Escort threatening me (and she frequents the board)

[billyvassi]

So what recourse does one have when a snarky SP whom i recently contacted in regards to adult work.
Threatens to warn escorts (about what i have no idea since ive not had a date wither, or a shoot) about me?

Going the slander angle is a bit annoying to me. Seeing as how ive kept all the emails back and forth with this escort and we were involved before she got into the industry.
I do also book shoots through escorts in and around Edmonton and Calgary.


any ideas on solutions before i get rude? i really dont care enough to get into things but giving me a bad name because of the reasons she wants to is unnacceptable

 

[HB40]

So what recourse does one have when a snarky SP whom i recently contacted in regards to adult work.
Threatens to warn escorts (about what i have no idea since ive not had a date wither, or a shoot) about me?

Going the slander angle is a bit annoying to me. Seeing as how ive kept all the emails back and forth with this escort and we were involved before she got into the industry.
I do also book shoots through escorts in and around Edmonton and Calgary.


any ideas on solutions before i get rude? i really dont care enough to get into things but giving me a bad name because of the reasons she wants to is unnacceptable

Hmmmm, interesting post. I have to say your credibility and honesty are already suspect. Do you really have no idea what she wants to warn others about? Perhaps just the fact you were involved with her before she got into the industry has something to do with her snarky attitude. Maybe her warnings are an attempt to get you to leave her alone. In my opinion your pre-emptive plan to defend yourself only makes you look worse and opens the door for retaliation from her.

Oh, and don't think your subtle free advertising won't go unnoticed.

 

[blazejowski]

Joined 2 years ago and the first post is this?

 

[DQ Guy]

Joined 2 years ago and the first post is this?

Looks like there could be a lot more on the way if it keeps up.
But I'm guessing there won't be any reviews

 

[Thais]

...Threatens to warn escorts (about what i have no idea since ive not had a date wither, or a shoot) about me?

...we were involved before she got into the industry.

...any ideas on solutions before i get rude?

Since you were involved, she actually knows what you are like, so the fact that you have not a paid date is irrelevant.

Warnings like this are not given lightly among escorts. So either she is vindictive enough to jeopardize the reference / black list system - and in that case we all probably would be better off knowing who she is. Why is she telling you this first, is there something she wants from you - or is she simply informing you?

Or she actually has some pretty good reasons to warn the rest of us, on the basis of the relationship you two had. It doesn't necessarily require violence: there are many guys who are manipulative or pushy and yet think they do nothing wrong - but it is often reason enough for escorts to share the information and avoid them.

The solution would be to find out what exactly is she concerned about and see if that can be addressed... and not getting rude, period. How does that ever solve conflict? Because of that, your post is working against you already.

 

[FortunateOne]

With the biz related work you refer to, my opinion might be that the warning would be related to that. Is it that you are attempting to trade for services, receive work for exchange for filming but not pay industry standard rates for the work, etc. Is there some suspicion of scamming going on; where services promised do not materialize (from you) in exchange for $$ for example.

There are a number of reasons an sp in this situation may feel a heads up warning might be warranted. Sometimes it is free photo offers, or work for services, etc. If she feels that your offers are not legitimate then she might have reason to share the info so others can make informed decisions before dealing with you.

 

[billyvassi]

seriously now.

1. i didn't list her name, i didn't "get into it" for a reason

and i knew most of you due to the fact, rightfully so you respect the ladies/men involved in the industry are going to initially side with said person but i thought i would get an insiders opinion.

2. Notice i didnt slander her. This isnt black and white folks, its not pre-emptive at all im asking opinions on a way to resolve this without getting messy. Im not going to get into naming names until she is ridiculous enough to try and start a post about this.

and i dont care to drag out a long annoying, pointless and rude arguement, which is what it will turn out to and seeing as how i have a rather long and written insight into our back and forth i highly doubt she is going to want to get into it.

3.i did do nothing wrong and she is probably jeopardizing her career but then again after our initial, hilarious and childish back and forth a month ago i received an email from her at 7 am ? threatening that she is going to tell everyone about me and my low budget video shoots......because i suggested a content trade and i wasnt comfortable paying for her services right off the bat until i knew she wasnt going to flake so doing trades for the first shoot , seeing as how i knew how much of a flake she was from her pre-escorting days


now if you know what a content trade is you know this isnt out of this planet madness.


So yeah im looking forward to having this out with her on here if she so decides and i havent posted in two years but i have worked with some of the ladies on here and i do like researching who im dealign with sometimes.....

im getting rather pissed there is no recourse in dealing with this.

The ladies deserve respect and not to be dealt with rudely.. but thats thrown out the door when anyone, escort etc behaves like an ass.

 

[HB40]

and i dont care to drag out a long annoying, pointless and rude arguement

So yeah im looking forward to having this out with her on here

OK, well as long as thats clear.

3. she is going to tell everyone about me and my low budget video shoots......because i suggested a content trade and i wasnt comfortable paying for her services right off the bat until i knew she wasnt going to flake so doing trades for the first shoot , seeing as how i knew how much of a flake she was from her pre-escorting days


now if you know what a content trade is you know this isnt out of this planet madness.

But seriously, you really need to pay first to advertise.

 

[DQ Guy]

I guess it really boils down to weather or not your a good person...

If you are then there are people who will back you up.
If not...then.... well... your screwed.

I know there are people that can say a few bad things about me
but there are 3times as many who would have my back in a cat fight

So really. If you are this worried over what one person could say, then
I'm gonna assume that there are a few more that would agree with said person.
If you truly are a nice person, who treats others with due respect...
then why the fu*k are you wasting our time here?.
get over it and move on.. come on are we 10yrs old?..

Sorry if I pissed on anyones shoes. I'm just bored with
all these pointless threads