Ive been lookin around at going to get service from escorts, checked out all the sites n stuff. I had a few that caught my eye, contacted via email...but kind of nervous to attempt it. maybe because im younger? What is it like for the first time? and who would be a good first timer (vancouver)?
what is it like?
- Thread starter smitty
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My first time was filled with anxiety and anticipation rolled into one. The thought of playtime on order whenever I want and no strings attached was great but I was nervous as well and did not know the etiquette.
As such, my first experience was more like the first date I ever went on in my life. Awkward with childlike inexperience. I spent tons of time on small talk and trying to get comfortable rather than just getting down to playtime (which I wanted).
Few things that I figured out along the way:
1) be clean and smell fresh (showered, brush your teeth, freshen your breath and a light spray of cologne is good) remember SP's are still women and they will react like women (most women don't like stinky, dirty men).
2) have the donation ready at the start either in an envelope or casually sitting on the coffee table (if she is visiting you. This avoids tense moments of how do I deal with this)
3) 5-10 minutes of chit chat to get a little more at ease (for 1 hour calls) then off to playtime (don't blow your whole hour trying to get to know her).
4) if you have refreshments for her, have it in sealed containers that she can open herself (she might be afraid of being drugged and offering pre-opened stuff could put her on edge)
5) before getting carried away, ask her about any restrictions so that you don't any backlash in the heat of the moment because you have crossed her boundaries.
6) treat her like a lady. She is an SP but you will get farther if you are polite, well-mannered and consider her physical pleasure too (DATY, mutual full body teasing, altering your performance or technique to suit her and you, body massage afterwards have worked well for me to get more mileage out of the YMMV formula)
7) have clean washroom facilities available (she might want to get cleaned up afterwards and most that I run into prefer clean facilities).
8) for your protection, keep the amount of money on you and ID on you to a minimum, nothing worse than trying to figure out what was in your wallet if it got stolen or left behind (not that it happens all the time but occassionally a crooked SP might try and pull something funny. I almost got jacked one time but my spider senses said something was wrong and I left before it got out of control and only lost $95 on that one).
Lastly, for a first timer it is hard to say who would be good.
Ladies who have been reviewed well like Ingrid or my personal favorite Morrigan Latour (used to be known as Pandora with Classy Ladies, she is coming to town this weekend!!) would be good starts.
Ultimately it is always YMMV (your mileage may vary) and personal taste that can make or break your first encounter. In theory you could set a date with any top SP and just because of bad chemistry it becomes a so-so encounter. Conversely, the SP might be a fabulous performer but her looks and body just don't do anything for you (some like big chicks others like spinners).
I would say you just have to TOFTT (take one for the team) and figure out what type of SP's you like. Part of the fun of becoming an experienced hobbyist is trying out all the different gals and learning what you like.
Beware though, this can be an addictive pasttime and a costly one if you let it get out of control.
Anyway good luck with your hobbying.
As such, my first experience was more like the first date I ever went on in my life. Awkward with childlike inexperience. I spent tons of time on small talk and trying to get comfortable rather than just getting down to playtime (which I wanted).
Few things that I figured out along the way:
1) be clean and smell fresh (showered, brush your teeth, freshen your breath and a light spray of cologne is good) remember SP's are still women and they will react like women (most women don't like stinky, dirty men).
2) have the donation ready at the start either in an envelope or casually sitting on the coffee table (if she is visiting you. This avoids tense moments of how do I deal with this)
3) 5-10 minutes of chit chat to get a little more at ease (for 1 hour calls) then off to playtime (don't blow your whole hour trying to get to know her).
4) if you have refreshments for her, have it in sealed containers that she can open herself (she might be afraid of being drugged and offering pre-opened stuff could put her on edge)
5) before getting carried away, ask her about any restrictions so that you don't any backlash in the heat of the moment because you have crossed her boundaries.
6) treat her like a lady. She is an SP but you will get farther if you are polite, well-mannered and consider her physical pleasure too (DATY, mutual full body teasing, altering your performance or technique to suit her and you, body massage afterwards have worked well for me to get more mileage out of the YMMV formula)
7) have clean washroom facilities available (she might want to get cleaned up afterwards and most that I run into prefer clean facilities).
8) for your protection, keep the amount of money on you and ID on you to a minimum, nothing worse than trying to figure out what was in your wallet if it got stolen or left behind (not that it happens all the time but occassionally a crooked SP might try and pull something funny. I almost got jacked one time but my spider senses said something was wrong and I left before it got out of control and only lost $95 on that one).
Lastly, for a first timer it is hard to say who would be good.
Ladies who have been reviewed well like Ingrid or my personal favorite Morrigan Latour (used to be known as Pandora with Classy Ladies, she is coming to town this weekend!!) would be good starts.
Ultimately it is always YMMV (your mileage may vary) and personal taste that can make or break your first encounter. In theory you could set a date with any top SP and just because of bad chemistry it becomes a so-so encounter. Conversely, the SP might be a fabulous performer but her looks and body just don't do anything for you (some like big chicks others like spinners).
I would say you just have to TOFTT (take one for the team) and figure out what type of SP's you like. Part of the fun of becoming an experienced hobbyist is trying out all the different gals and learning what you like.
Beware though, this can be an addictive pasttime and a costly one if you let it get out of control.
Anyway good luck with your hobbying.
I remember feeling the same way....
Lurking and lurking finally getting up the courage to make a date. I picked a SP that had been reviewed often here so I knew there would be no problems. Thank you, Thank you, Paige Adams!
When I got there and took care of the paperwork, i told her I was very nervous and she took control. I am a professional and was extremely suprised to find her level of profesionalism was similar to mine(different line of work, of course!!)
I remember thinking about 15 minutes into the encounter. Man, am I glad I did this...and you will too...
So, I encourage you to GO FOR IT!
50mile
Lurking and lurking finally getting up the courage to make a date. I picked a SP that had been reviewed often here so I knew there would be no problems. Thank you, Thank you, Paige Adams!
When I got there and took care of the paperwork, i told her I was very nervous and she took control. I am a professional and was extremely suprised to find her level of profesionalism was similar to mine(different line of work, of course!!)
I remember thinking about 15 minutes into the encounter. Man, am I glad I did this...and you will too...
So, I encourage you to GO FOR IT!
50mile
A few other things that I have learned that I forgot to mention:
1) age - take stated ages over 25 and age 5 years to get the true age (the young ones don't have to embelish but the older ones usually try to make themselves look younger)
2) weight - I usually add 10 lbs to their stated weight to get the actual weight
3) figure - add about 2 inches to each bottom half number
4) openminded - not usually factual unless they state DATY, etc. or have been reviewed at least 6 times by unique members as being openminded
5) the truly hot eyecandy are often times the more expensive ones with attitude (unless otherwise proven through reviews)
6) In terms of the looks of an SP, an AMP I think is an easier way to start 'cause you get to select from a lineup instead of doing the Forrest Gump of "independent SP's are like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get." I've had good luck at Bex (sampled the infamous Sarah and the very memorable Monica, aka the shy white girl who hid in the back all the time a couple of years ago).
If you don't mind older talent (I found they were better 'cause they know how to make your spine tingle) Jordan (of Jordon For You) is an ex-model (seen her portfolio) who really knew how to turn me on (including playing on her mink coat). Paige Adams was really fun as she loves to play but she does look like a naughty librarian instead of a model like Jordan. I had a great time with Silka but remember she is not a spinner but she is not BBW either.
Morrigan Latour (aka Pandora of the late great Classy Ladies) is also coming this weekend. She has really nice, real, perky breasts and the DATY was lots of fun. I took her on a few dates and she is real fun to hang with on in an off-duty perspective too.
Admittedly, my black book of playmates is a little stale as I have a 1.5 year gap due to a longterm relationship.
Hope that helps...
1) age - take stated ages over 25 and age 5 years to get the true age (the young ones don't have to embelish but the older ones usually try to make themselves look younger)
2) weight - I usually add 10 lbs to their stated weight to get the actual weight
3) figure - add about 2 inches to each bottom half number
4) openminded - not usually factual unless they state DATY, etc. or have been reviewed at least 6 times by unique members as being openminded
5) the truly hot eyecandy are often times the more expensive ones with attitude (unless otherwise proven through reviews)
6) In terms of the looks of an SP, an AMP I think is an easier way to start 'cause you get to select from a lineup instead of doing the Forrest Gump of "independent SP's are like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get." I've had good luck at Bex (sampled the infamous Sarah and the very memorable Monica, aka the shy white girl who hid in the back all the time a couple of years ago).
If you don't mind older talent (I found they were better 'cause they know how to make your spine tingle) Jordan (of Jordon For You) is an ex-model (seen her portfolio) who really knew how to turn me on (including playing on her mink coat). Paige Adams was really fun as she loves to play but she does look like a naughty librarian instead of a model like Jordan. I had a great time with Silka but remember she is not a spinner but she is not BBW either.
Morrigan Latour (aka Pandora of the late great Classy Ladies) is also coming this weekend. She has really nice, real, perky breasts and the DATY was lots of fun. I took her on a few dates and she is real fun to hang with on in an off-duty perspective too.
Admittedly, my black book of playmates is a little stale as I have a 1.5 year gap due to a longterm relationship.
Hope that helps...
Smitty
I'm in the same situation your in. Trying to decide on that first SP. I've checked the web page of several and looked at the reviews. I've e-mailed several, however, some never responded, so there off my list. I've essentially narrowed it down to:
1. Victoria-Lee (tried to hook up with but is unfortunately is leaving town.
2. Julia who I'm trying to meet up with this weekend.
3. Paige Adams
4. Kaylee
5. Felicia (wish she had an e-mail, but I'll try PM)
6. Mercury (wish she had more reviews though)
Question to Smitty, who is Saya?
I'm in the same situation your in. Trying to decide on that first SP. I've checked the web page of several and looked at the reviews. I've e-mailed several, however, some never responded, so there off my list. I've essentially narrowed it down to:
1. Victoria-Lee (tried to hook up with but is unfortunately is leaving town.
2. Julia who I'm trying to meet up with this weekend.
3. Paige Adams
4. Kaylee
5. Felicia (wish she had an e-mail, but I'll try PM)
6. Mercury (wish she had more reviews though)
Question to Smitty, who is Saya?
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