Anonymous Poll ! Are you willing to give a reference to see a SP ? (Inspired by RRC)
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I hope most gentlemen I know realize that they can always rely on me for a reference. I think some ladies prefer if you ask them first, but I don't particularly mind.
I agree with Vanesssa, 90% people I see offer a reference, and the other 10% make a great introduction, and usually give me some kind of personal information to cross reference, or ask them to check into a 4/5 star hotel and give their check in name for cross reference. Also, a really nice and genuine introductory email helps a lot, so I can get to know you a bit first, before even checking references. I like to know a lot more than if someone is simply safe or respectful. Extra information helps build trust, interest... and often is the beginning of any chemistry that might arise.
From my perspective, because I have another, conventional profession in a conservative institution, I'm thinking really of discretion as well as general safety. For example, I would not want to accidentally meet a colleague or family member!
I could see how some fellows might feel a bit shy about asking for a reference
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I agree with Vanesssa, 90% people I see offer a reference, and the other 10% make a great introduction, and usually give me some kind of personal information to cross reference, or ask them to check into a 4/5 star hotel and give their check in name for cross reference. Also, a really nice and genuine introductory email helps a lot, so I can get to know you a bit first, before even checking references. I like to know a lot more than if someone is simply safe or respectful. Extra information helps build trust, interest... and often is the beginning of any chemistry that might arise.
From my perspective, because I have another, conventional profession in a conservative institution, I'm thinking really of discretion as well as general safety. For example, I would not want to accidentally meet a colleague or family member!
I could see how some fellows might feel a bit shy about asking for a reference
.I beg to differ, there is a grey area.
Because my answer is depends on the lady.
A lady had in her ad, her email phone number, and a picture of her genitals, she appeared pretty much out of no were with very little history.
The pervert that I am, count me in.
She asked for a reference
What kind of reference does a picture of a ladies pussy require, a picture of my junk.
Needless to say I never did see her.
A very classy lady had an online presence going back several years. Again nothing but class.
I sent her everything she required more then she required with out her even asking for it.
I have no idea if she checked me out. but I saw her, a nice time, pretty much what you would expect from a classy lady.
Me and a lady were having a thing on a message board. Not a nice thing.
I apologized in a pm. and in public,
The pervert that I am and what the hell, I hinted about a session, but since we were fighting no way would she get reference,
I made a joke, that she should give me a reference.
And not to offend any one, but some ladies that is just who they are, they have such a presence such a classy presence.
Other ladies well not so much.
Like someone said his list of reviews are his reference,
My still going with the same lady after ten years should be good enough for anyone,
But if it doesn't ask me if I care.
Because my answer is depends on the lady.
A lady had in her ad, her email phone number, and a picture of her genitals, she appeared pretty much out of no were with very little history.
The pervert that I am, count me in.
She asked for a reference
What kind of reference does a picture of a ladies pussy require, a picture of my junk.
Needless to say I never did see her.
A very classy lady had an online presence going back several years. Again nothing but class.
I sent her everything she required more then she required with out her even asking for it.
I have no idea if she checked me out. but I saw her, a nice time, pretty much what you would expect from a classy lady.
Me and a lady were having a thing on a message board. Not a nice thing.
I apologized in a pm. and in public,
The pervert that I am and what the hell, I hinted about a session, but since we were fighting no way would she get reference,
I made a joke, that she should give me a reference.
And not to offend any one, but some ladies that is just who they are, they have such a presence such a classy presence.
Other ladies well not so much.
Like someone said his list of reviews are his reference,
My still going with the same lady after ten years should be good enough for anyone,
But if it doesn't ask me if I care.
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How does this make any sense? How would an sp know if the person you were asking to provide a reference for you wasnt you answering from another phone, or if it was supposed to be an sp, just a friend doing you a favor. Obviously the only references you are going o give woulsd be positive, so what is she really learning except what you'd like her to think about you. I think this business is getting a little too paranoid sometimes. THere's an elememt of risk involved clearly, but this seems rather unrealistic in terms of precautions.
I think any time you establish a nice rapport with an SP like we have Bree; it's pretty much a given that I would ask you for a reference should I ever need one. We seemed to hit it off immediately like we had known each other for a long time. :nod:I hope most gentlemen I know realize that they can always rely on me for a reference. I think some ladies prefer if you ask them first, but I don't particularly mind.
I agree with Vanesssa, 90% people I see offer a reference, and the other 10% make a great introduction, and usually give me some kind of personal information to cross reference, or ask them to check into a 4/5 star hotel and give their check in name for cross reference. Also, a really nice and genuine introductory email helps a lot, so I can get to know you a bit first, before even checking references. I like to know a lot more than if someone is simply safe or respectful. Extra information helps build trust, interest... and often is the beginning of any chemistry that might arise.
From my perspective, because I have another, conventional profession in a conservative institution, I'm thinking really of discretion as well as general safety. For example, I would not want to accidentally meet a colleague or family member!
I could see how some fellows might feel a bit shy about asking for a reference
I know I have had no problem recommending you to others
due to my job being a little too public and could get in trouble with my employer too easily on moral issues, I don't feel comfortable giving too much personal info and really don't want to keep contact with a girl I have seen, so I just avoid any that asks for reference
