Cock is referring to Sexy Nina, and Virgin is referring to the author of the article. Oui?
I got a little lost in context as per individual.
"How porn has hijacked our sexuality"
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I got a little lost in context as per individual.
This was the response to Cock's rebuttal.dude she claims to be an anti-pornography activist!
Also do you disagree with any of the 5 points I have made?
I can't see Nina not wanting to watch porn with me. We can choose together...I don't ALWAYS win.
Yes I thought Cock was referring to Gail Dines not Nina. Of course porn has had effects on the society but the interviewee is presenting very poorly thought sensationalist arguments.
Can I join you two? I promise to behave!I can't see Nina not wanting to watch porn with me. We can choose together...I don't ALWAYS win.
One more thing I also wanted to explain why I thought the interviewee was delusional, hence the long response.
I think that a woman having sex falls into one of three categories (note, one woman can have sex in more than one category but only one is the MAIN reason at any particular time).
1) She's doing it mostly to obtain something non-sexual that she wants (all SP's when working, gold diggers, wife giving bj to get you to take her to chick-flick, whatever)
2) She likes the foreplay but is neutral about the intercourse and would be happy with just the cuddling/kissing/fondling and nothing else. She has intercourse mainly to get the cuddling and foreplay.
3) She totally enjoys the feeling of a dick inside her and is doing it mainly because it's fun for her and she likes it.
For the longest time, society repressed the idea of #3. Women who liked to have sex just because they enjoyed it were called "sluts" or "trash" and were really looked down on.
Then along came feminism and the birth control pill.
Some women learned that "hey, we can have sex just because we like sex and there's nothing wrong with that!"
Those women didn't particularly care about being in love or getting lots of cuddling, some of them found that they could have orgasms just from intercourse alone (not most, but some) others learned other ways to increase their enjoyment (vibrator on the clit while being fucked, etc). These are the women who are into and enjoy casual sex.
I have been in relationships with a few of these women, whether they were girlfriends, or fuck-buddies or whatever. Most of them never really watched porn, so it had nothing to do with their attitudes towards sex.
So, the feminists are blaming porn for something that THEY did.
ps: If anyone thinks that SP's when working don't fall into category #1, then ask yourself this: Would they be fucking you if they weren't getting paid to do it? No? Then the MAIN reason they are fucking you, is because you are paying them. Do they enjoy fucking? I hope so, otherwise their career choice would kinda suck for them (Thinking of a certain princess who recently made that so so clear)
1) She's doing it mostly to obtain something non-sexual that she wants (all SP's when working, gold diggers, wife giving bj to get you to take her to chick-flick, whatever)
2) She likes the foreplay but is neutral about the intercourse and would be happy with just the cuddling/kissing/fondling and nothing else. She has intercourse mainly to get the cuddling and foreplay.
3) She totally enjoys the feeling of a dick inside her and is doing it mainly because it's fun for her and she likes it.
For the longest time, society repressed the idea of #3. Women who liked to have sex just because they enjoyed it were called "sluts" or "trash" and were really looked down on.
Then along came feminism and the birth control pill.
Some women learned that "hey, we can have sex just because we like sex and there's nothing wrong with that!"
Those women didn't particularly care about being in love or getting lots of cuddling, some of them found that they could have orgasms just from intercourse alone (not most, but some) others learned other ways to increase their enjoyment (vibrator on the clit while being fucked, etc). These are the women who are into and enjoy casual sex.
I have been in relationships with a few of these women, whether they were girlfriends, or fuck-buddies or whatever. Most of them never really watched porn, so it had nothing to do with their attitudes towards sex.
So, the feminists are blaming porn for something that THEY did.
ps: If anyone thinks that SP's when working don't fall into category #1, then ask yourself this: Would they be fucking you if they weren't getting paid to do it? No? Then the MAIN reason they are fucking you, is because you are paying them. Do they enjoy fucking? I hope so, otherwise their career choice would kinda suck for them (Thinking of a certain princess who recently made that so so clear)
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My Porn Watching Pig Boyfriend
Date: 2010-03-05, 1:18PM EST
So you like watching these porn-sluts get pounded and creamed? OK, I get it, I kind of like some of that too. It's rather entertaining, if not slightly disturbing/fascinating to WATCH.
But now you're getting all fucked up with me, and although I keep taking it from you, you're probably on the way out, and I'm trying to think of ways to get you back. Because, at the end of the day, the "new" hardcore is rather degrading, and there are too many limits being pushed. Here are a few of mine that keep getting tested:
1) If you don't stop slapping my tits and pinching my nipples that way, you won't ever see them again. I hope you like my parka, cause it's going to become my new lingerie.
2) Don't ever spit on my face again, I think I made that clear, sorry about the sore balls.
3) I used to feel proud that I could swallow, now I feel pretty gross after you dick whip me and make me eat it off your cock and fingers like it's punishment. I would do all that for you anyway, but when you hold my hair and call me names and make me, there's that line I was talking about.
4) Pussy to mouth is kind of freaky, I'm totally ok with that. Ass to mouth is something else altogether, stop even joking about it. If you should ever decide to "forge ahead" with that one and see how it goes, I'll bite your fucking dick off, I swear I will. If I don't manage that in the moment, I'll get you in your sleep.
Thanks for listening sweetheart. By the way how did your coffee taste this morning?
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My Porn Watching Pig Boyfriend
Date: 2010-03-05, 1:18PM EST
So you like watching these porn-sluts get pounded and creamed? OK, I get it, I kind of like some of that too. It's rather entertaining, if not slightly disturbing/fascinating to WATCH.
But now you're getting all fucked up with me, and although I keep taking it from you, you're probably on the way out, and I'm trying to think of ways to get you back. Because, at the end of the day, the "new" hardcore is rather degrading, and there are too many limits being pushed. Here are a few of mine that keep getting tested:
1) If you don't stop slapping my tits and pinching my nipples that way, you won't ever see them again. I hope you like my parka, cause it's going to become my new lingerie.
2) Don't ever spit on my face again, I think I made that clear, sorry about the sore balls.
3) I used to feel proud that I could swallow, now I feel pretty gross after you dick whip me and make me eat it off your cock and fingers like it's punishment. I would do all that for you anyway, but when you hold my hair and call me names and make me, there's that line I was talking about.
4) Pussy to mouth is kind of freaky, I'm totally ok with that. Ass to mouth is something else altogether, stop even joking about it. If you should ever decide to "forge ahead" with that one and see how it goes, I'll bite your fucking dick off, I swear I will. If I don't manage that in the moment, I'll get you in your sleep.
Thanks for listening sweetheart. By the way how did your coffee taste this morning?
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I think you're right
I think you're right dood. just ask women on here how many of them would want to fuck 10" dick for free...
Wow. That seems just a little on the harsh side. Guys should always tell potential GFs
that they need to get to know them, especially in the bedroom, before signing up.
There will always be morons who try to do everything they see in movies.Adriana✿;1037403 said:
Fortunately, most of them don't survive their first attempt at jumping off the roof with a bedsheet tied on like a cape.
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For me, I can never get passed my empathy and basic repect for my partner. I don't have to be in love, hell sometimes I haven't even known her name, but I certainly value her as a person, and the "mutualness" of what we are experiencing. Because of this I have no need to "bust a nut" all over her face to feel as if I'm having a rocking good time. Every partner brings something different to the experience. Sometimes it's like this crazy, screaming train wreck from start to finish and sometimes it's done after a minute and a half of mish. I think porn creates unrealistic expectations for both parties that can lead to feelings of inadequacy. I don't think there is anything I wouldn't do for someone I cared about or was attracted to, but again it's based upon caring enough to want to please her at that time; not to emmulate some porn film.
Communication (verbal and physical) is so important. If I want to stick a trumpet up her ass while I wear a silly hat and fuck her in a tub of jello, I'll ask....Lol!
Vid
Communication (verbal and physical) is so important. If I want to stick a trumpet up her ass while I wear a silly hat and fuck her in a tub of jello, I'll ask....Lol!
Vid
I have a mixed view when it comes to porn.
On the negative side, I found porn to be addictive in some cases with the added risk of becoming lazy. I mean, why bother going out to find sexual gratification when you have images/videos of naked women getting fucked, and your left hand?
Also, I have found that the more extreme porn is starting to become more mainstream. Before the internet revolution, extreme porn was around but more or less underground. Now however, I constantly see videos of girls being forced to drink piss, and very realistic rape scenarios among other things. Google up Max Hardcore and see for yourself.
On the plus side, porn has taught me that its okay to embrace my sexuality, once I got over the notion that you don't have to be ripped with a 10 inch dick to have a good sex life. It also taught me to be a bit more aggressive when I do have sex and that sometimes girls just want to have a hair pulling, ass smacking, name calling, fuck. Finally, it actually helped me learn how to please a woman. Yes ladies, everything I learned about oral sex and G spot stimulation, I learned by watching porn movies, (and a bit of practice).
I think what gets a lot of guys in trouble is that they sometimes forget that porn never was,is, and never will be a realistic depiction of sex, and that every girl has different tastes, (I'll never forget one girl who wanted me to punch her in the face and call her a dirty fucking slut). I know its an overused cliche but it proves why communication is so important.
On the negative side, I found porn to be addictive in some cases with the added risk of becoming lazy. I mean, why bother going out to find sexual gratification when you have images/videos of naked women getting fucked, and your left hand?
Also, I have found that the more extreme porn is starting to become more mainstream. Before the internet revolution, extreme porn was around but more or less underground. Now however, I constantly see videos of girls being forced to drink piss, and very realistic rape scenarios among other things. Google up Max Hardcore and see for yourself.
On the plus side, porn has taught me that its okay to embrace my sexuality, once I got over the notion that you don't have to be ripped with a 10 inch dick to have a good sex life. It also taught me to be a bit more aggressive when I do have sex and that sometimes girls just want to have a hair pulling, ass smacking, name calling, fuck. Finally, it actually helped me learn how to please a woman. Yes ladies, everything I learned about oral sex and G spot stimulation, I learned by watching porn movies, (and a bit of practice).
I think what gets a lot of guys in trouble is that they sometimes forget that porn never was,is, and never will be a realistic depiction of sex, and that every girl has different tastes, (I'll never forget one girl who wanted me to punch her in the face and call her a dirty fucking slut). I know its an overused cliche but it proves why communication is so important.
Man, if you have never had a bj that was 1000 times better than your left hand, then you need to either get out more or marry your left hand.
As for the ass-to-mouth mentioned above, never tried to make it happen, but sometimes when you're really drunk and she's really really drunk.. all of a sudden you're thinking, "Oh man, she's sucking soooo good... wait a minute.. oh fuck.. do I remind her what we just did? no, she'd kill me. Just remember, do NOT kiss her on the mouth after!!"
Then you hope and pray that you cum in her mouth and pull the hell out before she remembers and chomps down on you.
island_guy, your previous post, up there a bit...had me laughing my head off! Very funny.
This last post...mmmm...a wee bit too revealing...
This last post...mmmm...a wee bit too revealing...
I posted Cindy Gallop`s TED talk in an earlier thread: https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?129927-Make-Love-not-Porn!. In my opinion she has a much better case than Gail Dines (the author who has been interviewed).
