What is your ideal appointment length when seeing a provider?

[80watts]

90 min to 2 hours makes sense.
1. Less cleaning (for 2, 1 hour appointments then 1-2 hour appointment), a good hostess will always clean up the place after a client leaves. Men appreciate clean places.
2. An 1 hour appointment is a fast attack procedure for escorts; who has to dress nicely, make sure place is clean, then 1 hour appointment, immediately clean place.
3. A longer session and me the client doesn't feel rushed. A a younger guy, wham bam thank you maam might of been the thing to do, but as you get older you want to slow down and appreciate things... especially if she has ropes....

 

[PuntMeister]

Going in for an 18 hour over-nighter soon. Hey, ATF BFF FB’s 4-EVr stuff here. Why not indulge in a little Lfiestyle with this lifestyle.

Then about a dozen 60-90’s.

Then repeat.

Live large, Love larger. ❤

 

[Bang4thebuck]

With girls I dated, who were not paid, I preferred to hangout with them for at least a few hours, or have them stay the night, and enjoy each other's company and build a connection within our defined boundaries.

With SPs, I understand it's a job; a tough, stressful job, and most people don't "love" a job, a job is done for the money. They are strangers, as we are strangers to them, and most of them probably view their clients with disgust, resentment, and judgment, whether they will admit it or not. They also have their bad days just like any businesses where professional services are rendered.

But me, I don't care, I'm just in it to bust and move on. I'm not delusional to think these girls actually love me or think I'm a porn star in bed, and I don't have to impress them or pleasure them (although I am very selfless in bed in my personal life). I don't need much time to get my rocks off, so 30 minutes is the sweet spot for me.

That being said I'm a good client as I don't like to waste time so I book with as few messages as possible, confirm restrictions, confirm the price with no haggling or arguing (so tacky and tasteless to argue pricing), shower, show up on time, leave.

 

[rizzgod]

With girls I dated, who were not paid, I preferred to hangout for a few hours at least or have them stay the night, and enjoy eachothers company. But with SPs, it's a job. A tough job. They are strangers, and most of them probably view their clients with disgust, resentment, and judgment, whether they will admit it or not. I don't care, I'm just in it to bust and move on. I'm not delusional to think these girls actually love me or think I'm a porn star in bed and I don't have to impress them or pleasure them (although I am very selfless in bed in my personal life). I don't need much time to get my rocks off, so 30 minutes is the sweet spot for me. That being said I'm a good client as I don't like to waste time so I book with as few messages as possible, confirm restrictions, confirm the price with no haggling or arguing (so tacky and tasteless to argue pricing), shower, show up on time, leave.

I completely agree with this. It seems some people here try to portray themselves as superior, whether by claiming to be better clients or better men for preferring longer appointments, but that's not really the case. Personally, I also enjoy spending extended time with women who aren't escorts without any financial transaction. With escorts, an hour is usually sufficient, and I’m fine with half an hour too. Sure, I have booked longer appointments in the past, but it's not something I typically do or prefer.
This doesn’t mean I’m not a respectful and charming client. I simply value my time and prioritize authentic connections with women over paid encounters.

 

[Bang4thebuck]

I completely agree with this. It seems some people here try to portray themselves as superior, whether by claiming to be better clients or better men for preferring longer appointments, but that's not really the case. Personally, I also enjoy spending extended time with women who aren't escorts without any financial transaction. With escorts, an hour is usually sufficient, and I’m fine with half an hour too. Sure, I have booked longer appointments in the past, but it's not something I typically do or prefer.
This doesn’t mean I’m not a respectful and charming client. I simply value my time and prioritize authentic connections with women over paid encounters.

Yep and there's nothing wrong with that. I think where it crosses the line is when clients think they've developed, or are developing, emotional intimacy or "feelings", for working girls. They will pay to see a girl for longer, to see her more frequently, as they believe she cares about him. She does not. She cares about the business. If you are a good client who keeps coming back it's just good business to keep you hooked. It's not the girl's fault that she's good at what she does. If a guy sees working girls for emotional intimacy his money is better spent on a therapist. Just like when you go to a restaurant, the pretty young server flirting away in a tight skirt is just trying to bag a nice tip, so don't take it personally if she smiles at you before you've paid the bill. Understand the game for what it is and keep yourself in check.

 

[Tigelat]

Hi everyone,
I’m moving to BC from east coast, and have a question related to this post; appreciate it if you can respond to it.
On the east coast, when it comes to 90-minutes sessions, it’s usually less than 1.5*60-min rate.

What I’ve checked for the BC providers (a few agencies), the 90-min rate is much higher than 1.5*60-min, almost doubled in some cases.

My question is simply “why”?!
Hearing from providers in Toronto and Montreal, I know it makes sense to charge a little less than flat rate for longer duration; but it’s the exact opposite in BC, which does not make sense to me at all!!

 

[VanCityNewb]

Hi everyone,
I’m moving to BC from east coast, and have a question related to this post; appreciate it if you can respond to it.
On the east coast, when it comes to 90-minutes sessions, it’s usually less than 1.5*60-min rate.

What I’ve checked for the BC providers (a few agencies), the 90-min rate is much higher than 1.5*60-min, almost doubled in some cases.

My question is simply “why”?!
Hearing from providers in Toronto and Montreal, I know it makes sense to charge a little less than flat rate for longer duration; but it’s the exact opposite in BC, which does not make sense to me at all!!

It never made sense to me, either. Or I'll often see just the 45 minute rate, times two. In which case, I'd just prefer two separate meetings, being fresh each time. I've even seen a 60 minute rate that's higher than two 30 minute rates, lol. Often times this stuff makes pretty much no sense at all. Just take it for what it is.

 

[Tigelat]

It never made sense to me, either. Or I'll often see just the 45 minute rate, times two. In which case, I'd just prefer two separate meetings, being fresh each time. I've even seen a 60 minute rate that's higher than two 30 minute rates, lol. Often times this stuff makes pretty much no sense at all. Just take it for what it is.

For SPs, it’s better to book longer sessions, especially 90-120 minutes, which there will be some bedtalk, and that leads to regulars.
In Montreal, many good SPs (in agencies) have regulars, and well, usually being fully booked for their time.
In the end, I’m not an SP in Vancouver and do not know that much about this industry in your city.

BTW, thanks for sharing your insight. Much appreciated.

 

[fuckmerunning]

For SPs, it’s better to book longer sessions, especially 90-120 minutes, which there will be some bedtalk, and that leads to regulars.
In Montreal, many good SPs (in agencies) have regulars, and well, usually being fully booked for their time.
In the end, I’m not an SP in Vancouver and do not know that much about this industry in your city.

BTW, thanks for sharing your insight. Much appreciated.

The explanation I got from Phoenix is that for 90 minutes you get 2 shot, for 60 minutes you only get 1 shot. At Phoenix, for 90 minutes they will send in 1 girl for 45 and then send in another one if you like.

 

[OF_manager]

For SPs, it’s better to book longer sessions, especially 90-120 minutes, which there will be some bedtalk, and that leads to regulars.

Arguably its the opposite.
It's dependent on individual circumstances, but generally, the girls who focus on 30-60 minute appointments and can manage the volume are earning significantly more, and its not even close.
On the other hand, those providers who prioritize of exclusively opt for longer appointments of 90-120+ minutes might find it less stressful and less labor-intensive. While many providers would likely agree with that, those who exclusively offer the longer sessions tend to have far fewer clients, and make far less money.

As many people have pointed out in this thread, a significant number of guys don't actually desire the bed talk and similar interactions. However, these clients are less inclined to post on PERB due to time limitations (they often lead busier lives) and their reluctance to want to deal with backlash and attacks from some of the "white knights" on the forum, along with the providers who comment in an effort to promote their own personal agendas.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I think if a providers 90 minute rate is higher than her shorter time rate, then they probably prefer shorter sessions. If a lady offers discounts on longer sessions than they probably enjoy longer sessions and want to influence that. In a busy agency where the focus is sex rather than companionship, then shorter sessions would be preferred. 6 90 minute gfe sessions would take a lot out of a girl. Msog is not as common as perb makes it out to be. I rarely get gentlemen wanting msog in even a 2 hour session so that being a reason doesn’t make sense to me.

 

[Gsh]

Hi everyone,
I’m moving to BC from east coast, and have a question related to this post; appreciate it if you can respond to it.
On the east coast, when it comes to 90-minutes sessions, it’s usually less than 1.5*60-min rate.

What I’ve checked for the BC providers (a few agencies), the 90-min rate is much higher than 1.5*60-min, almost doubled in some cases.

My question is simply “why”?!
Hearing from providers in Toronto and Montreal, I know it makes sense to charge a little less than flat rate for longer duration; but it’s the exact opposite in BC, which does not make sense to me at all!!

A couple of these places are just doing 90 min = 2 * 45 min rate, and 2 hours = 2 * 60 min rate. However, since 60 min is discounted compared to 45 min, the 90 min rate ends up looking weird or out-of-place.

 

[Harmony-bc]

A couple of these places are just doing 90 min = 2 * 45 min rate, and 2 hours = 2 * 60 min rate. However, since 60 min is discounted compared to 45 min, the 90 min rate ends up looking weird or out-of-place.

That makes more sense. Most escort agencies and parlors I’ve worked at just had hourly rates and the hour rate was a bit cheaper than 2 half hours.

 

[JackRyder]

90 mins , time to get acquainted, or catch up, then time for a variety of activities, no pressure to finish.

 

[easymoneysniper]

Unbeknownst to them, there are actually LOTS of providers who offer 30 minute appointments to clients they have previously seen, or occasionally to those who request them, even if it's not publicly advertised.

What is the best way to approach and ask a provider you have seen if they offer shorter appointments without coming off as rude or disrespectful?

There are a handful or indy ladies I have seen, who I wouldn't repeat for a 60 minute but would for a 30 minute.

 

[jgg]

What is the best way to approach and ask a provider you have seen if they offer shorter appointments without coming off as rude or disrespectful?

There are a handful or indy ladies I have seen, who I wouldn't repeat for a 60 minute but would for a 30 minute.

You will never get the sale if you don't ask. The same applies here, too.

 

[CEG]

I generally like 60 min for an incall and maybe if its a regular and we have a drink and hang out etc, then 90. For something quick after work or as i am running around doing errands a quick 20 or 30 min is a nice relaxation amount.

 

[West End Guy]

I’m a long session guy, so 2 hours is my minimum. Longer if it’s a repeat with a girl I really like. I like the chat, flirting and foreplay before the clothes come off, and the relaxation and pillow talk between rounds. I’m still lucky enough to get in 2 or 3 rounds so I’m gonna take advantage of that while it lasts. Eventually my age will catch up to me and I’ll be done after one, but while I can ...

I’m a one shot guy on a good day because I am that age. But I still enjoy 2 hours of my favourite’s company. I like taking it slow too to savour our time together.

 

[Panaru]

I like 60 mins minimum otherwise it feels too rushed. Sometimes I would even like 90 min but a lot of agencies price 90 min way higher than 60 min so I don’t go for it.

 

[angry anderson]

8" when at an appointment. But dreaming will get you nowhere.