Why do a lot of the girls never message back???

[Superhonry]

Am I doing something wrong? I use leolist and lot of them don't message me back.

I greet them tell them that I saw their profile online. Then I tell them my age, sex, session length and day/time I want to come in.

I try to be discreet and respectful in my messages and use the proper escort lingo.

Just wondering.

 

[jgg]

Be thankful. It's saving you grief and money. Most are fake or B&S.

 

[Sensual Shae]

As an SP I will only message back within approx 15/20 min of receiving and inquiry unless the client lets me know it’s ok to respond anytime. This is simply because I’m being conscientious of your potential need for discretion. Would hate for my response to show up untimely and cause any problems for the client. Hope this helps, cheers

 

[Lady Companion]

Are you messaging independent ladies who have their own websites, or are you messaging ladies who are more fly by night or being managed?

If the former is the case, there are only a few reasons I can think of. If the lady specifically says on her ad or website that she doesn't respond to text messages, or that your age rage in outside of an age range she specifies she will entertain. It could also be that you are attempting to book on short notice when a lady specifically states she requires more leeway.

Keep in mind that this is like any other business. If a lady hasn't taken the time to create a proper personal website, she isn't a professional, and is unlikely to act like one.

Great ladies post on LL as well, but they all tend to have their own websites.

You probably aren't doing anything wrong besides assuming that a person who hasn't invested in themselves or their business would act like they had their poop in a group.

 

[The Countess]

Some companions may not reply if you haven't provided the screening information (if she screens) that she requests on her profile. Others prefer a more detailed introduction beyond bare basics of time/date/duration.

 

[poonerboi]

Keep in mind that this is like any other business. If a lady hasn't taken the time to create a proper personal website, she isn't a professional, and is unlikely to act like one.
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I have to disagree with this. I have met some great ladies without websites. Some who are very part-time, some who don't have the time to maintain one, and one whose site was hacked by another trying to charge clients for access. Lots of reasons why one would opt for no website.

 

[jamasianman]

Tell you what OP, instead of messaging girls on leolist, why not contact the ones in the advertiser section on perb? Maybe they are more professional and willing to respond. Also keep in mind when you are texting, how far was it when they last refreshed their ad? When do they usually work?

 

[AuldMagpye]

I've had many nonresponses. From here, Leos and other sites. It's part of the game. I just put them on the bottom of my list and try someone else. Just as we get to choose, they can also opt not to respond to a txt or answer their phones or emails. Plenty of reasons from busy to not liking the tone of your request.

 

[Fiona]

I agree ... Websites are slowly becoming obsolete and a hassle to maintain , I keep my twitter page updated and have no issues with client communication so I think the statement “if she doesn’t have a website” means she’s not legit is a old way & not very accurate way of finding a lady , any twit can put a website up with photoshopped pics . I find the ladies who keep their social media feed active the easiest to talk to and more reliable . And for the record we all have our reasons for not responding . Don’t take it too personally .

I have to disagree with this. I have met some great ladies without websites. Some who are very part-time, some who don't have the time to maintain one, and one whose site was hacked by another trying to charge clients for access. Lots of reasons why one would opt for no website.

 

[Gardener]

The quality of the initial text I’m sure plays a meaningful part as well. “Hey babe, do you f*ck” probably isn’t going to get the desired response. Just sayin’

 

[Jessica Rain]

I agree ... Websites are slowly becoming obsolete and a hassle to maintain , I keep my twitter page updated and have no issues with client communication so I think the statement “if she doesn’t have a website” means she’s not legit is a old way & not very accurate way of finding a lady , any twit can put a website up with photoshopped pics . I find the ladies who keep their social media feed active the easiest to talk to and more reliable . And for the record we all have our reasons for not responding . Don’t take it too personally .

Side note: The best way to maintain both is have your site linked with social media sites. Wordpress is great for this. You can maintain your site and it will post to your twitter or facebook automatically so you are only going to one site, not 3.

 

[Fiona]

Yes lol those ones get filed under “WOT” pretty quick ..
Some reasons we don’t respond-
-Medical reasons , girl parts malfunctioning , periods etc
-In between incalls and really only seeing regulars until we sort ourselves out
-Relationship/Child issues
-Some ladies (even independents) have phone people to deal with advertising & answering calls so there might be a middle man problem.
-some only take prebookings( like myself) by email & text & rarely respond to the “can I come right now “ requests .
-possibly your on a black list in a certain area of girls or town ? We do warn each other of annoying & WOT , especially now so many of us can connect on twitter .
-mental health , winter blues issues , some ladies will continue to advertise even if they don’t want to see anyone , gives a sense of being wanted but then avoid the follow through .
By the sound of it you’re doing the right thing with the initial contact but if it’s happening to you with multiple woman it might not be the ladies :-/ Good luck. Xo

 

[Fiona]

Agee but stay away from anything connected to facebook if privacy is important to you
as you will be connected up with your personal page & contacts without even wanting to .. The magic of Facebook

Side note: The best way to maintain both is have your site linked with social media sites. Wordpress is great for this. You can maintain your site and it will post to your twitter or facebook automatically so you are only going to one site, not 3.

 

[Jessica Rain]

Agee but stay away from anything connected to facebook if privacy is important to you
as you will be connected up with your personal page & contacts without even wanting to .. The magic of Facebook

My workaround is separate users on my computer. I just log into my user accounts on my Mac. I entered in my Jessica Rain info for FB, but I have semi-valid info that can be checked.

I would not recommend if you can separate your user on your computer or your phone or yes, you get cross-linked info.

My bad, I should have said that.

 

[take8easy]

I have to disagree with this. I have met some great ladies without websites. Some who are very part-time, some who don't have the time to maintain one, and one whose site was hacked by another trying to charge clients for access. Lots of reasons why one would opt for no website.

Right behind you on this one poonerboi.

 

[justwannahavefun]

This is an interesting thread for me right now. I contacted a lady whom I have not yet met this past Sunday to arrange something for later this week. I used her booking form on her website and provided my requested time, a reference and all the other information she asked for and as of yet......crickets.

I have decided that if I do not hear from her in the next hour, I will move on. To me, 24 hours should be more than enough time but 48 is unacceptable.

I don't understand running a business and ignoring potential clients.

 

[jamasianman]

I've only ever booked by phone call when the ad says so or text messaging. And I always make sure to book a few hours a head of time. I treat it no different from hanging out with friends. If you only give them a few hours notice they are less likely to hang out with me. Or i ask them if they wanna do something the night before. Some ladies prefer prebook, some prefer only same day bookings.

Filling out a form and all that reference stuff is worthless unless you contact her first. An email or text message and wait for a response, then if she bites you can go further with screening. She might be tired or have winter blues or just not check her website enough.

If a lady doesn't respond within 2 hours for me I wont continue.

 

[Relax10]

I filled out a contact form for a lady and she got back to me quickly letting me know her limited schedule for that area and she'd get back to me at a later time. Im sure some providers are busier then others, some have limited spaces balancing time with other stuff primary job/kids/etc. I understand the frustration of wanting to see someone on your TDL and having references just to be hanging in limbo.

My question is what is a good/appropriate amount of time and whats is the best way to follow up?

 

[westwoody]

24 hours seems the standard. A lot will not reply unless you clearly state when is appropriate to text.
Every one has their own procedures.
Some will not respond if you do not fill out the contact form. They don't want to invest time in a window shopper.
This is not a business like any other, and nothing pisses women off more than being told by guys how to manage their affairs.

 

[Edward Lei]

Websites and contact forms seem so 2000's. I've never contacted anyone off their website as the sites I've come across always seem to be old and not maintained.

I contact by text exclusively these days as it's way more convenient than playing phone tag. Plus, it gives me a history of all relevant info like rates, etc. at my disposal.