What I Crave from a Domme

[lotus_96]

For a while I have pondered the question as to what I enjoy, need and require from a dominant woman. I have been with a few dommes and a few service providers who wanted to learn more, but it is hard to express ones self. So I decided to post here and see if anything comes of it. I am looking for a woman, who while dominant in disposition, is still wanting to learn how to deal with a man on a more erotic level of domination. For me it is of course anal play, but it is not just grab the strap on and start pumping my ass, to be effective one needs to make one beg for it. I am looking for a domme who really really wants to learn how to tease and please a guys ass, till he can't control himself. Someone who craves the information about ass play and how to tease and increase the sensation. Afterall it is not the arrival but the journey. For me I just have not found that domme who can be all about ass.
In addition to my ass journey, I need her to allow me to pleasure her in various ways as well, teasing her worshipping her ass, her pussy before moving on to myself. I am looking for worship, pleasuring her the tease, exploration and fulfillment of myself. Perhaps someone who allows me to be selfish in some ways.
If there is a domme female out there looking to learn and explore more, then please let me know.

thanks in advance

L

 

[vancouver1992]

Jessikaxxx would be my suggestion... Jessikaxx i hope You don't mind the mention!!


van '92

 

[Aeiyah]

You have articulated what you want very well. I would recommend Mistress Freyja.

 

[mistressfreyja]

Thanks for the recommendation, Aeiyah, Luv, and Anna!

I definitely like to take a different approach to being a Domina, and it's not just about incorporating GFE. I like to listen, I like to please, and I LOVE to feel in control. I crave the creativity required to make your session completely according to your needs and wants. I take direction well, because I don't find it necessary to be controlling via being someone/something that I'm not. You will desire to give up control....I can't make it happen outside of you seeking to give it up. Afterall, I am an SP! I would be in the wrong profession if I truly believed it to be "all about me."

Don't get me wrong.....I love super strict sessions. I just need the balance of everything and in-between.

It's simply me being more authentic to myself. No disrepect meant to anyone who does things differently. We all do this our own way

You have articulated what you want very well. I would recommend Mistress Freyja.

Agree with the above...............Mistress Freyja and JESSXXX...hands down.

Agreed. They are both excellent choices!

 

[Jessikaxxx]

Thanx for the recommendations.
I believe that both domination and submission are a gift we get to give and recieve.

I do believe its all about my pleasure.
...so the question is, do the things that please me turn you on?

xoxox,
jxxx