As a total aside, I am very impressed with how polite and well spoken the OP is for a 19-year-old guy!
Ashtyn @ CA
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Ashtyn......
If you are out there somewhere and you read this, could you please call me or work? We are very worried about you. The last we heard some bad stuff went down and now you are nowhere to be found. I can't imagine you would leave all your stuff and not get in touch with anyone for days, so I have been checking around to see if you are somewhere. You don't even have to come over, just call because I'm not going to stop worrying until I hear your voice.( Don't text me, I want to make sure it's you I'm actually talking to). We care about you and want to know that you're safe and not hurt. Ive looked and called everywhere, the next stop is the police if I don't hear from you by tomorrow evening because I'm scared something has happened.
If you are out there somewhere and you read this, could you please call me or work? We are very worried about you. The last we heard some bad stuff went down and now you are nowhere to be found. I can't imagine you would leave all your stuff and not get in touch with anyone for days, so I have been checking around to see if you are somewhere. You don't even have to come over, just call because I'm not going to stop worrying until I hear your voice.( Don't text me, I want to make sure it's you I'm actually talking to). We care about you and want to know that you're safe and not hurt. Ive looked and called everywhere, the next stop is the police if I don't hear from you by tomorrow evening because I'm scared something has happened.
I hope she is okay Carly.....please let us know one way or another once you find out, now I am worried......
I saw Ashtyn a few months back, she said she was fairly new and the session left really alot to be desired, but as I am experienced I took control of it and got what I wanted, that said it was still a session I would not wish to repeat. At the time she did look like the girl in the CA pics, but it sounds like substance abuse has once again claimed another victim, sorry to hear it she was actually a bit sweet, just kind of inept. Hope she finds the help she needs.
where's Ashtyn?
i was afraid this review wouldnt bode well amonst the community, and to be honest i thought it'd be a flop
but it is a shame.. from the last few posts i read it seems Ashtyn is missing, as far as i know since i've been out of town. If i were her, i would view this thread only as a wake up call and to improve standards almost like a feedback form; not to go out and party. It wasn't my intentions at all to bad mouth her or make her feel unwanted; now her friend is looking for her, and i feel bad because i know for fact there was a 9/10 chance she saw this thread since I noticed she browsed my profile and I would feel really awful if something happened to her.. im no where close to being religious, only spiritual, but god help that shes in a safe place, let alone someone having to notify the police for her sake
feels pretty rotten already just giving her a harsh review..
i was afraid this review wouldnt bode well amonst the community, and to be honest i thought it'd be a flop
but thanx for your kind words lady.. i always appreciate those who recognize my unusual thoughts
and thanks for your support.. but i don't need anyone to feel sorry for me, or for this review to sound like a sob story on my part. The intention was to inform the gentlemen of Victoria about less-dependable SP's that may have not lived up to basic expectations. and im not a picky guy! at all
but it is a shame.. from the last few posts i read it seems Ashtyn is missing, as far as i know since i've been out of town. If i were her, i would view this thread only as a wake up call and to improve standards almost like a feedback form; not to go out and party. It wasn't my intentions at all to bad mouth her or make her feel unwanted; now her friend is looking for her, and i feel bad because i know for fact there was a 9/10 chance she saw this thread since I noticed she browsed my profile and I would feel really awful if something happened to her.. im no where close to being religious, only spiritual, but god help that shes in a safe place, let alone someone having to notify the police for her sake
feels pretty rotten already just giving her a harsh review..
It may have been a harsh review but it was the truth and for that I feel bad for you. It didn't used to be that way with her. Actually it wasn't harsh at all, I've seen waaayyy worse......Don't feel bad, there's no reason to.
Still no Ashtyn......she's been listed as a missing person and I'm concerned her crack head psycho boyfriend has done something but no one knows for sure......
What was the date she browsed your profile? Do you remember?
Still no Ashtyn......she's been listed as a missing person and I'm concerned her crack head psycho boyfriend has done something but no one knows for sure......
What was the date she browsed your profile? Do you remember?
wow reallly? i was hoping someone would prove me wrong, only to notify that she's been found by now.
and that was back around.. late december, early Janurary? right around the time i made this thread
thats pretty scary, considering its been about a month. but you never know with a crackhead (her bf).. anything could've happened but seems to of been no reports in the local news so hopefully shes still vital
if she packed up shop and moved, she could of at least told her employer and friends instead of leaving us in suspense
and that was back around.. late december, early Janurary? right around the time i made this thread
thats pretty scary, considering its been about a month. but you never know with a crackhead (her bf).. anything could've happened but seems to of been no reports in the local news so hopefully shes still vital
if she packed up shop and moved, she could of at least told her employer and friends instead of leaving us in suspense
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Thanks Angie...it's nice to know that some people care. She is officially a missing person now. Her mom and dad are both dead so there is no parents. Her step mom hasn't heard from her which is very strange. Her sister doesn't know either. The police won't go public because there's just so many missing girls and if they're from this business, the cops don't care. They say they do, but that's just lip service. They probably think "oh well, who cares, another hooker's gone, carry on.......it probably didn't help that her father was killed by Victoria Police in a high speed chase, her mother died of a drug overdose and her brother is in jail. Ashtyn isn't like her family though, she's just a lost little girl and I'm not going to stop caring about her and I won't let them forget about her either. I've found over the years that in this business we all watch out for each other because no one else really cares if we live or die. To the clients who watch out for us, (with a special tip of the hat to Athaire), as well....Thank you so very much. When you're on the fringes of society it's nice to know that some people really do give a care about us.
i still would've done it, this girl can take all the help and public info she can get. i'd rather be exposed by someone online rather then still missing and eventually kidnapped/dead
and hell yea kudos to athaire. and i care too but this industry needs more people like him to care for the girls who are already generous enuf as it is
its a shame that shit like this goes on, if i were an agency owner or some type of health care worker, i'd always be looking out for the sp's
thankfully the government is finally starting to smarten up in some places(other then canada) like certain american states or countries like denmark(sweden?)
that actually treat the sp like a victim rather then an offender. for the ones that have no choice of course
and hell yea kudos to athaire. and i care too but this industry needs more people like him to care for the girls who are already generous enuf as it is
its a shame that shit like this goes on, if i were an agency owner or some type of health care worker, i'd always be looking out for the sp's
thankfully the government is finally starting to smarten up in some places(other then canada) like certain american states or countries like denmark(sweden?)
that actually treat the sp like a victim rather then an offender. for the ones that have no choice of course
I understand your point and normally wouldn't do that but everyone who knows her, in this biz and personal life know this info because she tells them. She is not shy about it. So I figure, any info on her is good because it might jog something in someone's memory because they may know or remember a family member and that may lead to a memory of Ashtyn etc..... but thanks for subtly lecturing me before asking why I might have done what I did.
I see how you are concerned, but I have to agree with Jasmine, in that this is not any of your business to be sharing.
I would be horrified to find some girl gossiping about my personal life on here. I know that you say she shares this info with everybody, but that is her decision to share that info, not you.
You can simply state , "this girl seems to be going through some hard times..." rather then spill all her dirty laundry. It just comes off as a bit unclassy.
Regardless, I hope this girl is found and finds the help she needs.
Sorry if you think it's unclassy and gossiping. She's not going through "hard times". She's missing.This girl is alike a daughter to me and I get emotional. There is reason to believe she is in danger and at this point, discretion is not an option anymore. She needs to be found. I will do whatever is neccessary to find her by any means possible. Sorry if I offended anyone. Thanks for being the morals judge though and deciding what is classy\acceptable and what is not, we all need one. Thanks for being mine and keeping me in check.
I was thinking a lot about this last night and thought that maybe I did go over the line in what I said about Ashtyn and the last thing I would ever want to do is hurt her, so I went to the people who are directly involved with her and told them what I said. I also spoke to several other girls and told them what I said. These are girls who have no problem giving their honest opinions on things. They all told me, including those very close to Ashtyn who are not in this business that under the circumstances I did not give out too much info and because of who Ashtyn's family is and their notoriety in this town that it was important that people know because it will impress upon them even more why we need "the public's" help, (for lack of a better term), because the police will be even less unlikely to want to move on this and we need all the help we can get. I would agree normally that giving out info may not be a good thing but this is not a "typical" situation and without knowing all the specifics, someone who comes along and lectures about being unclassy etc....is just sitting on a high horse and trying to make themselves appear better. Do not lecture me unless you have all the facts. It just makes you look judgmental and uppity. The people involved in this situation are just grateful that there are others who care about this kid and are doing whatever they can to find her. As for identifying marks etc......, well, there are pictures on the internet and here on PERB of Ashtyn and I figured a picture is worth a thousand words. (Considering that her pictures are full on body and face shots).
I am not sitting on my high horse, I am sure I am not the only one to think that you went a little far. I am not interested in turning this into an argument. Best of luck with your search in finding her.
]Thanks Angie....She has been found. (TO Digital Mistress......a special thank you goes to you. I won't forget this....if you EVER need any help at all with anything, you've got a marker with me .) Not neccessarily under the greatest of circumstances but I love her and don't care. She's alive. Hopefully one day I'll be able to see her so I can give her all her stuff that I saved. (I didn't want any nasty bitches stealing her shit so Cori and I made sure it's tucked away safely for her). I'm glad you understood Angie. I questioned myself for awhile there, but I think being a mom, the instinct to protect was so strong that it superseded everything else. I always cared about people, especially the young, but it got even more so after I became a mom all those years ago. To anyone I may have offended in this thread...my apologies.....(for offending them, NOT for what I did or didn't do).
.) Not neccessarily under the greatest of circumstances but I love her and don't care. She's alive. Hopefully one day I'll be able to see her so I can give her all her stuff that I saved. (I didn't want any nasty bitches stealing her shit so Cori and I made sure it's tucked away safely for her). I'm glad you understood Angie. I questioned myself for awhile there, but I think being a mom, the instinct to protect was so strong that it superseded everything else. I always cared about people, especially the young, but it got even more so after I became a mom all those years ago. To anyone I may have offended in this thread...my apologies.....(for offending them, NOT for what I did or didn't do).Carly the important thing here is that Ashtyn was found. I am glad that the SP community was able to come together and help locate this young lady. I would like you to pass on my best wishes if and when you speak with her Carly.....Great work.
