A fellow pooner just asked, in response to my review of a MMFF 4-some, “Was this your first foursome?”
That got me thinking: how did I start out enjoying group sex? Of course, most details of my sexual history are now lost in the mists of time. But I dimly remember my first non-dyadic experience, in a university dorm.
I ended up with 2 girls on my bed, my then-GF and a former female friend who had moved away and was visiting from out of town. I felt strong ambivalence—and fear of jealousy conflicts—as I was banging my GF while the other girl was watching. My GF graciously invited the visiting girl to join in, but she refused, I guess because she felt insecure.
But next day, when I met the visitor alone, she was surprisingly hot to trot and eager to get it on. This experience certainly confirms my suspicion that, deep down, many women are likely to desire a man far more when they see him have sex with another woman and don't really respect him all that much for staying monogamous, despite any protestations to the contrary.
My real initiation to group sex happened, of course, at swingers clubs where there's usually one or more “open” rooms. Even the “private” rooms are usually occupied by two couples who swap partners. So MMFF foursomes are the norm at swinger's clubs, with various other but less frequent combinations.
What does amaze me, however, is that—despite the prominence of orgy-type porn—there’s practically no group sex reported in this hobby, except for “duos” with 2 ladies or occasional “trios” with 3 ladies. Wonder why that is.
That got me thinking: how did I start out enjoying group sex? Of course, most details of my sexual history are now lost in the mists of time. But I dimly remember my first non-dyadic experience, in a university dorm.
I ended up with 2 girls on my bed, my then-GF and a former female friend who had moved away and was visiting from out of town. I felt strong ambivalence—and fear of jealousy conflicts—as I was banging my GF while the other girl was watching. My GF graciously invited the visiting girl to join in, but she refused, I guess because she felt insecure.
But next day, when I met the visitor alone, she was surprisingly hot to trot and eager to get it on. This experience certainly confirms my suspicion that, deep down, many women are likely to desire a man far more when they see him have sex with another woman and don't really respect him all that much for staying monogamous, despite any protestations to the contrary.
My real initiation to group sex happened, of course, at swingers clubs where there's usually one or more “open” rooms. Even the “private” rooms are usually occupied by two couples who swap partners. So MMFF foursomes are the norm at swinger's clubs, with various other but less frequent combinations.
What does amaze me, however, is that—despite the prominence of orgy-type porn—there’s practically no group sex reported in this hobby, except for “duos” with 2 ladies or occasional “trios” with 3 ladies. Wonder why that is.
