Your very first time?

[LaceyYung]

So as I eagerly await my first clients, I couldn't help but wonder what other people's first time seeing an SP was like...and because this will be my first official post in the lounge, the topic seems somewhat appropriate I apologize in advance if this topic was already brought up recently, but a quick search through the forums didn't turn up anything...

So let's hear it. The good, the bad, the surprises and memorable moments in between. What was your motivation for wanting to see an SP? Did it meet any of your expectations? Perhaps even exceeding them?

As for the ladies in this forum, please join in the discussion! I'm curious about the reasons you had for entering the industry and what your first client experience was like.

I think hearing both sides of the story is one of the many awesome things about a forum like Perb.
Thanks in advance for sharing

 

[sevenofnine]

i was very nervous scared shitless actually,
it was along time since i had sex so i was a newbi in alot of ways.

i picked the most or best reviewed lady i could find,one of the icon's in the industry every guy pretty much just went wow even if her style wasn't what they personally liked she still impressed the hell out of them

she greeted me at the door in a simple white panty and bra, kissed me inserted a quick tongue which took me by surprise,
and then i followed that cute tush up a set of stairs,
like i said i was scared shitless its been along time and didn't know how to proceed, tried to talk
the lady had none of it she simply reached down my pants with one hand and undid zipper and belt with the other,
we never really talk
she only whispered in my ear, in the softest voice, i thought it was a dream

she said,
she had enough for both of us,
fuck
a magical moment,
with an incrediable lady

 

[blazejowski]

I was shitting bricks I was so nervous... Mind you, I am ALWAYS nervous, especially seeing someone new, but after the initial "hi's" and some conversation, I loosen up considerably...

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

I too was nervous. Did a lot of research and the first lady I saw was Totally Touchable Tiffany. Truth is I thought perhaps she'd take one look at me and change her mind, but I couldn't have been more wrong.

I remember thinking how tall she was, cause she had these high heels on and I'm about 5'6", and with her heels on she must have been about 5'9" or so, but once she sat down with me on her couch and the DFK started, everything just clicked.

 

[old pooner]

My very first time with an SP was in 1971. I picked her up in a strip club in Calgary, Dino's Hideaway. Her name was April and she was drop dead gorgeous.

 

[SFMIKE]

It happened so fast I did not have time to be nervous, or even think about. Was in the shadiest part of SF, saw a yellow sign "MASSAGE", rang the bell and got rushed to a room in the back by a very young Vietnamese girl. She said to undress and she began running water into a bathtub. Next thing I knew her "trainee" came back with her and they both scrubbed me down, dried me off and excorted me to a mattress on the floor.

She was explaining to her trainee what to do as they both massaged me from either side. After about 20 minutes the teasing began, all four hands then she must have told the other girl that "three's company", so suddenly the two of us were alone, she, I and a condom. 24 or so years later, I still am waiting for an encore. I have since learned that it will never get better, but that has not stopped me from searching.

 

[Dgodus]

We used to snicker at the classifieds in the Regina newspaper at lunch (come on, some of them are tacky!) and I thought "hmmm I bet this stuff is on the Internet too". Boy what an eye opener (and jaw dropper!) when I eventually stumbled onto EC and CAF (just the ads page, not forums). Had my eye on a few providers, but was (what appeared to my completly inexperienced eye) seeing very upscale women, with glamor shots and words like discerning gentleman everywhere (me knowing my past have trouble adding those to myself, although I am respectful, understanding, polite and at times sweet and affectionate) it was intimidating. Was dropping someone off in Regina for a flight and said screw it and booked with someone who didnt look as proffesional and upscale (she looked and came off as more of a "porn star" on her website. I was only nervous until I got a reply email, then I was excited (I hadn't gotten laid in six years, I'd become hermit like for various reasons).

The sex was quite good, the lady was not (she kept breaking character for unnecessary reasons, kept asking personal questions and prying for answers, she really didn't get my sense of humor - basically no click whatsoever). It was very much a "take it or leave it" experience that didn't leave me impressed by the hobby.

4 months later I said why not again (as I usually try most things twice before writing them off) fired up EC and saw one of the "glamor shots" ladies (lol) I had eyed before would be in Reggie in 2 days, sent an email making clear I wasn't someone walking around in a suit, with a sophisticated personality that ate 300 dollar meals at 4 star restoraunts (basically hi I'm John a golfball electrician). Much more nervous than before as I expect a reply of "no thanks" if any reply at all. Nope 2 days later I'm driving to Reggie bouncing in my car seat like a giddy little kid on Xmas. Door opened and I barely got out hello before I was engulfed in giggles, kisses, arms and cooing. After two hours of fantastic service (all a credit to her as I was out of shape from being on vacation for three weeks and out of practice, six years man!) I was trying to walk through closed elevator doors and thinking to myself " THAT was exactly what I'd envisioned!!"

I only mention the second time because a) I try things twice and b) I'll remeber that 2nd one long after the 1st has faded from memory. I will add that even though I don't get nerves walking up to the door it's not hard for a lady to throw me off track and make me uncomfortable, but getting used to things.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

first time - massage parlour, knockout blonde. but due to some bad advice i didn't bring enough money. she said i could get a 15 min blo n go for that amount. i thought with a babe like her, i'd be lucky to last 15 min - that was when i found out about covered bj's... ya can't feel a dang thing! after a bit she finished me by hand and kicked me out

second time - 'hawaiian princess, 36-24-36'. yippee, i thought, the cowboy's gonna bang princess kona! but king kong answered the door :fear: the only thing on her that was 36 inches was the distance around one of her thighs!

the third time i got it right though

anyway, enough bs about me - i read through yer website girl, and DANG! there's some seriously sexy writing there...

- I will never forget the first long, slow lick of my little bare pussy. He was so capable. I loved his smell too, I loved to breathe in that musky smell of his balls.
- I couldn't help the slow but steady trickle of my juices down my trembling thighs as I thought about your cock sliding into me, my pussy tightening as I took you in deeper.
- I felt myself being lifted off my seat and onto his lap. In an instant, he was in me.

that sends shivers down my spine! some of the reviewers on this board should take lessons from you :thumb: :nod:

 

[Papa Chongo]

Wow, so many positve experiences

My first time seeing an SP was in Santa Cruz California, It was 5 -6 years ago, I was at my hotel with a coworker I had the hots for, we had gone drinking after our seminar, she was teasing me all night, then left me to go to her room ( Grrrrr ) I ended up crusing craigslist, called up a girl who was close to my hotel, and waited, it was $200 for the hour, she showed up, took my $200, handed it to someone in the hall and came back over to me, she sat on the bed, we kissed, I started to touch her,. she stopped me and proceeded to tell me the menu, WTF the $200 just got her in the door, if I wanted more then it was extra, I ended up paying $100 for a handjob, worst SP experience ever.

It took 4 years before I tried again, I was in Coquitlam working one day and was quite horny, so I searched up Craigslist on my phone, found an interesting ad, for Misty, I called her and had a great chat, she told me about Perb, I explained my reservations, and she told me to check out her reviews, I did! I was quite happy with what I saw and went that afternoon to see her, It was a great experience, she had nice fake tits, we kissed and ......

I have had far more good exepriences than bad ones, loving the ladies!

 

[Holly Taylor]

As for the ladies in this forum, please join in the discussion! I'm curious about the reasons you had for entering the industry and what your first client experience was like.

My first session was really fun. However, I was extremely nervous, because I wasn't really sure what I was supposed to do. Obviously I had some idea, but you know what I mean.

Basically I just went with the flow of things. I was quite shy and didn't know what to talk about. The appointment was only 1 hour long, so it was mostly focused on the physical anyway. The client knew that he was my first client, and he took charge of the situation. The whole experience felt very natural.

Looking back, I figure that this client was probably really excited by the whole new/nervous/shy/girl-next-door thing, so I think he left happy

I'm glad that my first experience was so positive. The client made me feel desirable, safe, and secure. He was polite, friendly, and didn't try to push any boundaries. What more could you ask for?

 

[Hardlover]

I wished I could share amazing memories of my first time but I dont. Instead I found myself in a dark red room which looked more like a operation theater. There was a lot of drilling and sawing going on upstairs that I could hear. Next thing you know I find this lady mounting on top of me and riding me like a jackhammer, I kept telling her to slow down but she didnt and I blew.... It felt like a dream since it was over before you know it.

 

[pinkpanther]

My very first encounter was back when I was 19 and first moved to Vancouver. I was having a bit of a rough night and was out for a walk downtown when I came to the front of Madame Cleos. I was very familiar with MP's and new very very little about hobbying. I figured that my night was already bad enough at that point, so I walked in. I was greeted by several ladies, all scantily dressed in lingerie. I wasn't dressed to impress and didn't look a day over my age of 19. None of the girls looked interested in accompanying me except for one older women with a massive rack who was smiling in my direction. When asked who I would like, I was too nervous to say a word and pointed in her direction. She stood up and escorted me to a room. I can't recall what the donation was, but I don't think I had enough in my wallet to cover it. I was so turned on by her voluptuous breasts that I said I could go to an ATM. We agreed on a price for a hj and then she asked me to undress and grab a shower. When I returned, she gave me a hj and finished me off. I quickly dressed, gave her my watch as collateral and walked out the back door and to the 7-11 around the corner. I grabbed the cash, returned, and parted ways.

I had this feeling of guilt and never even re-considered doing such a thing until a couple years later when I started flipping through the Georgia Straight and came across an add for a Beyonce Look-A-Like. It was posted by Stephanie or known on Perb as Lady Creole Marmalade for those of you who might remember her. I was now 21, and even more nervous than before. I called her and made an appointment for that evening at 8. I groomed and prepped myself. Put on my one and only suite and jumped in my car. I turned the ignition, but nothing. I tried again and then called her and let her know that I was having car problems. She was completely understanding. I then somehow managed to get it started and made my way to her incall on Granville.

I still remember the night pretty clearly. I arrived early, so I texted her and was told she needed some more time to get ready and that there was a coffee store across the street I could go to. I headed over, drank a coffee and then was buzzed in shortly after. Her incall had some porn playing in the tv, a nicely made pullout bed and fresh linens. She asked me whether I just came from a meeting and then I told her I wasn't sure how to dress for the occasion. She laughed and got me to undress. She was very friendly and I saw her a few times after. It was a positive experience and I I'm glad I was introduced into the hobby. I've met many wonderful ladies who provided me with company when I was too shy and nervous to otherwise go out and meet a girl on the street or in a club.

I enjoy the feeling of butterflies and meeting someone for the very first time. I've had very few bad experiences since, mainly as I know what type of girl I'm looking for and usually, that mutually works out.

 

[cesar]

My first time was (in Toronto) not memorable but I persevered and finally met a mature provider in her late 40s (I was 30) and I continued to see her for many years (while trying out lots of younger women along the way). This was in the 1980's so no internet. It was very much hit and mis. Basically no photos & no reviews. Not as many women to choose from at that time. Prices were high in the early eighties and then dropped over time. It seemed that gradually more and more women entered the profession so choice increased (there are lots of escorts to choose from now in any major city). Most of the ladies in the 1980s were caucasian (Canadian born). Then in the mid 1990s many more asians started to come to Toronto so there were now asian providers to choose from! The asian ladies are great (IMHO). After trying a few ladies in this profession I threw away all my stereotype negative views and developed a profound respect and admiration for escorts (i.e.,most not all). Thank god for all the wonderful women in this business! This has been my experience over the past thirty years.

 

[westcoast555]

Well.. to be honest.. I was 15 and it was my first time. Yes, I lost it to an SP and I don't really regret it. First time is overrated. I had plenty of fun a year or two later with my high school sweetie and it was probably a little easier not being a virgin.

Anyway, I was a busboy and had saved up some money. The girl was overweight but nice enough and took me to a hotel downtown. I was nervous but so frustrated and horny. I still remember her blowing me and it was amazing. And it was something I knew I shouldn't be doing.. don't recall feeling any shame about it either. It was a thrill.