XXXTRas - for what and how much?

[lenny]

{snip} I see getting greek during a session a bonus and I will only do it if the lady I'm with is comfortable doing it. As for BBBJ, the reason most women don't offer it is because of health concerns, which is understandable. So my question is, why put you and your clients health at potential risk for and extra $50??? I find that kind of unsettling. Again, something I see as a bonus if I get it, not a requirement but I won't pay extra for it. I appreciate the risk that comes with BBBJ and will only engage in it with ladies who are willing to take that risk with me (although from what I've read here on PERB, it's relatively minimal).

Why put themselves at risk by offering BBBJ? I think because it is
considered a minimal risk. Would it be any riskier than, say, smooching
or genital intercourse? After all, condoms can be defective, break, and
cum off, during the act. They can also become damaged or punctured,
either purposely or by accident. Do they maintain their integrity after
one to three hours of boom boom? I guess that if the only risk SPs
had to worry about was from a BBBJ, they'd probably feel a lot better.

Most SP's may not offer BBBJ on their website, but i suggest that
many of them secretly provide the service, especially for regulars,
even if they deny it. They want to keep the business image of being
a safe clean girl, to attract a certain type of clientele. Other SPs
openly offer BBBJ to attract another class of customer.

BTW amongst SWs BBBJ is quite common. But some will refuse while
feeling quite comfortable with kissing. And vica versa. So if a guy finds
a lady who is an angelic kisser but does not offer BBBJ, he will need
another SP should he also be interested in fabulous BBBJ's. Likewise
if the angelic kisser offers BBBJ but is not very skilled in that area.

Personally i find that a CBJ can feel just as good as a BBBJ, if it is
done right. This includes but is not limited to visual aids, such as
a mirror for side viewing pleasure, a see through clear condom, and
no hair obstructions.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I agree about the bbbj. Either do it or don't, but if she charges extra because there is a risk, what does that say about what else she will do for an extra $. If it is okay for an extra 50, why isn't okay all the time.

Greek is different because it definitely affects the body, requires more time, and cannot (or should not) be offered with every appt every day. Or can you not see that this could be a potential health risk down the line for all but a select few? The extra $ ensures that not everyone will opt for it, thus limiting the number of times she will be doing it daily or weekly. It is similar to those sps who charge higher rates, to limit the number of appts they have daily or weekly.

This really makes a lot of sense, and the way I would run it, if I offered these xxxtras.

 

[sevenofnine]

its tough to make general blanket statements

this hobby is very intimate and personal, and sometimes ladies do things that make no sense, well sense only to them

if a lady wants to charge extra for a bbbj, well, its her right, i guess,

personally i don't like discussing money for a service, it just ruins the mood, and i generally book multiple hours, so, i usually end up with mulitiply services

and my personal opinion if your booking muti hour sessions with a lady, everything should be included, unless like some one said greek.

i think the only time extras should be paid for a service, is when you book the ladies minimum amount of time, or she is offering a special.

other then that everything she be included, especially if your booking several hours.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I agree, if she offers bbbj, it makes no sense to have an extra price like that on her or his health. Its just kind of weird.

Greek, however should not be expected to be included. If the sp chooses to include it, (her choice) that is great for the guy that loves Greek, lol. But no body should expect it, as long as you know before hand that she is offering it for an extra$. I don't understand the big deal. I do understand that it is not sexy to stop and start to get more money from your wallet. There is probably a better way to do it, that flows more smoothly on both parts.

I think if Greek was included in all inclusive, you would probably find a lot of providers no longer offering Greek.