Which would you rather?

[triplXratd]

I broke up with my GF a while back and have been visiting some spas and have really enjoyed. Now we might be getting back together in which case I need to stop the extras.

 

[blakealridge]

Why not both?

 

[Forum mod]

You also missed open relationship or ethical non-monogamy as options. Doesn't have to be one or the other.

 

[87112]

Stay with the GF and don't stray and take a chance on it messing up. Girlfriends in this area are extremely hard to find. The whole Pacific Northwest really. Sps are within minutes of your phone any day of the week.

 

[Billiam]

Of course you can, and many do, do both. Bizarre to say that it's not an option.

 

[Captain Prickhard]

Now what does the little man inside you say?

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[Mr. J]

Whether it's one, the other, or even both, one thing's for sure: a man's gotta eat, am I right?

 

[Number17]

That depends if the GF is an SP material.

 

[blakealridge]

That depends if the GF is an SP material.

If she is, you should pay her

 

[grusse]

Does the GF do all the things you pay a SP to do?

 

[chico1]

At this point in my life it is definitely pooning. Too late for committed relationships for me.

If I was 20 years younger then I would definitely seek to be in a committed relationship.

So it all depends.

 

[luvsdaty]

Been there done that as far as monogamous relationships go. And I was never one to cheat as I've been cheated on in the past and I know how it feels.
I'll stick with sp/mps thank you very much.

 

[Equity Market investor]

We pay regardless lol.

If she is, you should pay her

 

[Beasting]

Why not both?

He has the beta mindset.

Unless she's surgically grafted to you. You can have both.

 

[blakealridge]

He has the beta mindset.

Unless she's surgically grafted to you. You can have both.

That’s not “beta” lol, it’s just that he’s dating the wrong people. I’ve booked providers *with* my partner and I’ve also seen loads of couples, and had clients whose wives know and are supportive.

 

[vanperb]

You didn't specify "healthy committed relationship"...

 

[take8easy]

I am doing both simultaneously. Having said that, one of them is not very fun anymore.