Doesn't anyone care about there health these days ??/ Or are the sp's that hungry for work ?? 5 years ago u had to really search to get a bbbj,now you have to search and search to find a play safe lady...
Or you could man up and take responsibility for yourself and your choice. I am all for safety but I am not sure why you bother with this, you can see anyone you want and avoid the kissing and choose to wear protection. As I see it you have more choice than the guy who wants BBBJ.
hey Buddy ! I always chose safety,and would never see any sp's other than that...But for you can still get certain std's using protection...Nice to lower your odd of transmitting these by playing with ladies that play safe too....Not even coming close to saying safe sp's are the way it should be for all...Just seems to be getting harder to find....I live out of vancouver,so when i try to set up a date i can make half a dozen calls to find a play safe girl...Most get so rude when you tell them your not interest in bb service and then hang up...
I agree with Titguy... there are tons of safe girls out there, so no need to worry.
That being said, I've always felt the attitude against BBBJ was somewhat of a cultural thing, as SPs in Montreal routinely offer it, and Quebec has a lower incidence of STIs than Alberta.
Like Titguy and Threepeat said: what's stopping you from NOT kissing and asking for the happy hat before she starts to work on you? If your serious about your signature phrase, then this would seem to be the way to go. Or not. In the end, the final decision is yours.
Well, it might be possible that she has AIDS and doesn't care about the world anymore, and her self esteem is affected. Maybe she doesn't care about herself anymore, so this is possible.
This is basic service in Toronto and Montreal. Guys expect it with a $240-300 service. The top 25 best ladies in Toronto are all True GFE with BBBJ. They are all massively hot women. They all work for the most respectable agencies. The BBBJ is not considered as much of a major health issue in Toronto or Montreal.