For anyone who ever called me a man hater
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I apologize if my question seemed as though it was intended to be mean; it was asked with genuine curiosity.
I totally get where you're coming from and I agree that, on average, men tend to be less emotionally intelligent than women. However, I personally disagree with the notion that the standard for emotional intelligence is lower for men. In my opinion, men are actually more severely penalized for lacking social intelligence compared to women.
just to clarify, I never hinted at or suggested the idea that woman arent capable of having successful relationships with good men in this discussion or other threads.
Personally, based on my own experiences, anecdotes and conversations with both men and women, I feel like sex workers are generally quite distinct from non-sex worker women. And, just to be clear, I'm speaking in broad terms here.
I have absolutely no qualms or negative feelings towards sex workers. I fully respect their choices and how they earn their income, and I have met many sex workers who are great people, and some I would consider friends.
I can tell you reflected because of your response time and the change in tone of your post. You’re still being hypocritical in this response though. But that’s for another day.
Like I said just beware as you HAVE come across as having negative views or perception of who SWs may be or experience as people. I’ve literally interacted with you on such threads.
Guys with low emotional intelligence get left out of the loop in both social circles and the dating pool.Yeah, standards (especially in emotional intelligence) seem to be much lower for men though, also I interact with a lot of men because of this job, also the majority of people on this board are men, and also I’ve been called a misandrist so I’m talking specifically about men
If men weren't socially ostracized for having low emotional intelligence, there would be far fewer opportunities for sex workers, since they often prey on men who struggle with social skills and confidence. I'm not saying that all sex workers depend solely on those types of men as clients, but it's a majority of their clientele for sure. just speaking as a guy in the sex work industry myself (OnlyFans management mostly, so it's a bit of a different vibe), but a lot of the girls I work with also do escorting or sugar baby stuff. I definitely rake in the most cash from guys who are on the lonelier, socially awkward side
What kind of negative consequences do women who struggle with emotional intelligence typically experience in life? Besides maybe winding up in jail if they break the law, I can't really think of any major ones.
When was was the last time you hung out with women who aren't in the sex industry?
Not a man hater but a great man trainer! I learned so much.
Friday night for catching up. So, I know we each live our own individual experiences, so I'm just trying to figure out which one of us has a more extreme perspective.
You haven't really told us what you think about this topic in the thread.
In what way is my perspective "extreme" in your eyes?
That’s why I like seeing the imports, it’s less complicated and I just want to get laid.
I have other people to discuss life with so not interested in doing it on the clock.
I have other people to discuss life with so not interested in doing it on the clock.
Somebody felt they weren’t getting enough attention….
This thread is complete bullshit. Can anyone just define “emotional intelligence “ ?
There’s this resource called the “dictionary” that I would recommend you check out when you have questions like this. It tells you what words mean! Amazing!
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Calling you Charlee a misandrist is wildly inaccurate. Being vocal about pointing out double standards and misogyny toward women would be on point.
Keep in mind that men quite often are raised differently. Sometime it's where you come from , sometimes cultural and sometimes a religious problem.
Men tend to be guarded emotionally because of the way our parents raised us and peer pressure but not necessarily because of a lack of emotional intelligence in my mind . Chris Rock did a piece a while back that I find funny as lot of male friends and that we thought accurate about unconditional love that define how men see love and emotions in a certain extent.
Keep in mind that men quite often are raised differently. Sometime it's where you come from , sometimes cultural and sometimes a religious problem.
Men tend to be guarded emotionally because of the way our parents raised us and peer pressure but not necessarily because of a lack of emotional intelligence in my mind . Chris Rock did a piece a while back that I find funny as lot of male friends and that we thought accurate about unconditional love that define how men see love and emotions in a certain extent.
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