What does one do in a 2 hour visit? (serious question)

[NEbaD]

Honestly, I just don't get it, and I'd like to.

My reasoning for this: there are some women I'd like to book with who only offer 90 minute or 2 hour appointments. One in particular says she may consider a single hour, at an inflated rate. There are plenty of nice women in this industry who of course offer shorter dates, but many of the "elite courtesans" seem to prefer a greater length of time.

So, what do you do? Obviously, there's sex, however few if any people are having sex for 2 hours, I would think. Is it just hanging out talking, then? Foreplay? What? Think what you may, however for myself, I'm generally perfectly happy after 45 minutes with an expert.

Of conversation- I pay my psychologist for professional conversation; I pay escorts for professional sex. This is not to say I couldn't enjoy conversation with an escort, or that I couldn't enjoy sex with my shrink, but I've generally always assumed to leave each professional to their profession. With escorts, I typically keep it to cordial small talk.

I've pretty much decided to take the plunge regardless. There's a few women I've been wanting to meet for some time now, so I figure to simply see how it goes, and with luck I'll be pleasantly surprised. I suppose that what I'm hoping for here is to get some feedback in terms of what is expected and what to expect.

I only hope none of the women with whom I book become offended should I choose to leave after 30-45 minutes.

 

[ddcanz]

Honestly, I just don't get it, and I'd like to.

My reasoning for this: there are some women I'd like to book with who only offer 90 minute or 2 hour appointments. One in particular says she may consider a single hour, at an inflated rate. There are plenty of nice women in this industry who of course offer shorter dates, but many of the "elite courtesans" seem to prefer a greater length of time.

So, what do you do? Obviously, there's sex, however few if any people are having sex for 2 hours, I would think. Is it just hanging out talking, then? Foreplay? What? Think what you may, however for myself, I'm generally perfectly happy after 45 minutes with an expert.

Of conversation- I pay my psychologist for professional conversation; I pay escorts for professional sex. This is not to say I couldn't enjoy conversation with an escort, or that I couldn't enjoy sex with my shrink, but I've generally always assumed to leave each professional to their profession. With escorts, I typically keep it to cordial small talk.

I've pretty much decided to take the plunge regardless. There's a few women I've been wanting to meet for some time now, so I figure to simply see how it goes, and with luck I'll be pleasantly surprised. I suppose that what I'm hoping for here is to get some feedback in terms of what is expected and what to expect.

I only hope none of the women with whom I book become offended should I choose to leave after 30-45 minutes.

I think a lot of guys are treating their sessions as dates with SPs- so 2 hours makes sense for them. A little extra socializing time before and after. I'm married and not looking to date on the side or get really involved. And prolonging a session for MSOG isn't important. Paying up for this makes no sense to me.
I'm more like you- 30-45 to an hour tops is generally enough for me. I'm there for the action and I like variety.
This is not to say that a certain few ladies can't hold my attention for longer

 

[take8easy]

I have never had a two hour session. I think about three or four times I had a 90 minute session but that was only with the ladies I was very familiar with. Once it was lots of foreplay followed by sex and longer cuddling session, but not much talking because her English was not that great. Once it was with an SP who I have seen a lot and we just shot the breeze and had wine. Once I extended because I could not cum and guess what, extra 30 minute did not help either. Junior just went numb because of intense action.

Like ddcanz said, it's for people who are looking for social time. Usually these people have more time on their hands. Or in some cases men who want multi shots. At my age, I am just happy to finish it once in a session.

Like dd, I am married so I don't really need to talk too much, I get that at home. . Usually one hour is pretty good for me.

But to answer your question, I don't think it is 120 of non stop intercourse.

 

[204fun]

I've only partaken in a 2hr session once and just a couple of times at 90 minutes, other than that my experiences have been mostly 1hr sessions.

The only 2hr session that I booked was with an SP who I had seen a few times and was really enjoying spending time with and the sex was fantastic so I figured I would give it a try with a longer session to see how it would play out. Our date consisted of sharing a bottle of wine and chatting/cuddling on her couch. It ended up that we spent the first hour chatting and cuddling before we both realized we should probably get to the more serious matters.

I would agree with both ddcanz and take8easy that 2hrs or more really is more for the person looking to get the connection that comes from longer deeper conversation. It is too long of a time frame to just fill with idle chit-chat so you inevitably end up going into more personal details and from there you can develop a much stronger connection.

I personally have not gone back to the longer sessions as it had too much potential to lead to feelings beyond what I am looking for in this arrangement.

 

[NEbaD]

So, basically what I'm gathering is that a longer session is paying for a girlfriend, rather than paying for just sex. Seems like potentially dangerous territory.

 

[80watts]

When I was younger an hour was not enough, cause all I wanted to was to keep fucking her.
Now it’s have tea, catch up, cuddle, fuck her, play with her (toys and fingers), fuck her, sorry missed the bj it’s in there somewhere.... a massage... now time flies when you are having fun..... ⏰

 

[rrxing]

Used to meet up with one regular several times a year and it was always 2 hour sessions. I always enjoyed the conversations and of course the sex, but must say I just really enjoyed her company the most.i would say a true GFE.

 

[Addison Cortez]

I prefer longer sessions. An hour just gets me warmed up and... I’m still finishing myself off after only one hour and maybe for an hour more or could be there all day

I like to go for 3-5 hours, at least 2

Lots of foreplay taking it to the limit and msog is fun. Or with BDSM I definitely prefer much longer sessions because it’s so much more about patience, intensity, understanding, pushing limits and connection.

I prefer to make the connection for a better session, either way, hour or longer

 

[felixthecat]

So, basically what I'm gathering is that a longer session is paying for a girlfriend, rather than paying for just sex. Seems like potentially dangerous territory.

It is the premise of GFE after all. I don't think an extra hour makes it dangerous for a client who thinks realistically. Men should be able to access the situation, give their head a shake, adjust.
On the other hand, I observed seemingly reasonable attached men with decades of hobby experience, yet still falling for escorts. When 1 hr not enough, they'd pursue extra social time, etc., to get themselves in further trouble.

Try a 2 hr for a taste of it. It may or may be not for you. If it is not your preference, I wouldn't do it just because the escort does not offer shorter sessions, or overprices them. Having an SP force her preference on you does not seem right.

Personally, I do 1 hr. Tried a 2hr with an SP I saw before, who priced 2hr attractively, known for her smarts, a good company for a chat / having some wine with. As it happened, zero shots in 2 hr feel worse than zero shots in 1 hr. If it were an unknown, there would be the extra risk of a disaster / cutting time short. I'm glad I tried, but I stick to what works well for me. If 1 hr is not offered, it only means she can afford to be selective, not that she may be a good match for me.

Side note, I'm wondering if the demand for 2 hr is so high that SPs overprice them comparing to 1 hr. Something like 2h for 600 / 1h for 300 does not really compute, unless the SP does not value her time between sessions and extra preparation at all.
They may say they prefer longer sessions, yet show the opposite in the pricing.

 

[badbadboy]

I prefer longer sessions. An hour just gets me warmed up and... I’m still finishing myself off after only one hour and maybe for an hour more or could be there all day

I like to go for 3-5 hours, at least 2

Lots of foreplay taking it to the limit and msog is fun. Or with BDSM I definitely prefer much longer sessions because it’s so much more about patience, intensity, understanding, pushing limits and connection.

I prefer to make the connection for a better session, either way, hour or longer

This is the answer to the question. :thumb:

To me, the build up is as important as the finish.

Some of the GFE providers who only do 2 hour dates do that for a reason because they are very tantric in nature. Although they can switch it up when you feel like something more naturally lustful and spontaneous.

It's just like a hot first date with a new girlfriend. Except in my case, I keep repeating with these same providers and it never gets old.

Typically these SP's do not work off a set menu or checklist and go with the flow in response to you. You'd be surprised how quickly two hours fly by too.

If you are happy with 45 minute dates, this may not be for you.

 

[Pretty_Priya]

I prefer to spend at least two hours with a gentleman. I'm surprised to hear the OP say that he can get everything he wants sexually in about 35-45 minutes.

Like kamivix said, after about an hour, I'm just getting warmed up. I imagine most women are the same.

I like to take my time with sex. Good foreplay drives me wild; I love mutual edging; and multiple rounds with breaks in between for cuddles, conversation and snacks.

Why rush a good thing?

 

[cr_tallguy]

I can understand the reluctance to commit to longer dates. If there is no chemistry, it can be a looooong date *crickets*. But in my experience, when you choose the right lady and you both commit to finding that elusive "chemistry", then the time flies by and a 2 or 3 hour date seems like 30 minutes.

Admittedly, it's my preference to connect with ladies, to share pleasure with them instead of just having them pleasure me while I simply lay there, so a longer date fits in my preferences already. Nothing turns me on like a truly aroused partner.

For me, it's all about the journey, not the destination.

 

[NEbaD]

Thanks for all the responses. I'm not really into Katy Perry, and as cool as the Warrant video was, pretty sure that's not my thing either; to each their own.

I've definitely enjoyed long hours of intimacy with women, however it's typically the sort of thing I've only been able to establish while in a committed, meaningful relationship,with someone for whom I had strong feelings.

Although I've certainly met a couple escorts who, in enough time & under the right circumstances, I think I would develop feelings for, that's something I feel I'm better off avoiding.

 

[grizzly]

I do enjoy 2 hr dates and sometimes longer with the right lady but never on a first encounter. Of course I would never book more than an hour unless I really like the lady and I'm sure she genuinely enjoys being with me. I'm not a get in, get off and get out kind of guy, I enjoy making a connection with a lady. Not only sexually but intellectually as well. The brain is the biggest sex organ, especially for most women. If you can stimulate her brain, she becomes more comfortable with you and her guard comes down sexually. Like kamivix said, it takes her an hour to get warmed up. This is true for a lot of women.

No it's not 2 hours of straight fucking. If you're in this hobby just to get your rocks off, then I advise not to book more than an hour. If you enjoy everything about a woman, then 2 or more hours can be quite enjoyable with the right lady.

 

[sevenofnine]

for me I used to go for my night out to the bars, strippers lap dancers, and spent the night, quite often I would close the bar down,

so to transition to a half an hour or hour, seemed lame to me, one hour out then I gotta go home,
and I would talk to the dancers the waitress, you know between lap dances, I was a regular. so they would come and see me
they actually looked for me, to break the routine we would even put a movie in and watch a movie on a slow night,

so any way an hour didn't work for me,
I went to two, then a supper date of three,
it was never a problem conversation,
and it depends on the lady,
I mean the conversation,

one pse girl, two hours we would basically fuck for two hours or she would suck my cock for two hours.
I would cum then she would give a recovery time, and she would reach down and grab my cock, and here we went again.
then she would ask me to stay, and we would talk,

I have always been a good listener,
if any one wants to talk, I will listen all night,
and generally I can do the same,
but generally things get personal.
she tells you about her life etc, and you do the same,
you can only talk so much about the weather,
so you talk about whats going on in each others life.

I saw my sp, this weekend for
what 12 hours, or so,
and we could have went longer,

its not hard if your a pretty open person, and free of insecurities or judgments,
the more you have jealousies, insecurity issuses judgemental, the more closed you are, the more closed people around you become,

 

[Lady Vanessa]

I suppose it depends on what you are looking for. A companion and muse, or just a basic prostitute? Usually, people that are interested in a longer session are wanting something a bit more sophisticated, they want good conversation and rapport, companionship and most importantly to not feel rushed or " on the clock". Generally a shorter session may only leave time for your basic phisical needs and wants without all the frills. A provider that only offers longer dates is perhaps offering more of a companion or courtesan type of experience.
Kind of a fast food vs a fine dining experience? Sometimes you may want to treat yourself to a more leisurely and luxurious type of experience, sometimes you may just want to get your rocks off.

And Miss Grace's response should end this thread and not continue on beating a dead horse with other replies.
I agree with her gallant response wholeheartedly.

 

[poonerboi]

And Miss Grace's response should end this thread and not continue on beating a dead horse with other replies.
I agree with her gallant response wholeheartedly.

I fail to see how it is "beating a dead horse? I am sure there as many different views as there are reasons for partaking in this crazy "hobby".

 

[badbadboy]

I think it's an interesting topic going from 45 min to 2 hours.

I've been curious about going from two hours to massage & HE to satisfy those basic needs just to change it up. It's interesting hearing from people who normally do shorter sessions.

 

[NEbaD]

Since "dead horse" has come up:

One thing I haven't heard, and quite possibly it won't be well received, would be about the hustle sometimes involved with the elite courtesans who only do longer sessions. Obviously this won't apply to everyone, but there are guys who fall in love and get milked, and I don't imagine they're doing so in 30 minute dates.

I was involved with a stripper for a few years, back in another lifetime. We lived together, and both held occupations which exploited people, in a manner of speaking. As such, we were quite open about the ins and outs of each of our respective jobs.

There were the guys who'd stroll in on weekends to get drunk and look at women, maybe score drugs and whatever.

There were the regulars who would try to talk to the girls, wouldn't even drink a lot of times, but would dump in cash on the daily, 4-5 nights a week, like it was their social life.

Then there were the live ones - these guys seriously tried to get personal with the girls. Most would try to "save" them, show them a better life or whatever they thought. The club owner would identify these guys and send more experienced girls out to suck them dry. They'd exchange numbers, talk on the phone, after awhile meet outside of work, and if it went far enough sleep with them.

My girlfriend was one of these girls. They had stories, elaborate background stuff, to basically get these guys to give them thousands of dollars without being so transparent as to say, "Hey, my mom is real sick- it's 5k for the medicine, can you please help me out?"

It would be naive for me to think similar activity doesn't occur in this industry as well, and it seems to me that this "elite courtesan" area of the field would most likely be where that sort of thing occurs.

I suppose I'm curious about how often that sort of thing happens, as well as any personal stories on what that kind of hustle entails in this business and what to look for. I'm not going to be headed to the bank for any certified checks regardless, but I am never the less curious, and it's something that I'm confident happens but I don't hear discussed except very rarely. PM's are fine if someone is embarrassed to post publicly.

 

[Lady Companion]

I suppose it depends on what you are looking for. A companion and muse, or just a basic prostitute? Usually, people that are interested in a longer session are wanting something a bit more sophisticated, they want good conversation and rapport, companionship and most importantly to not feel rushed or " on the clock". Generally a shorter session may only leave time for your basic phisical needs and wants without all the frills. A provider that only offers longer dates is perhaps offering more of a companion or courtesan type of experience.
Kind of a fast food vs a fine dining experience? Sometimes you may want to treat yourself to a more leisurely and luxurious type of experience, sometimes you may just want to get your rocks off.

Explained beautifully! A courtesan has taken years to hone her skills. She is well educated, well traveled, able to converse on a broad array of topics, and feeds you mind and soul as much as your body. You can barely get a service in 45 minutes, much less an experience. There are those of us who feel that if all you desire is a service, you can do that yourself in the shower.

There are a plethora of options out there. If you are happy with 45 minutes, then it really doesn't make sense to be paying more for longer. You will likely be disappointed with a longer experience, as it will NOT be a marathon session. There is a saying "The more you pay, the less you play". Longer experiences lend themselves best to those who are sapiophiles, enjoy genuine connection and appreciate the art of sensual seduction