What's your story for seeing an SP or being in this hobby?

[fitey7777777]

Honestly? Never had a girlfriend in high school. I was poor. I wasn't a good looking guy. Girls never looked at me twice, when any one made a suggestion of one dating me, the look on their face, ugh.

I met my wife when I was fairly young, though. Had only ever been with her until I started. Just wanted to try out some of the smoking hot young women I missed out on. My sex life at home is great, but my wife is not as hot as I'd like.

At work I'm surrounded by sexiness, but I can't go for anything there or I'll get fired, and likely divorced.

So I do this. I guess I'm kind of a jerk in the respect.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Honestly? Never had a girlfriend in high school. I was poor. I wasn't a good looking guy. Girls never looked at me twice, when any one made a suggestion of one dating me, the look on their face, ugh.

I met my wife when I was fairly young, though. Had only ever been with her until I started. Just wanted to try out some of the smoking hot young women I missed out on. My sex life at home is great, but my wife is not as hot as I'd like.

At work I'm surrounded by sexiness, but I can't go for anything there or I'll get fired, and likely divorced.

So I do this. I guess I'm kind of a jerk in the respect.

Well you're honest with yourself at the least. I say keep being that way - you have that always.

 

[anon1]

Because it's there.

 

[Corym]

Hmmm, I never got lucky in my life although my friends have, it just seems to come naturally for them :-(
Been close a few times but usually I stop myself, don't know why, I guess I c#$k myself.

So this is an alternative method and Thank to the lovely ladies that I have met past, present and future!!!

Corym

 

[licks2nite]

My lady and I lost each other for lack of funds. As designed driver of a colleague's big Oldsmobile, 4 of us ended up on the streets of legal Amsterdam. Back home found a neighbour, known since elementary school, taken up with a US draft dodging pimp. Aspiring to be a pimp himself, when neighbour found a lady, they married and she divorced him hardly a year later. Scenes for hooking up straight wouldn't happen.

 

[angry anderson]

I only regret not doing this earlier to be honest. Even if it's a transaction, just the ability to have sex and do intimate stuff with beautiful women has vastly improved my mental health, and it's now something that motivates me to work hard and continue improving myself.

By George. I think you've got it!

 

[Lo-ki]

One that I forgot.....
While backing out of the driveway, I hit her mailbox and sent it in the ditch without knowing.....
She did tell me on the next visit....lol

 

[fitey7777777]

Paid women were the only ones who have not rejected me because of my height, or my race, or my physical appearance. I can truly be myself around them and be accepted for it. And as long as that is the case, I will continue to see them.

That sucks man, it gets better with age though. Unfortunately living like that when you're younger destroys your confidence.

 

[SkinnyJohn]

If I were smarter I would have started doing this at 18. To spend your youngest and horniest years celibate is something I wouldn't wish on anybody. Imagine being so full of energy and testosterone, seeing attractive girls your age and you cannot do anything.

Sorry to hear you had to go through a lot of mental anguish when it came to the dating world. I do agree seeing escorts on the side makes it more bearable when one isn't getting sex or being rejected and can't find anyone to date. The only issue I have with starting at 18 is the lack of funds the majority of guys have in the younger years. With how expensive it is living in this city and having really young guys start this I would worry about their financial future. Might be really hard to control your horny younger self and it's easy to see how young guys would go broke just living normal day life and seeing girls on the side. Better to be established and have a steady paycheck before seeing all these beautiful women.