advice to an sp

[sevenofnine]

tom brady was just an example.
possible the best there is and he still works hard to improve.

i know its hard this is so personal right, the lady has to be comfortable in what there doing.
but some times you just see something,\

its not a question of just posting general, stuff, everyone knows the basics or should\

its a question of a session with a lady, and well you wish she would have prepared more or dressed better, or had more energy or just not be so lazy, or said something,
like the guy who made the post his sp said you must be a chronic masturbator like he is going to go back to her.
simple things you just see, and the lady makes a big deal about, and you wonder why she is, or you wished she would do something for you but never really has,
just things in general for every guy and also personal things that she can do for you,
i mean your paying and it aint cheap

just as an example,
we had a guy fired at work yesterday, he caused an injury accident, twenty years on the job, he should have known better, but, he was there so long, he thought he knew it all, or was so good it didn't matter,, he was careless and stupid,

and some one is in the hospital as the result

i think ladies some times forget the little things. they get in a rut a routine, they see lots of guys, they come and go, what is one client.
then it gets slow, and hey they wonder why they don't have clients any more, or this guy who was a regular is well seeing some one else. because the zip has gone and he needs something new,
but she is to lazy or whatever or things this guy will be her client forever, but well he is just bored,

or some girls its like just contacting them is a hassle. holy shit, they don't answer there emails or it doesn't work period.\

any way just a thought,

me like i said i think im pretty good at what i do,

but don't mind being told to smarten the hell up once inawhile i get lazy and think i know it all. just like the guy that got fired, so being told by the boss once inawhile my preformance is slipping is alot better then
injuring some one at work and putting them in the hospital

and getting fired after thirty years on the job, and it happens,
thirty years you think you know it all

 

[Elmore]

If you are going to be paying for sex with someone then its fairly fucking obvious you are only going to do it if you're physically attracted to them!

It's after that point though that board presence, website etc makes or breaks the deal.

There is an SP I would consider easily one of the best looking providers in the city, shes stunning in a physical sense. I won't see her because she showed herself up to be a stuck-up princess on another board, which I find revolting.

Given a choice of two women, one with a well designed and personal web site free of spelling mistakes and one with a standard wix or whatever with an obvious lack of care or personality in it. My wallet would be voting for the woman who seems to have more care and attention to detail, its a indication of how much effort she'll put into the session.


...also, if you can't take constructive critiscm then you'll never improve. I've seen this happen many many times in my career. The people always open to any suggestion of improvement (even if they sometimes disagree) are the ones who go onto greatness. The ones who are immediately on the defensive at the mere suggestion they do something different do not fare so well and this bleeds into real life.
I agree that advice should be sought when you feel you need it, but shouldn't be immediately discarded on the off-hand unless you KNOW the person giving it is completely unqualified to be giving it. i.e. they are fucking retarded.

Dude...is it really that obvious? There are plenty of guys who opt for services offered over looks. I shudder when I read some of the reviews but to each their own. There are 25 year old guys having sex with 50 year old Asian women advertising as 23. You really think there is an attraction there? Oh, but she will lick his ass for half of the session and swallow at the end...all for 100 bucks.

I don't know who she is but I am sure the overlooked princess you described isn't hurting for business...but she isn't getting yours and she wouldn't get mine either. In many cases, the lady with the impeccable website simply looked at the final product and gave her approval. For me that says as much about who she really is as the airbrushed pictures on that site. I would rather see a lady who doesn't even have a website but publishes real and unedited pictures of herself. But then again, to each his own.

 

[Alix Turner]

Criticism is only constructive if it helps you get where you want to be.
This isn't a lifetime commitment for a lot of girls, they aren't looking to be the next Xaviera Hollander. These women may enjoy sex but see sex work as a means to an end and they aren't attempting to be courtesans. Anyone coming to see them for sex that thinks they are doing something productive by making repeated appointments only to be unhappy with her selection of toiletries, uninspired greeting when he calls, and a growing air of detachment despite his repeated "advice" on how to make him a satisfied repeat customer.. is attempting to get blood from a stone.. and despite the complaints, he's still paying her to complain about how lacking he finds aspects of her service.

While I don't approve of girls that misrepresent their attitudes, service, or intentions.. there's no way I can sympathize with someone who is complaining about service from someone that he continues to visit.

 

[cjac7214]

My brain hurts...

Can't we all just fuck and be happy!

(I mean the guys with the gals of course....)

 

[newatit]

The kind of advice that seems to work wonders, when you aren't getting exactly what you want is this: "If you provide me with this additional service, I will pay this additional amount more" Maybe it is an everydate payment, or maybe an icebreaker, but it works wonders for those gals that it works for. In other words, upsell them rather than them upselling you.

There is lots of variety of SP's out there, what is this thread all about? If you like the service, stick with it, if you like the SP stay with her, otherwise, read the ads and move along.

 

[sevenofnine]

to start i will apologize if i offended any one.

i made a weak attempt at humor, some where in this,
it should have went something like
i should know better then to give a women advice i have after all i have been married for thirty years. i guess i still offended half the population,

and life is a learning experiance,

i don't get why some people stop learning somewhere down the line.

 

[sevenofnine]

Read my previous advice, please seven, and this one too. Why did you stop learning about sentence structure and grammar in the first grade? You say some interesting things, but honestly I stopped reading your shit a long time ago; I can't follow it. Take some advice, get some proper punctuation, a spell checker and some real sentences.

thankyou
but allow me to make a comment.

it always amuses me, when we just don't accept who we are or who other people are,
we try to change them to make them think and act like us.

i am me,

and would you believe i never really went to school, my family was that dysfunctional growing up.
and i don't care to a point,
and there is a certain rebellious nature in me,
that wants to say fuck it all. fuck the establishment, fuck society

for those homeless wasted bums you see lining the street,
at one point, i guess that is where my life was headed,
i as a kid was one of those people that just fell through the cracks,

so i guess, i have a side of me that just ones to stick my middle finger up at the world.

but still, at this website, were doing what we do,
i find it very intolerent