YOu guys are soooo lucky..

[GATSBY]

I enjoy watching "matures" porn. I've often thought, "How come none of the matures I meet are like that?"

Me too. Mature women aka cougars/milfs are the best Too bad my buddies do not share my infatuation so we usually just party at clubs our age range.

 

[SeductiveCameronDEL]

I have to chime in here and say its impossible to get a date in this city!!! I have talked to men in coffee shops, grocery stores, the dog park, just yesterday I started a conversation with a guy coming out of a record store. And trust me, Im putting out the signs. Im from Toronto where the men call at you from their cars and give a hot girl the up and down when their walking down the street. The men in this city are SHY and to 'cool for school'. Iv been on pof and no one had a job!!! Last week I was walking on commercial and this great looking guy who was hanging with his friends checked me out and said "wow your hot", I turned around and went right up to him and said "thank you I haven't been hit on in a while, my name is ....." he shook my hand, told me his name and then NOTHING??? WTF Is everybody married? I dont see rings on these guys? Is it true theres one man to every five women in Vancouver? Is that the problem? Theres just way to much pussy the men dont have to work for it? Am I supposed to ask for their number? I dont think I should, I think the guy should be the one to ask me out?

It's because you're way too much of a babe. Obvs.

 

[uncleg]

I have to chime in here and say its impossible to get a date in this city!!! I have talked to men in coffee shops, grocery stores, the dog park, just yesterday I started a conversation with a guy coming out of a record store. And trust me, Im putting out the signs. Im from Toronto where the men call at you from their cars and give a hot girl the up and down when their walking down the street. The men in this city are SHY and to 'cool for school'. Iv been on pof and no one had a job!!! Last week I was walking on commercial and this great looking guy who was hanging with his friends checked me out and said "wow your hot", I turned around and went right up to him and said "thank you I haven't been hit on in a while, my name is ....." he shook my hand, told me his name and then NOTHING??? WTF Is everybody married? I dont see rings on these guys? Is it true theres one man to every five women in Vancouver? Is that the problem? Theres just way to much pussy the men dont have to work for it? Am I supposed to ask for their number? I dont think I should, I think the guy should be the one to ask me out?

Started a thread on Hollerback........might want to look at that and that whole movement..........probably explains some of the reaction or lack of action from the menfolk in this town. On the other hand we do have the largest gay population North of San Francisco.

 

[UhOh]

I skimmed the thread but seems an older lady started it complaining about not getting enough action cause men wouldn't step up. Some guys posted that they have what she's looking for and yet there's no sign from original poster accepting.
Is this a case of just wanting something to complain about just not respecting john's for some reason?

When I go out I see even ugly ducklings having a choice of two or three guys swooning over them. A woman that can't get laid sufferers from severe lack of social skills.

 

[mimi]

I am not complaining that men "won't step up"...I am complaining that they "won't get lost" afterwards. I even tried to score through POF and all I got in my age group were men who wanted to settle down and have a serious relationship. Sure, they'd be happy to hop into bed on a first date, but the texts never end...the hurt (who likes to hurt people? I don't).

One guy I talked to mentioned the whole 'not hurting people by presenting unrealistic expectations" and I concur, and I am honest when I say I just want sex, but ... they want to follow me home.

I have looked through some male escort sites, and I like what I see...but, these guys are busy! Then I wonder if they are real; I consider what you guys go through with agencies that pretend to have women, but don't really, and then they send someone who is not in the picture...I cannot deal with things like plaque on the teeth and neck sores that haven't healed...I am definitely not a TOFFT

*sigh* I am seriously considering looking outside my age range, which has always been a dilemma for me; I am attracted to older men. Plus, I feel uncomfortable with someone my nephew's age...but *sigh again* if it has to be, it has to be...this vagina needs exercising (I should write a letter to Peter MacKay about this!)

 

[UhOh]

I would love being able to tap a girl and walk away, what's wrong with people.

 

[Dickson]

^what he said! Thank you! People see older women and don't see them as having sexual desire. I know women quite a bit older than me who are terribly frustrated...but, don't want the relationship 'thing'. Sex is very healthy and extremely important...I have tried the whole pof thing, but even though you say, implicitly, that there are no strings, the texting is endless...and the emotional obligations reach out...gawd, escorting was so much easier! Great sex (most of the time) and absolutely no emotional obligations...no one gets hurt (usually...with exceptions). Even if I was a guy I wouldn't waste my time dating; such a lot of stress, why bother when you have a smorgasbord of selection, and you can change your flavour whenever you please.

Totally agree. You describe my whole story. Mimi where have you been all my life. We have a lot in common.

 

[mimi]

^^..and that what the thread is about...not about dating, or relationships, or bar pickups...I was just saying "you guys are lucky" you can scan down a pretty sizable list of available escorts in all different price ranges, and 'tap it and go home' with no one following you, or texting you, or calling to ask why you aren't calling (although I have heard that has happened)..no emotional responsibility...you don't have to stop and scratch your head wondering "did I just hurt someone?"

There are a lot of really lonely people out there...lists and lists of them on all the dating sites, leading these people on, even unintentionally is pretty lame...

I'm not trying to imply that you are all spoiled brats and don't know how good you got it, not at all )) I am just pointing out that you have a good thing going....I hope it all doesn't get spoiled by this new Bill being passed....I really should write a letter to Peter MacKay]

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

I have seen this abbreviation a couple of times in this thread, POF could someone educate me, please...

RH

Plenty of Fish = its an internet dating/hookup site.

 

[InnocentBoy]

Guess you've never actually been to asia to see how aggresively the men pursue women there. It is pretty clear to me MIMI is seeking what women of any age desires and that is
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Someone pointed out the feminist movement here in Vancouver and how that's affected the tone in how men approach women, interesting? I've wondered if there being a heavy asian population has affected the way men do or don't ask women out? And I say this because my experience of asian culture is that it's reserved and men I've meet, for the most part, are very polite and a little shy. Just a thought.....if we're still even on the topic lol

 

[hedgeman]

Wow, just read this thread, and i can say fairly confidently i would love to have that option available to me, on an ongoing basis, but I'm too scared to actually post an ad on CL or whatever advertising thse services, being a good looking single guy, laid off work at the moment living alone so i can host etc, would be a dream come true! Lady Kay and Mimi, pm me lol

 

[LisbethNova]

I actually have a smoking hott girlfriend who recently had a happy ending by a male masseuse in another country.. She has returned home and is wondering how the hell she can find that kind of service here in Canada... its seriously hard to find! I think we forget that women might want these services as well.

I personally only know of 1 male escort agency for women.. Canadian Nights.. does anyone know of any others?

 

[magellen]

Talk about a niche market just begging to be filled.

 

[mimi]

^exactly

oceanic, I read the link you posted and I found it quite interesting, especially the point of view of the particular male escort being interviewed as his comments about his experiences strike a chord. I am envious that this exists in Australia, and not here. Perhaps in the States, but I am not interested in making a trip.

Nightfall you really hit the nail on the head with regards to the differences between women in this country and those in Europe. Citizens of other countries have the impression that we are sexually liberated and 'easy', especially men from the Middle East and Asia, however, I find, speaking to civvy women, the prevailing attitude here is almost Puritan.

The sooner you have sex the sooner you will know if you are compatible...don't drag it out.

Upon reading the article I mentioned above I wondered if having a male escort is most similar to having a married relationship, in that, there is more of an element of safety; you can trust that person with your kinky desires as they are either your spouse, or someone who has been screened through an agency, rather than a guy you met that you are attracted to, but know little about.

So, I read in the article that, occasionally, men will hire the male escort to fill their wives needs when they are facing E.D. and cannot fulfill that themselves....how many men here with E.D. would do that for their wives? Is this just an Australian thing?

 

[vancity_cowboy]

mimi

this guy posted in the wrong section on craigslist, but i thought of you when i saw it

you mean something like this?

he says he's available - and cheap too... rent money :thumb:

 

[lenny]

*sigh* there is no such thing as 'free' sex, not even for women....

I suggest you'ld get many responses to an ad on Craigslist's "casual" sex section. Maybe mention that you are a ex sex profesional with years of experience for those who want to learn! And what you are interested in, i.e. no strings attached & e.g. 20ish handsome well hung guys to send their pics.

....the point is being able to sort through reviews and pictures of available sex partners, and choose...you guys are lucky! I look through the ads here and on other sites and see endless possibilities for you....a nice play date with no consequences. That is very difficult for a woman to accomplish

It's not only guys who have access to pay for a time with those ladies. Maybe you should consider exploring your lesbian potential, though i'm sure you could get plenty of hetero sex without ever having to shell out the big bucks for it in Canada. Or take a trip abroad where the male escort options are far more economical & easy to obtain. I don't expect to see LE carrying out stings & raids re Bill C-36 overseas. Besides, black guys have bigger ding dongs.

 

[mimi]

woo-hoo vancity....incredible...and he's good with a drill!

lenny, do I know you? You sure sound like someone I know you read the thread and completely missed the point

 

[pill49]

Mimi – I agree - we men are soooo lucky….!

I’ve often wondered about this unfairness that MotherNature put unto the sexes in regards to aging and desire and desirability. You happen to start your thread on my birthday, the original one being many years ago, and a lot of sexually frustrated years had me too believing that women hold all the cards. But now that I’m older I see the difference and appreciate how blessed we men really are. All we need to be is healthy and horny and the world is truly our oyster. Thanks to this hobby-industry we can choose between any age, race, size, skin, eye and hair colour, etc., regardless of our age. I’ve never had a bad experience and am amazed how genuine most girls are. I’m not sure if men could pull that off so well.

A sister of about the same age and urges, made me realize that this blessing is not available for a woman. While this hobby has improved my attitude, my mental and physical health in amazing ways – sadly, this is not available for her. At least not in the easy uncomplicated and inviting ways it is for us men.

I feel for you – and thanks for reminding me.

 

[lenny]

lenny, do I know you? You sure sound like someone I know you read the thread and completely missed the point

You don't know me, but i think i got your point quite well, thank you, & added a bunch of my own. Clearly, as member Tantalizeme so well elaborated, your issues make you an extremely rare & special bird amongst women. Very few women have opinions such as yours.