Are girlfriends expensive?
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Toto this an't Kansas any more. You are dreaming if you think the SPs will pay thier own way. If you find one let me know. Do you work for free?
Jesus H Fucking Christ on a rubber crutch this has to be the most stupid fucked up statement I have ever read.......to clue you Innocent Boy...as to how "some" SP's are money hungry/greedy I will tell you of a friend of mine who is a pooner who enjoys golf.....he asked an SP to join him for a round of golf at a very high priced golf course with him paying the costs for both green fees/cart rental as well as food/drinks....her reply was that she expected him not only to bear those costs but to also pay her for 4 hours of her time to play golf....and he would not get ANY sex....funny enough this older gal actaully has the stones to advertise with false pictures...needless to say he said NO.....and he also deleted her off his repeat list.
SR
I don't know how the offer was brought up between two of them, but I actually don't see anything wrong with charging him the time. Escorts are paid companion. Technically, what we charge is for the time we spend together, and what we do in the given time is up to the two parties. I can charge whole $220/ 1h for just chit chatting, turning him Japanese, or physically torturing him, or simply offering good sex to him. If somebody ask me to play golf, most likely I would charge for the time regardless it is mini-golf or high-end golf course where Larry David plays. Only occasion I won't charge is that I often give free social dates to those who see me regularly, like weekly/bi-weekly. I offer free social date when we hit our 10th date. Some took me out to dinner, some had two hours photo shoot with me. Otherwise, paid companion is paid companion after all. No?
Sorry for the confusion guys, I meant dating as in her asking to come over and hang out on her "free time". Not where I am paying her to hang out with me.
Maybe being a new girl in town has something to do with it.
Maybe being a new girl in town has something to do with it.
As far as I know he asked her to go on a day she was not taking any clients....he said he would pick up the entire cost of everything for an activity the gal actively participates in and enjoys...her response was that he had to pay her for the time and with no sex involved (not even a quikie in the clubhouse bathroom at the turn) over and above his costs for green fees/cart rental/lunch/drinks (this gets expensive at a high end golf course)...his response was a polite no thank you......my response would have been a bit different.
With your response Yoko....well to be honest you have lost some of the "must see" points you previously earned.
SR
Hahahaha, let's see if I earn the points back.
I think this is an interesting topic to start as its own thread.
When SP hang out with clients outside of business in what occasion.
Japanese business man skills often involve hanging out with clients half business half private hoping there will be a big business brought by the clients. I thought about weather hanging out with clients outside of buiness will be a wise strategy in terms of marketing for this line of work or not.
Well if you wish to bring Japanese Culture into the discussion that is a whole different can of worms considering Japan in the last 120 years changed from a feudal society where the Samurai where revered as protectors of the common folk as well as protectors of them and whom owed their allegiance to the Shogunate.....of course back then the Japanese Emperor was far more than just a symbol....he was a Living God to Japanese people....something that is far different today.....cripes if the modern society of Japan was beholded under the eyes of a Metsuke from 1732 AD it would not be pretty to say the least.
SR
Maybe the GF isn't putting out, or isn't that great in bed furthermore who eats the same meal everday. Sometimes you want chinese, sometimes you want italian, sometimes you want McD's...
feed your hunger.
And let's be fair to the thread as a whole...there are situations where having a boyfriend is expensive! Some girls spend a lot of money on their guys! So maybe it's just that relationships are expensive, i.e. no free lunch either way!
I cant say I have been on the recieving end and enjoyed the benefits of being a kept man.....an interesting thing I heard on the radio today was that after a divorce men's lifestyles move up whilst women's decline...personally I can attest to this as my income more than doubled after I chucked my ex to the wayside....and I am 100% sure if I had stayed with her the extra income would have been signifigantly siphoned off to enrich her......hell I can remember the conversation about RRSP's 1 year before I got rid of her....her expectation was for me to contribute half of what I contributed to myself to hers.....sure am glad I postponed the RRSP's I will say
SR
I was married for more years than I want to think of and since back in the dating scene, I have found that dating is way more expensive than seeing a sp. I have been seeing someone for 4 months off and on as she is an airline steward and we still haven't slept together! its great to have someone to travel with and just hang out with but for sex you can't beat a great sp!
I concur....damn!!!! 4 months and she has not put out....time to find another gal IMO.
SR
Oh oh, it's the Ladder Theory in action again... http://www.laddertheory.com
Sorry Dredger, it doesn't look like sex is in your future with this lady...but you sure do make a great guy to travel with and just hang out with...
Have you tried initiating in some further sexual activities? She may be too shy to seduce you or even suggest you that?
Being 'fair' to this thread? I've yet to hear what it is that girls spend their money on their boyfriends for? Other than a token gift, such as a Canucks hat for your birthday or some sort of gift card for Tim's I've never seen a girlfriend of mine actually take the time to think out a thoughtful gift for her man, other than my buddies' girlfriend who dropped a few hundred for him on Xmas....then again he blew a couple of grand on her over the holidays, so again the balance is way off.
I can count the gifts I've received from girlfriends over the years, and how generally 'male oriented' they were....meaning they had very little meaning relating to her knowing what I liked, or what I was into other than the a-typical guy thing. Easy to buy a sports related gift, or a gift card for a leading coffee shop...not a huge monetary or emotional value placed into the shopping, which I always found strange as to how much women usually love shopping for things that they themselves enjoy, but when it comes to buying for their guys, girls and most women have no freaking idea....hell look at father's day gifts. Another tie? Really? Also, the lack of thoughtfulness put into the gifts are laughable...so far in my experience and I've been through it all....mnarriage too.....women spend alot as well on their men? As compared to what?
Sorry, not attacking you personally, but I read your post and thought...really? Not what I've seen and experienced so far in my life...hell, my ex-wife once bought me a shirt, and a pack of socks and thought that I ought to have dropped to me knees and worshipped her and her generosity. A whole $20 on a tshirt and a $11.99 bag of socks. That was for my birthday. I really had to bridle my enthusiasm...not. And of course a $20 Tim's card. Over the top...for hers I dropped $500 on a spa package for her. And then she never used it and gave it to her friend to use. GAVE it to her friend...$500 that was paid to a spa for her to use, not to give away to her friend. WTF? Afterwards the divorce was the best $$ I ever spent.
Yep...I'm bitter. Pooning for me is cheaper, emotionally too. I really couldn;t deal with a broken heart again...not worth it. I'm so much happier being single, seeing those lovely ladies of pleasure, and buying my own socks.
I am bitter, but a little sugar goes a long way to sweetening this man. The personal note in a card is very precious, especially if written from the heart. Agreed.
I have to say that your bitterness seems completely warranted. Sorry to hear that you've never experienced a generous woman in your life. I'm sure it's not common (compared to the number of generous fellas out there) but it really does exist!
