Would a girl want a guy that lives with his grandparents?

[SexyBoy]

I have spent at least 7 years of my life being away from my core family group. With almost no long term friends and family. I did it for money. I ended up finding out that money was not everything and that friends and family matter the most.

I had the huge house with the huge yard etc. Sure I had friends but not the type you knew since you were 4. Maybe a few that you could consider to be like that.

I don't like living alone and I like taking care of my grandparents. I have lots of money, stocks, mutual funds, cars, and a truck.

I would move in with a girl if that is what she wanted. I would even buy a new house. My fear is that she won't like my current living arrangements. My grandparents are also my best friends and my other friends visit them when they are around the area.

When I bought that huge house most girls did not like it and I would have had to sell it anyways to get a house that we agreed on or live with them. We would fight back and forth but in the end I knew she would win.

How about now? Would a girl understand or even believe me? I own the company I work for.

I just don't want to live life not around the people I care about the most.

The house my grandparents live in is becoming to big for them to take care of. They also don't want to leave. They want to end there last days in that house. I want to help them

 

[miss meiko]

Do I believe you? Who cares.

Will she believe you? Only time will tell. A great relationship, whether it is a platonic friendship or relationship with co-workers etc. etc...needs time to build. It should work that way...

Most smart, decent people will take time to know someone and take even longer time to commit. I don't think you want to be with someone who believes with everything you say without having anything to prove it. It takes time, like anything else in life...it takes time.

 

[SexyBoy]

Proving wealth would be fine. I just want to get to know her better first.

At what point do you tell her? About wealth and about your living arrangements.

What exactly is it that a girl doesn't like about a guy living with his family? That is what I really want to know. Am I even right about that? There are many girls out there that seem to like a man that cares about his family. What if you are the one that cooks and cleans for others? What if that is what makes you happy?

Is it about money or something else? Is it about independance? What if others are dependant on you?

 

[SInCity67]

Dude, your taking care of your love ones. You own the house and are wealthy. No female is gonna hate on you for that. If you were living in your grand parents house, they would not like that .

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Most caucasian females dont like it when you live with family members. But who the hell cares? Maybe you should go for asians because they dont seem to mind if you live with family. Asians & EI seem to want to take care of their grandparents etc.

 

[miss meiko]

Proving wealth would be fine. I just want to get to know her better first.

At what point do you tell her? About wealth and about your living arrangements.

What exactly is it that a girl doesn't like about a guy living with his family? That is what I really want to know. Am I even right about that? There are many girls out there that seem to like a man that cares about his family. What if you are the one that cooks and cleans for others? What if that is what makes you happy?

Is it about money or something else? Is it about independance? What if others are dependant on you?

Well, at the end, everybody is different. I think most women or people in general like the very basic needs in life; need someone who cares for others, have a lot of love to share, patient, campasion, dignity, self-respect, pride and all of those good traits. But, having said that, not every woman like to live with grandparents, no matter how big the house is. For some, like myself, I never care how prestige the property or the real estate he has, if he is not the one for me,then I don't want to be with him. As simple as that.

I think, you know when you know it. Finding life mate is easy and not easy at the same time...you just know it when you find one. A good relationship will put you at ease, it makes you feel relax and you can be yourself without really trying hard to prove it who you really are. You will know if she is the one for you. No self book or people can tell you how to feel it...you just know it. She wouldn't care if you live with a gost. If she loves you she will be with you.

 

[apple juice]

Proving wealth would be fine. I just want to get to know her better first. At what point do you tell her? About wealth and about your living arrangements.

Maybe you don't tell her...you show her...and if she cares for you...it wouldn't matter either way...no?

What exactly is it that a girl doesn't like about a guy living with his family? That is what I really want to know. Am I even right about that? There are many girls out there that seem to like a man that cares about his family. What if you are the one that cooks and cleans for others? What if that is what makes you happy?

Well...I see nothing wrong with living with family...until of course you may want to bring someone home for some TLC...lol. Family is huge to me and I respect anyone and everyone who makes that their biggest priority in life. If cooking, cleaning, and taking care of others makes you happy then that's what you do.

Is it about money or something else? Is it about independance? What if others are dependant on you?

I'm not sure what it's about...I myself struggle with it everyday...lol...must be just life.

 

[Aerts]

Proving to a girl that you are wealthy...lol wtf?! I always thought that if you are lucky enough to have more money than most people (for whatever reason), keep it on the down low and just be glad you have been blessed with money. Being flashy and keeping up an "image" just seems to create problems from what I know...

And yes, taking care of family is always good, do it.

 

[fit4fun]

Proving to a girl that you are wealthy...lol wtf?! I always thought that if you are lucky enough to have more money than most people (for whatever reason), keep it on the down low and just be glad you have been blessed with money. Being flashy and keeping up an "image" just seems to create problems from what I know...

And yes, taking care of family is always good, do it.

Exactly! Could NOT have said it better myself!

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

You could always have a house near your grandparents. This way you can see them all the time and also satify the gal you like. Only said this cause you seem to be rich

 

[SexyBoy]

Go for it man! That sounds like a stand up thing to do. I never really knew my grandparents and regret that. Any woman worth having a relationship with should understand. Just like some women come with commitments (ie: kids) you come with yours.
It's not like you are some 35 year old guy, with no education or ambition, working part-time at McD's, living in their basement and sponging off of them.
Especially in a big house. You'll all have your space and I'm sure they would respect your privacy.
Grandma's cooking is likely also a big benefit.

The cooking is amazing! Cooking with her is even more fun.

The financial advice I get from my grandfather is also valuable. They don't want to retire it seems. He starts to ask questions about everything. To this day he still doesn't understand why to invest in a RRSP though....

I am 30.

I am scared of them passing away almost every day. I tried to help them become healthier but they are too set in their ways. Just leads to huge arguments.

They would live with me for months sometimes.

I can be very open with them.

 

[SexyBoy]

You could always have a house near your grandparents. This way you can see them all the time and also satify the gal you like. Only said this cause you seem to be rich

I would be up for that after I was in a serious relationship and she wanted to move. Otherwise it is just one more house to clean. I am a clean freak I would have a hard time dealing with that.

 

[SexyBoy]

Proving to a girl that you are wealthy...lol wtf?! I always thought that if you are lucky enough to have more money than most people (for whatever reason), keep it on the down low and just be glad you have been blessed with money. Being flashy and keeping up an "image" just seems to create problems from what I know...

And yes, taking care of family is always good, do it.

Hey I agree I just don't want the girl thinking I am some bum. However I don't want to wear things like jewelry etc. that’s just not me.

I do have my passions that I can't help but spend money on example muscle cars new and old. Thank god they came out with these remakes I love them.

Most of my assets are tied up in the company. Nothing glamerous about it.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

I think the girl would be impressed by the fact you have your own business and willing to take care of your grandparents.

 

[maximus]

I think your being responsible for your family,if she dont get it,believe me she aint the one foe you.

 

[chilli]

I think your being responsible for your family,if she dont get it,believe me she aint the one foe you.

Agreed.

And never let a chick know how much money you have.

You may think you're impressing her, but why would you want a woman who is impressed by how much money you have?

And for heaven's sake...

If you get married get a prenup.

 

[j.bassi]

the only thing that ever comes from people knowing you have money is them asking to borrow some, or coming to you with so called fool proof business ideas.

 

[SweetCee]

old people are so cute

You are fine if

A) it's you taking care of your grandparents not your grandparents taking care of you

B) you are not their bitch

if a woman has a problem with this or "doesn't believe you" then she is probably a gold digging bitch and you are better off without her anyway.

 

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If I were in your shoes, I would have the wherewithal to do whatever I want. Money can't buy anyone true affection, so why bother trying and wasting money and time that could be used to do things I would enjoy.

You seem to have your life together, but based on what you wrote I would recommend that you stop worrying about what other people think of you. That is, stop seeking approval from girls, or anyone, ever.

Some girl objects that your grandparents live with you? So? What is it to her? It's your house and grandparents. True affection can't be forced or bought. Just be yourself. There are 3 billion minus one girls around if you must have one (or more).

 

[Pimpologist]

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I have spent at least 7 years of my life being away from my core family group. With almost no long term friends and family. I did it for money. I ended up finding out that money was not everything and that friends and family matter the most.

I had the huge house with the huge yard etc. Sure I had friends but not the type you knew since you were 4. Maybe a few that you could consider to be like that.

I don't like living alone and I like taking care of my grandparents. I have lots of money, stocks, mutual funds, cars, and a truck.

I would move in with a girl if that is what she wanted. I would even buy a new house. My fear is that she won't like my current living arrangements. My grandparents are also my best friends and my other friends visit them when they are around the area.

When I bought that huge house most girls did not like it and I would have had to sell it anyways to get a house that we agreed on or live with them. We would fight back and forth but in the end I knew she would win.

How about now? Would a girl understand or even believe me? I own the company I work for.

I just don't want to live life not around the people I care about the most.

The house my grandparents live in is becoming to big for them to take care of. They also don't want to leave. They want to end there last days in that house. I want to help them

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