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steverino

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At this point suggesting you offer anything but companionship may be a problem for the guys.
 

westwoody

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Venting...everyone's doing it these days eh! Maybe you could say "open minded within reason" or "fairly open minded". Tough call Lexi.

There are so many liars on bpage already. Nobody wants to risk a few hundred bucks not knowing if they will get what they are looking for. C36 will make it impossible to ask anything specific.

Risk factor for guys just went up by a factor of ten. Fucking shitty situation we're in, thank God for regulars, I'd never be checking out new girls now.
 

Lo-ki

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Check your closet..:)
Nobody wants to risk a few hundred bucks not knowing if they will get what they are looking for. C36 will make it impossible to ask anything specific.

Risk factor for guys just went up by a factor of ten. Fucking shitty situation we're in, thank God for regulars, I'd never be checking out new girls now.
That's for sure. No matter how they look and the prices. NADA on new SP's for me.
 

westwoody

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Plus there's all those who agree to anything just to get you in the door, and then backtrack once they get your cash.

Stick with those you know, those you know who will deliver what they promise.
 

ddcanz

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I don't say no restrictions and I cannot believe how many guys ask me for full service. I instantly hang up on guys like that and if they are texting me, I probably have a few choice words to say and tell them to never contact me again.
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I'm confused here, so correct me if I'm wrong. You say you instantly hang up on guys when they ask about full service. Yet your current advert states "intercourse to finish". ?? A couple of years ago I spoke with you on the phone to set up sessions, but the timing never seemed to work for either of us. I'm quite positive that numerous options were available within your various Tantra services, whether that be HJ, Russian, CBJ or intercourse. Am I misunderstanding something here? Thanks.
 

ddcanz

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Sorry I just realized the error when I was typing.... I meant bareback sex.... sorry, my mind is in a few different places at the same time I come on here at times lol.... no I meant "No condom", then I hang up lol.
Now THAT makes sense to me. Cheers EG.
 

LalaniElectrica

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I hear you ladies, and gents! I gets so offended when people ask for bbfs, and I feel really sorry for ladies who make the exception, since they are putting themselves and their partners at risk! There's an old saying, "safety first"!!! :)
 

morementum

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"It doesn't hurt to ask" is that what you're saying?
Not entirely. I have never, and will never, ask for it from an escort. However, it has been offered to me more than a handful of times since moving to Vancouver area a few years back. Those offers have come from escorts who advertise that "no bbfs - ever!" and those who have been extensively reviewed and those who also post on here a lot. There has also been off the radar ones. It has surprised me and was the topic of another thread someone else started a while back.

To the OP, I guess why people ask for it is because it gets offered a surprisingly frequent number of times. Hence the "why not" response. You can simply say no when asked. Freaking out and ranting optional.
 

Lo-ki

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Check your closet..:)
When I get asked for bbfs I simply end the conversation immediately & blacklist the number. For me its a waste of my time and energy to flip out or give health lectures. And too much risk to see a client like that anyways. Some guys want it so bad & have no respect for themselves or the girl they will purposely try break or slip off the condom. Others will spend the entire appointment being pushy assholes trying to talk you into it. Just too much stress and headache for me & annoying as hell.
Totally agree... no SP's should have to put with that kind of CRAP...
 

peacectryguy

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Maybe the right phrase would be flexible "safe" options instead of open-minded. I don't know but it seems there are far too many people out there who think BB is okay. I find that just stupid and irresponsible but many just don't "get it". Of course, there are a lot of guys out there who are BP and CL shoppers and have no clue about review boards or even the new law. That speaks a lot to the intelligence of some of them.
 

huggzy

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I don't understand why its so hard for you ladies to just list the services you offer and what your restrictions are???

Especially if you're going to go off the deep end when prospective clients ask you questions when all you post is comments that are obviously open to interpretation, such as "open-minded". What do you think that really means? You could ask 10 sps what their definition of "open-minded" is and get 10 different answers. Of course you're going to have questions.

And then to get all bent out of shape when they do ...and maybe ask about a service that you don't offer but maybe other sps do...is ridiculous.

If anything, its clients who get hung up on, or lectured, or get yelled at by sps in instances like this who should be ranting
 

westwoody

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Have you been living under a rock?
Listing activities and putting a price on them is illegal as of Dec 6.
 

morementum

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When I get asked for bbfs I simply end the conversation immediately & blacklist the number.
Good for you. I do the same (blacklist on my own database) the escorts who offer it but I am amazed that they seemingly stay in business and remain active on boards like PERB so clearly other guys are not practicing that same degree of restraint in this regard.

In this day/age, having unprotected activities with someone you don't know their health status is far too risky.
 

huggzy

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Have you been living under a rock?
Listing activities and putting a price on them is illegal as of Dec 6.
Its illegal for the media dude, not the sp (never mind that the punishment for advertising is a slap on the wrist) And the city of Vancouver is already stating that they are not going after the SPs.

Maybe you should check out the ads listed in this very forum...it seems to me that there are still SPs pretty ok with advertising considering that the law was in force as soon as it received royal assent on Nov 6. Dick.
 

Vitargo

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Good for you. I do the same (blacklist on my own database) the escorts who offer it but I am amazed that they seemingly stay in business and remain active on boards like PERB so clearly other guys are not practicing that same degree of restraint in this regard.

In this day/age, having unprotected activities with someone you don't know their health status is far too risky.
A small % of SP's are active here, your almost labelling every perb advertiser now. Funny you should mention that BBFS thread. You did post once to me that any SP over $200 is overpriced, and over your reviews and SP's you visited were at rock bottom prices. And when that BBFS thread started you've all of a sudden seen a bunch of higher end SP's and mentioned they offered you BBFS more than lower end SP'S. I agree makes no difference in low-high$ when it comes to BBFS,(just a trend I noticed in your posts
 
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