rather attempting to share insight, that is all I am trying to do.
...sticking my neck out on a chopping block? Usually, so I'm kinda used to it. To me it seems so clear but I am only one person with only one opinion and am interested in how others feel about this topic.
With a smile and a bunny hug.
JessicaPrabbit
...continuing to put the energizer bunny to shame ...thump thump thump thump
www.jessicaprabbit.com
I post this thread in a small way to 'come out of the closet' as the service provider with exceptional reviews but seemingly not much in the way of 'menu items' to back up those compliments.
I realize many of my theories are out of step with the masses but I am happy and content providing each client with a unique session catered to them at the highest truthful level of comfort in the most real and honest way. I simply can not offer items on a 'menu' to every client unconditionally. Perhaps the following example will help to make clear that I don't mean to be malicious to anyone with that statement.
I hope this does not come across horribly~ The gents who visit to meet in studios; there may have been a lady or two with whom you would NOT share gfe based on any number of things ...yes you know I'm telling the truth, gents pass on gfe in many cases &perhaps take only f/s or go somewhere down the road for the gfe because something about the lady does not physically appeal to them. I am not talking about a mole on her butt ...something ....bigger that they may not wish to overcome to enjoy themselves ...you know exactly the kinds of things I mean.
If you want to argue the point that "SP's get tipped for their time and gents give them the tip so they should do what is expected on a menu no matter who the gent is, think ...That simply is not reasonable, please read on.
I believe SP's have an obligation to share a session with every client who requests a session (barring previous poor behavior) I do not believe there should be an obligation on any SP to provide equal services to every single client. Reality rings when your "GFE booked appt" arrives and he is 120 years old, very old stinky clothes that have not been washed in eons, one tooth, it's brown, rotted and smelly, no lips, no ability to really move so he hasn't washed properly in years and thus smells like a very dirty diaper ...painting the worst of the worst but it's simply the truth. If that was the female you could have gfe with ...would you? (close your eyes and see her, she is 120 (ok 80) years old, wrinkled and hunched, moving slowly as she shuffles to greet you in her knit slippers, one black rotted tooth, horrible breath, shriveled up lips, smells like a dirty diaper... I know you can see her in your mind, so tell me do you want to dfk and daty her?)
I don't state more than light gfe as a 'menu item' as it is unfair to some clients who come in only to receive a below par session if they have tipped for GFE. Translation~all of my sessions are very honest and I enjoy them from beginning to end. My sessions are based on mutual chemistry which happens differently between every sp and every client. I decided 2 years ago to NOT advertise gfe, nor would i ask for a tip over f/s. because I know i can not provide it exceptionally and unconditionally 100% of the time. If you can't do something right …) Result-No one expects what I may not be able to truly feel good about giving. The clients I do share gfe with, it is because I am enjoying myself and feel it is unnecessary to ask for a higher tip, although when able to, most clients will tip higher anyhow. Possibly my reviews don't go on about what was received in session more as a 'kissing and not telling' thing because I do not ask for the +tip as it is not something i feel an SP should be obligated to provide to any client if she is not comfortable doing so. My clients are aware that I am not doing this in an effort to 'undercut' any other lady (if I was I would certainly have advertised this long ago) I don't 'act' to win my clients return visits. I am able to maintain a regular client base as a result of my customer service standards regardless of the many levels of service my clients expect, enjoy and receive. No, I can not please all of the people all of the time but I do make every effort to try when given the chance.
Rather than stating i offer gfe and having clients offended by poor acting skills or refusal of service I just keep things on the downlow and cross my fingers that everyone leaves having had as pleasant a session as I can give being genuine, being me.
Hamburgers are available on every menu on every corner, no two taste the same. The 'menu' that has been laid out in this industry, in my opinion is a rather bad idea given that no 2 burgers will ever taste alike when eaten by 2 different people. Does that make any sense? I like Harveys for their personal choice of toppings but I find their beef fails to meet my personal expectations. A piece of meat can add toppings to try to impress (like acting a gfe role) but it is the substance that really counts ...isn't it?
As usual, walking to the beat of my own drummer in a hopefully polite and pleasant manner, not trying to offend, rather attempting to share insight, that is all I am trying to do.
...sticking my neck out on a chopping block? Usually, so I'm kinda used to it. To me it seems so clear but I am only one person with only one opinion and am interested in how others feel about this topic.
With a smile and a bunny hug.
JessicaPrabbit
...continuing to put the energizer bunny to shame ...thump thump thump thump
www.jessicaprabbit.com
