I am a married man(30), i met this young girl(18) at the place i work, and she is a very nice person. We have been working together with her for quite a while, and we got on quite well. She said she liked me a few times, maybe just as a person. Anyway, i discovered lately i had been thinking about her very often. Recently she jokily asked me if i wanted her to give me a back scratch, and i told her that i were a married man, it would be weird if i let her gave me a back scratch. I have been avoiding her lately, as I am worried that my friendship with her will develop into something unusual. What can i do? I found her nice and attractive, am i just thinking too much?
What can i do with this young girl?
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Isn't it obvious? Give her the business. It would be a fantastic career move, nothing could possibly go wrong and what the old lady doesn't know, won't kill her. Make sure to let us all know how it works out.
Don't listen to SNL, what does she know?
Go find a sp which looks like your coworker and it's way less messy. Most sp leave you alone after the deed is done
Then there's the extreme probability that the girl was merely making an innocent gesture, at which case she'd be horrified by any suggestion of an advance and could throw a sexual harrassment case against you - at which point you risk your job, your professional relationship and your marriage. Unless she makes very obvious verbal or physical sexual moves on you, there's no reason to think she has any interest in you other than as a friendly co-worker. Sorry to be blunt, but I don't think that you're thinking with the right head, my friend - not trying to be rude, just honest. Sorry if I offended you.
The fact that you are a member of a prostitution review board indicates that you are enlightened.....and sleazy. Embrace it and make a play for the girl. In 15 years your wife is going to be fat and bitchy and you will be eye-fucking 18 year old girls but have no hope of getting one. Make the mental leap now and have your first affair. Its not that big a jump, I'm sure, from whatever your participation in the sex industry already is. In 15 years you will be kicking yourself for not having taken a shot at this little philly. Be discrete so you don't fuck up your marriage, but just do it. Or her. lol. Enjoy.
ps. its not a very big age difference, 30 to 18. Anyhow, its only 12 years and she is not likely to be "creeped out" by the thought of doing you. A 50 year old yes. But a 30 year old is not at all outside the age range for a worldly 18 year old. The rest of your life you're going to be wanting to do an 18 year old - here is a tip from a guy 10 years older than you: You will never be closer in age to an 18 year old than you are today. Think about it.
ps. its not a very big age difference, 30 to 18. Anyhow, its only 12 years and she is not likely to be "creeped out" by the thought of doing you. A 50 year old yes. But a 30 year old is not at all outside the age range for a worldly 18 year old. The rest of your life you're going to be wanting to do an 18 year old - here is a tip from a guy 10 years older than you: You will never be closer in age to an 18 year old than you are today. Think about it.
There is your answer. Let sureshot have his way with her. He can tell you all the graphic details. You get to know what it was like, without all the messy divorce stuff.
You should have taken the back scratch... it's just flirting.... now that she knows your married, if she asks you something like that... go for it.... Flirting is fun, especially when it is considered a no no...
18 and 30 is nothing... That is the perfect age, early 30 year old men are still young are more mature, have expereince and have more money than guys in their 20s. Young girls love this.. Im 29, girls that 18-22 love me.. problem is i never want anything to serious and they can get a bit clingy.
but do it.. FLIRTING is FUN!
I'm so damn jealous. Where are all my 18 year old hotties offering back scratches? What am I doing wrong in this life? Chanel says "wrap 'er up and get 'er done"
Ask her if she takes it in the toilet!?
Ask her if she swallows!?
If she answers yes to either question or both...proceed with caution. Otherwise, stop and avoid the little teaser...
ask yourself this...is she doing it to get ahead in the company.. or.. doing it to frame.. you.....what was that movie with demi moore and michael douglas.....were she was the agressor and he got her for sexual harrasment.......
this is what im thinking she is doing........either way i think.. you getting into a problem..... but thinking with my other head................ where do you work again??? if you dont do her.. i will... pm me with info.....hehehehehehe
this is what im thinking she is doing........either way i think.. you getting into a problem..... but thinking with my other head................ where do you work again??? if you dont do her.. i will... pm me with info.....hehehehehehe
It seems you've misunderstood the numbers:
This has nothing to do with any age limit.
That formula was merely the results of a study which asked men what age in a woman would be most ideal for them.
The average of the answers various men gave were numerically represented by that formula.
Which means that men of age 30 gave ages all over the scale, and that surely some of them were well under "18" (sad to admit).
The 30-year-old married guy with the office bitch who just wants to get it on, wouldn't be out of bounds in terms of anything aside from infidelity and workplace socializing.
(to some 30yo guys, that reads much like a green light to go for the young love... )
If you are getting the goods at home and are happy about it, walk away. Fart in the office girls' proximity or something to kill the flirts. Embrace your inner swine. Have fun with it.
If you are barren and miserable at home, call it splits and get some dickie-dunken going, but realize you will probably have to get a new job too.
If you are uncertain, get certain. Mess'in in the workplace is like walking on slippery stones in a lava field. Find another pond to troll. What are the odds you'd just happen to find your perfect mate in the workplace you happen to be in? Don't be a lazy fuck. If you want to cheat, get out and do it right.
If you are barren and miserable at home, call it splits and get some dickie-dunken going, but realize you will probably have to get a new job too.
If you are uncertain, get certain. Mess'in in the workplace is like walking on slippery stones in a lava field. Find another pond to troll. What are the odds you'd just happen to find your perfect mate in the workplace you happen to be in? Don't be a lazy fuck. If you want to cheat, get out and do it right.
I am inclined to agree with LittleAsianGuy, you'll have far less to lose and still get to act out your fantasy, and as a bonus, preserve the professional relationship. If you can't restrain your emotions at work, then consider employee assistance counseling, it will be much easier to deal with this situation with someone you can trust to help you through this stage, assuming that you do want to preserve your current status.
