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Which Sex Toys when the real thing is unavailable?

2bfair

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I will start by saying the real thing is usually more stimulating than a sex toy.
If one has a very high sex drive, one may not be able to afford an sp, ie daily.
I also enjoy sex toys with or without a partner.

I know women use the magic wand and dildo's for self pleasure. Which do you gals prefer?
And what do you men use when you are not able to see an sp or your partner?

fleshlights ?
just lube and ones hand ?
dildo's ?
prostate massagers?
fuck machines?
sex dolls?
etc
 

2bfair

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I hope I have not placed this in the wrong category. Or maybe people are shy to say they masterbate. I do like an sp who masterbates with me at points during play and even like to submit to a vixen.
I will start by saying the real thing is usually more stimulating than a sex toy.
If one has a very high sex drive, one may not be able to afford an sp, ie daily.
I also enjoy sex toys with or without a partner.

I know women use the magic wand and dildo's for self pleasure. Which do you gals prefer?
And what do you men use when you are not able to see an sp or your partner?

fleshlights ?
just lube and ones hand ?
dildo's ?
prostate massagers?
fuck machines?
sex dolls?
etc
 

Newb808

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Not to be a nit picker but it’s spelled masturbate.
Actually....


But in all seriousness, I’ve thus far limited myself to a fleshlight for solo use. I do like buying toys and kinky wares for SPs I repeat with though.
 

stressless123

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Bought few Fleshlights and also a Fleshlight launch. Got a bit tight on cash this year so decided to pause pooning for awhile and use sex toys instead.
 

MichaelP

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My thoughts of the following that I have used.

Women underwear: I didn't think of this one until an ex one time wrapped her lace panties and jacked me off with them. Ever since, she has shown me other interesting ways to use her underwear when she was away (though, she asked me to only use the dirty ones, which, in a way, made it more enticing). From taking her bra and using the pads to "sandwich" my junior to using her thongs to tie on my junior and masturbate using another one. Well, you can be creative. I am sure you can find porn videos on this. In a way, depending on the fabric, it creates a different feeling compared to plain masturbation with your hands, specially if you go for lace or non-cotton material. Unlike the toys below, you don't necessarily need lube and you need to only wash them afterwards. Of course, if you wash them with your other clothes... Hey, it is your own cum...

Tenga Egg: It is an "improvement" over jacking yourself, as the texture gives you a different feeling. The bad, though is that they are meant for single use and they are not necessarily cheap, if you decide to masturbate daily. I have gone "cheap" and re-used it a couple of times but you feel it starts to get sticky after the second time.

Fleshlight: I have used different iterations, from the vagina looking, butt, to the adult actress "inspired". For the most part, I enjoyed them, specially once I figured out a good place to keep it static for me to "fuck" it rather than masturbating with it. For a more "visual" experience, there is the also the Ice version, which is somewhat transparent, therefore, you can see when you unload your shot. The only caveat for me was the cleaning. Maybe I didn't dry it well and, towards the six month mark, it started to discolour and stain.

Cobra Libre: This would the male version of a vibrator. Put your junior in, turn it on and it will start vibrating. While it had several settings, only the highest settings worked for me. The lower frequency ones were OK but I didn't "get" it unless I used the higher settings. YMMV? Cleaning was easier than the Fleshlight. A big caveat is the charging time: It takes a while to fully charge so, if you forgot to recharge after a couple of uses, you are kind of out of luck.

Lelo Billy: If you are up for prostate massage, this toy is for you. It is pretty much a vibrator with a slightly different shape. Just insert into your rectum and turn it on! The major catch is that it is somewhat tricky to use. Also, because of where you are inserting it, cleaning it might be a hassle. I used to use a condom for a somewhat easier cleaning.

Aneros: Similar to the Lelo Billy but it is more of a dildo than a vibrator (unless you get the vibrating version). But, because it is "just there", it wasn't as enjoyable as the Billy.

Two side notes:

1) Lubes: Don't skimp on lube and read carefully which ones can be used.
2) Cleaning them correctly is really important! This is specially true with anal ones.

I don't currently have any one of them as I have been in a NSA situation. But, if I had to get them again, I would go with the Fleshlight first and the Cobra Libre not short after. In a way, the Fleshlight would be if I wanted a bit of the hip action, whereas I would use the Cobra Libre if I wanted something closer to the blowjob feeling. At around $115 for the Fleshlight (did a quick check at a local store but certainly it could be cheaper), it is not cheap. But, compared to the cost of this hobby, it is still relatively "cheap".
 

sybian

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I hear that you live an isolated existence in the backwoods.

Have you ever been tempted?

Before anyone asks.......I don't raise sheep, but I know a few Stockmen from Australia, and their advice is too place their back feet inside your boots, so they can't get away.

Knot holes can leave a nasty sliver, and as any hayseed country boy knows from experience, wasps love to build their nests in them.....don't ask how I might know that....and please don't judge me.
 

jgg

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Before anyone asks.......I don't raise sheep, but I know a few Stockmen from Australia, and their advice is too place their back feet inside your boots, so they can't get away
You can also put their front feet through a page-wire fence, so I've been told.
 

OneLuckyGuy

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My thoughts of the following that I have used.

Women underwear: I didn't think of this one until an ex one time wrapped her lace panties and jacked me off with them. Ever since, she has shown me other interesting ways to use her underwear when she was away (though, she asked me to only use the dirty ones, which, in a way, made it more enticing). From taking her bra and using the pads to "sandwich" my junior to using her thongs to tie on my junior and masturbate using another one. Well, you can be creative. I am sure you can find porn videos on this. In a way, depending on the fabric, it creates a different feeling compared to plain masturbation with your hands, specially if you go for lace or non-cotton material. Unlike the toys below, you don't necessarily need lube and you need to only wash them afterwards. Of course, if you wash them with your other clothes... Hey, it is your own cum...

Tenga Egg: It is an "improvement" over jacking yourself, as the texture gives you a different feeling. The bad, though is that they are meant for single use and they are not necessarily cheap, if you decide to masturbate daily. I have gone "cheap" and re-used it a couple of times but you feel it starts to get sticky after the second time.

Fleshlight: I have used different iterations, from the vagina looking, butt, to the adult actress "inspired". For the most part, I enjoyed them, specially once I figured out a good place to keep it static for me to "fuck" it rather than masturbating with it. For a more "visual" experience, there is the also the Ice version, which is somewhat transparent, therefore, you can see when you unload your shot. The only caveat for me was the cleaning. Maybe I didn't dry it well and, towards the six month mark, it started to discolour and stain.

Cobra Libre: This would the male version of a vibrator. Put your junior in, turn it on and it will start vibrating. While it had several settings, only the highest settings worked for me. The lower frequency ones were OK but I didn't "get" it unless I used the higher settings. YMMV? Cleaning was easier than the Fleshlight. A big caveat is the charging time: It takes a while to fully charge so, if you forgot to recharge after a couple of uses, you are kind of out of luck.

Lelo Billy: If you are up for prostate massage, this toy is for you. It is pretty much a vibrator with a slightly different shape. Just insert into your rectum and turn it on! The major catch is that it is somewhat tricky to use. Also, because of where you are inserting it, cleaning it might be a hassle. I used to use a condom for a somewhat easier cleaning.

Aneros: Similar to the Lelo Billy but it is more of a dildo than a vibrator (unless you get the vibrating version). But, because it is "just there", it wasn't as enjoyable as the Billy.

Two side notes:

1) Lubes: Don't skimp on lube and read carefully which ones can be used.
2) Cleaning them correctly is really important! This is specially true with anal ones.

I don't currently have any one of them as I have been in a NSA situation. But, if I had to get them again, I would go with the Fleshlight first and the Cobra Libre not short after. In a way, the Fleshlight would be if I wanted a bit of the hip action, whereas I would use the Cobra Libre if I wanted something closer to the blowjob feeling. At around $115 for the Fleshlight (did a quick check at a local store but certainly it could be cheaper), it is not cheap. But, compared to the cost of this hobby, it is still relatively "cheap".
Thanks for the thorough comments. I had no idea half this even existed.,
 

raisinbran

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I've been assured that the Rude Boy sex toy is amazing. It's a vaguely C-shaped thing, where the long end goes in your butt to get your prostate. Then it looks like there's a vibrator to get you behind your nuts. I'm sure it's great but i haven't been able to get past the idea of sticking something up my butt. Especially when it's that big.
 

OneLuckyGuy

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A cpl of years ago, Cherry|Soda in Victoria introduced my to the Magic Wand with a male adapter when I was having a difficult time. Instant cum.
I had a similar experience with Cherry Soda. She teased/edged me for 45 minutes and then slipped the male adaptor on her Magic Wand. I think she had to paint the ceiling after I exploded. What an orgasm!!!
 
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