I've heard it's actually more expensive to get a girlfriend than to poon. And I actually thought pooning was expensive. I wouldn't really know. I've only had one girlfriend, and it only lasted just over a week. I did spend some money on her and also let her borrow some that she payed me back. But considering how much of a bitch she was plus she wasn't attractive, the money I spent on her wasn't worth that week and a half. My question is regarding good looking girlfriends with good personalities. Are they expensive to get/keep? Are they more expensive than pooning? How so?
Are girlfriends expensive?
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It can be expensive.... but honestly, being single and on the prowl isn't exactly cheap either. If you're content to bang girls that don't give a flying hootenany about you (on occasion) and play video games the rest of the time, them single life isn't very expensive. It's also lonely, missing out on having a real best friend and partner to experience the highs and lend support to the lows of life.
At this point finding a gal with no drug problems and able to hold a 40 hour a week job is all I'm asking for. At that not easy!
But back to the question, once your bubble has been bursted with find the " one" you realize a man does not need a wife or life partner. Just have your money in order and get get laid when you need it.
But back to the question, once your bubble has been bursted with find the " one" you realize a man does not need a wife or life partner. Just have your money in order and get get laid when you need it.
Lol plus once you get past a certain point a girlfriend/wife is there pretty much ALL THE DAMN TIME!
Dating in general let alone fostering a relationship can be very expensive. Lifestyle, income, personal tastes, priorities, long term goals, compatibility, starting a family etc are all factors with your "investment".
If you think dating or pooning is expensive, try raising a child in today's environment. Kudos to the couples and single parents that make the necessary sacrifices to survive.
Peace.
If you think dating or pooning is expensive, try raising a child in today's environment. Kudos to the couples and single parents that make the necessary sacrifices to survive.
Peace.
How about finding girlfriend who dose not cost money?
Everyone like to "give" as well as to "take".
Some likes to give more than to take, some likes to take and not giving anything.
It is not 50/50 reciprocal in a relationship, I believe.
So, why don't you find a girl who likes to give out rather than taking and taking from you.
In my very very humble opinion (wink wink), many Asian girls like giving, or even giving only.
In Japanese, they are called 尽くす女, literally means women who does everything for men.
Good luck (^_^)
Everyone like to "give" as well as to "take".
Some likes to give more than to take, some likes to take and not giving anything.
It is not 50/50 reciprocal in a relationship, I believe.
So, why don't you find a girl who likes to give out rather than taking and taking from you.
In my very very humble opinion (wink wink), many Asian girls like giving, or even giving only.
In Japanese, they are called 尽くす女, literally means women who does everything for men.
Good luck (^_^)
Pooning is the cheaper alternative by far and also dating these days is a minefield.....from my experience there is a huge cross-section of women in Calgary that have a very high opinion of themselves and they really dont have a lot going for them...dead end job/rent vs own/high debt ratio etc....I met one gal whose mind-set was that a guy would have to buy her a house before she would put out...holy shit her ego was writing checks her looks/body cannot cash....since I became single I have met only met one gal who had her life set up as well as me in fact she had it better...she was a very attractive Korean gal who did not have the "my shit dont stink" attitude that a lot of women have and she was very much interested in me...so much so that she expected me to eventually move in with her....this did not work out as I did not want to give up my freedom and also for the fact that where she lived would have made my job damn near impossible.
Stick with pooning and save yourself the drama.
SR
Stick with pooning and save yourself the drama.
SR
Pooning is much more cheaper,especially when you get older & you start thinking with the big head.I've been in 3 long term relationships, 1 girl was poor & wanted to live like a Rockafeller, The other one was career driven, made really good money but always wanted to spend my money 1st before she took thy pry bar out & opened up her purse. & the 3rd one was just a very beautiful girl that wasn't very beautiful on the inside.
There's just no drama with pooning(as long as you don't get attached to the s.p.)
There's just no drama with pooning(as long as you don't get attached to the s.p.)
I would agree the cost is one thing but the drama at the end is much more costly. That is the killer. You life has to become her life or what is the point of having the girl friend. My case it has always been about the money. they say it is not important but watch as time goes on. It is the only thing. I find in the hobby life it is the reverse. At first is always about the money as time goes on the money is less the issue as it is agreed but the other stuff comes along. But when it ends it ends without the pain and anger. It is just a business relationship that ends.
It's really a matter of finding the right girl/partner. Personally I've made some bad choices over the years and put up with too many games and troubled personalities and drama to want to commit to a long term relationship for at least a few more years. We'll see what comes along. In the meantime I have a few ladies that like me as a FWB, but they don't have the same sex drive, so I see SP's here and there to fill the void. I have and will continue to date, but I intentionally keep them at a distance and I am pretty up front that I am not looking to get too serious or married and kids anytime soon. This scares off most of the more well rounded girls that I probably would consider good long term partners, but we are not on the same biological clock, so I am not going to compromise my quality of life even if it means passing up a good girlfriend. So long answer for it is probably emotionally and financially cheaper to see SP's, but you will definitely miss the occasional movie and couch cuddle with a girlfriend or a few lonely nights when all your friends with SO's are out together and you're the fifth wheel or single guy etc. Take it as it comes, have fun and look out for yourself before letting yourself be used or caught up in other people's drama. And as a passing personal observation - Dating or getting too caught up with an SP is usually a bad idea. I have found that there is usually a lot of girls with personal problems and baggage in this industry. Fine if you have a thick skin and a big bankroll, but seldom will you come out glad you got involved with them. That's not a fair stereotype by any means, but really just my own experience. I've never been conned or blatantly ripped of by any SP, but a lot of them genuinely cannot run their lives and end up needing a lot of help and support. Wait, that's pretty much the same experience with me for civilian girls too lol. I'm a bad judge of character I guess. That's why I'm still single.
Lol, don't feel bad because your single dude. I use to get razzed all the time by my cousins for being single,Married life just didn't work for me(mind you i've never felt 'lonely', never had that need to be with some one to complete me.)
Thanks yeah I'm ok with it but occasionally get lonely. Luckily I have a few bitterly divorced friends that I can hang with when it isn't their weekend to have the kids. That makes me glad I never went that far with any serious relationships. I guess I am commitment-phobic 
pooning is way more expensive
so is everday life
it's basic math
at 100-400hr on average
unless you're going to be dating a Kardashian, a real woman wouldn't cost you 800/month to wine and dine
the amount I spent doing this in the last 4-5 years, I wouldn't have spent in 15 dating
plus you're asking advice from a biased segment of the pop that is partly bitter, jaded and unsuccessful when it comes to relationships with women
it's like asking the chronically unemployed how to get a job, lol
so is everday life
it's basic math
at 100-400hr on average
unless you're going to be dating a Kardashian, a real woman wouldn't cost you 800/month to wine and dine
the amount I spent doing this in the last 4-5 years, I wouldn't have spent in 15 dating
plus you're asking advice from a biased segment of the pop that is partly bitter, jaded and unsuccessful when it comes to relationships with women
it's like asking the chronically unemployed how to get a job, lol
A $100 for a dinner date is reasonable and say you go out twice a week that totals $800/month.
I pay all the time because she is much younger and makes way less money.
Many people here are thinking of Divorce Costs...
http://www.cnbc.com/id/34316968/The_World_s_Most_Expensive_Divorce_Settlements?slide=1
http://www.cnbc.com/id/34316968/The_World_s_Most_Expensive_Divorce_Settlements?slide=1
You're thinking about cost purely in a dollar amount. The basic fact is money can always be made/earned whatever, one day you will die and your time will run out.
Bang on Dgodus!!!! All we have is the time so make it worthwhile. Why waste it on the breakup and the pain and the BS. Just enjoy the moment. Either way we pay but on the emotional side pay me now or pay me later you are going to pay. I have some great memories from this lifestyle but when I think of tradional relationships I had it is the pain I remember from the break up.
Maybe it is todays society. Everything is disposable. Including relationships. So why not pay for what you want when you want it. Forget all the other stuff. If I want a wife for the weekend I know SPs who will provide that when I need it.
Maybe it is todays society. Everything is disposable. Including relationships. So why not pay for what you want when you want it. Forget all the other stuff. If I want a wife for the weekend I know SPs who will provide that when I need it.
