What's your story for seeing an SP or being in this hobby?

[Coolsin000]

Hello Gentlemen,

I've been a member for PERB since Nov 2019 - I was curious to see what's your story for seeing an SP or being in this hobby?

For my story:
My ex-gf broke my heart on April 2018, we have been together for three years and three months. I've struggle to find another girlfriend for months, after several months without sexual intercourse - I've finally took the plunge to find a stripper to get a full service. After that experience, I learn to use Leolist, Discrete Connection and TERB.CC/MERB.CC/PERB.CC to find SPs.

 

[masterblaster]

That’s really great.

 

[PierreCoeur]

I have absolutely zero friends in this Province since I arrived 9 years ago and work about 12 hours or more each day for 6 days a week. I am too old to go to bars or places to meet anyone, so I buy an hour of companionship every week.

 

[Sthitapragya]

I have absolutely zero friends in this Province since I arrived 9 years ago and work about 12 hours or more each day for 6 days a week. I am too old to go to bars or places to meet anyone, so I buy an hour of companionship every week.

Similar to my own story, even though I am younger and I have a lot of friends/acquaintances here but I try to avoid them as much as I can. I am terrible at dating and maintaining long term relationships, even friendly ones. I have a very combative nature and can't like anyone for a long time. I have little faith in how traditional relationships function and to me sex workers provide me an escape from my own reality.

 

[PierreCoeur]

Similar to my own story, even though I am younger and I have a lot of friends/acquaintances here but I try to avoid them as much as I can. I am terrible at dating and maintaining long term relationships, even friendly ones. I have a very combative nature and can't like anyone for a long time. I have little faith in how traditional relationships function and to me sex workers provide me an escape from my own reality.

Interesting. You almost make me want to psychoanalyze myself and find reasons for why I don't have friends LOL

 

[87112]

I am the biggest loner on the entire universe. If I die tomorrow only the people at work will know I am missing.

 

[PuntMeister]

Wow, I feel the loneliness in the room.
Thanks for being honest gents. Refreshing actually.

I poon because I have deep fantasies, get horny as fuk, and enjoy fullfillment without too much drama.
I look forward to it. And with a few good decisions, it is exciting, fun, cathartic, and healing.

May your journeys be wonderful.

-Punt.

 

[Andrew69913]

I would say it's because I never had much sexual experience in my life...I mean....girlfriends and stuff sure. I've also just started "pooning" or meeting SP's about 2 years ago. What I mean is I never felt comfortable enough to express and explore myself sexually. That's not the case any longer. I do believe in monogamy when I'm in a relationship, but that's another dicussion lol. Anyways, I'm single, 44, sexually free and loving the ability to be honest and find myself sexually. As long as the provider understands this about me and is into it, then it's usually a great time!!!

 

[steverino]

It's just so damn easy to pick up the phone and an hour later be in the company of a beautiful woman providing a fantasy sexual encounter.

 

[nomis2013]

I am ringed, but I just need more excitement and variety out of the routine, and also to fulfill my fantasy that I cannot get normally. I joined this hobby back in 2013, I thought it will be just a 1 or 2 times thing to satisfy my curiosity, but God knows I am still doing this now. I only play once every 4 months, but due to the pandemic, it has been 6 months since the last time I go shopping, and its harder and harder to hold out each day.

 

[foxontherun]

I started after a long dry spell and minimal experience with ladies, wanted to get more experience, decided to give it a try to get my confidence up a little more. Now it's a bit of variety when the opportunity arises.

 

[cruefan]

Dating is way too much responsibility and full of drama.

Seeing an escort is so easy and less headache.

 

[take8easy]

I am a late bloomer. I had not even to a strip bar till 6 years ago leave alone seeing an SP. Not because I didn't want to, but because I am a very shy and introvert person and non of my close friend is partyer etc.

Six years ago, I hooked up with an old mate on a business trip to Toronto. He took me to a strip bar for the first time in Niagara Falls and then almost dragged me into this massage place on the same block. All the girls were busy so nothing happened but that sort of got me over my fear. I came back home and started to Google escorts. I found PERB and ERS (now known as Leolist). In July 2014, I lost my SP virginity to Cherise on a warm summer day. I have seen around 110 girls for about 165 sessions since and I am still going strong.

As I have gotten 6 years older, junior doesn't always cooperate now. Most of my sessions now are about meeting beautiful women who otherwise would not be interested in me. I get to pick the age, size, ethnicity, location, time and services of my choice and have great time with the SP I am seeing.

I do plan to quit one day but right now I am seeing about one SP a month with an exception here and there.

Happy Pooning!

 

[oldshark]

Separated from my ex. Raising my kids by myself and spend most of my free time with them. Time consuming job. Don't need complications from relationships. Have lots of relatives so not really lonely. Easier just to go see someone who is ready to screw when I am.

 

[Theguyfromvictoria]

I have no ability at all to pick up woman.
Yeah, I could be in better shape, but even with that, have been told I am not a bad looking guy.
Full time job, play lots of sports, active in the community etc / interact with lots of woman - but not in ‘that way’. I don’t know what it is .

I honestly believe that I just have the wrong the wrong type of pheromones? Is that possible ?

 

[take8easy]

I have no ability at all to pick up woman.
Yeah, I could be in better shape, but even with that, have been told I am not a bad looking guy.
Full time job, play lots of sports, active in the community etc / interact with lots of woman - but not in ‘that way’. I don’t know what it is .

I honestly believe that I just have the wrong the wrong type of pheromones? Is that possible ?

I don't think it is the pheromones. Some of us are just not good at it. I am one of those too. Women seem to confuse me sometimes.

 

[87112]

I have no ability at all to pick up woman.
Yeah, I could be in better shape, but even with that, have been told I am not a bad looking guy.
Full time job, play lots of sports, active in the community etc / interact with lots of woman - but not in ‘that way’. I don’t know what it is .

I honestly believe that I just have the wrong the wrong type of pheromones? Is that possible ?

Women will decide in less than 3 seconds upon seeing you whether you are date worthy. I truly believe they are just as shallow as men or worse, you know its about looks pure looks.

 

[nomis2013]

I have no ability at all to pick up woman.
Yeah, I could be in better shape, but even with that, have been told I am not a bad looking guy.
Full time job, play lots of sports, active in the community etc / interact with lots of woman - but not in ‘that way’. I don’t know what it is .

I honestly believe that I just have the wrong the wrong type of pheromones? Is that possible ?

May be you are not looking at the right place. Tried using dating apps as I heard that works well. It's very hard to develop relationship at work, or even at volunteer event, unless u r lucky. If u interact with a lot of women and have many female friends, may be they can hook up for u.

 

[nomis2013]

I don't think it is the pheromones. Some of us are just not good at it. I am one of those too. Women seem to confuse me sometimes.

Take8Easy u r a fxxxxxx legend!! Have u been pooning lately? I want to but i dobt want to catch Covid

 

[take8easy]

Take8Easy u r a fxxxxxx legend!! Have u been pooning lately? I want to but i dobt want to catch Covid

Thanks for your kind words. After Jan I took almost exactly four months off and then got back on the ride, so to speak. I have been pooning once a month ever since (except, I indulged twice in July). And, I have a date tomorrow with a beautiful young girl that is up for a gfe.

I know COVID is there, but we use all the caution that we can. Plenty of kissing except two occasions. Needless to say, I won't repeat them both.