Walked Out!

[newatit]

Walking out if not really easy for the guy though, you went there with good intentions, wanting something, and went to some effort. Getting disappointed is tough. It often means no service for a few more days while you go through another hunt. I gave all this up and just stick it out with a steady provider or two. Much less agony and we get along nicely.
But there can be some class to walking out, like an apology for you not being what was wanted, maybe you have a cat and I am allergic to cat hairs, and maybe you have a dirty place, and I hate messes. Or maybe your dog makes me nervous.

I have walked a few times. No happily.

 

[BORKO]

Walking out if not really easy for the guy though, you went there with good intentions, wanting something, and went to some effort. Getting disappointed is tough. It often means no service for a few more days while you go through another hunt. I gave all this up and just stick it out with a steady provider or two. Much less agony and we get along nicely.
But there can be some class to walking out, like an apology for you not being what was wanted, maybe you have a cat and I am allergic to cat hairs, and maybe you have a dirty place, and I hate messes. Or maybe your dog makes me nervous.

I have walked a few times. No happily.

You could always combine both plans, have a steady provider that is available on fairly short notice that you revisit if something goes wrong with plan A.

Probably better than gutting it through an unfun session with a person that posted pictures from 1994 and has outta control nose hairs. Or walking out if that that makes you uncomfortable.

 

[kauffman]

LOL, that is exactly what I was saying to myself that night!! "You just don't get it." And he was not exactly handsome himself lol. I get a lot of compliments on my curves and how I am a real woman. How I am genuine, and truly a sensual woman with a good soul... those are words I hear from men. When some guy comes in here and looks at me like that and leaves, he won't be welcome back lol. It's a shame that some guys don't have a clue about what true intimacy really is.

I agree. It says a lot about a guy that never gives a woman that is not a perfect barbie doll a chance. Ive never quite understood how attraction could ever be based solely upon looks. I mean I can appreciate a good looking person but to be attracted to someone there has to be that special quality that when I have met persons with such a quality they become more beautiful to be every day. REading through some of the reviews in this forum makes me feel sad and disgusted at the way some choose to approach this area. Seems sometimes clients forget these are women being discussed NOT sex toys. Have some class...just because your sp may have been less than what you were expecting does not mean she should be spoken of like a piece of trash. Someone said somewhere on this forum and I thought it was brilliant... reviews and posting s reveal much more about the reviewer than the client. And I say that partly with my tail between my legs. Be gentle... there is beauty everywhere under what may appear to be a hard shell.

 

[grusse]

There are so many fake pictures on ERS or Vancouver Backpage claiming to be 'REAL'. Has any one of you ever find yourself in a situation where you get to an in-call location and realized the pictures were clearly fake and just walked out! Personally, I have never done it, but there are times I wish I would have.

I've said it so many times.....WALK AWAY!!if the pic is blatant b.s. LEAVE.if we stay, we ENABLE this b.s behavior.

what I do is,I print the ad and tell them this is the lady I want to see...you know, the one you advertise.then, the tap-dance starts...."she not here"
"she come later" etc.by which time I have opened the door.

 

[Cami Parker]

I've actually never understood why ladies use fake pics. I've wondered how they maintain a business as I've always assumed that a gentleman would turn around and walk out right away if the lady that answered the door was not the lady he contacted in the photo. Is that not the case? False advertising is unfair to consumers!

 

[grusse]

I've actually never understood why ladies use fake pics. I've wondered how they maintain a business as I've always assumed that a gentleman would turn around and walk out right away if the lady that answered the door was not the lady he contacted in the photo. Is that not the case? False advertising is unfair to consumers!

I totally agree, Cami.I think what happens is guys think "wtf,I'm here,might as well stay" As I said, this just enables this chicanery.
When I go to an Asian amp for the 1st time I'm 97% sure I will not see the girl in the ad.What I look for is if she's close to the pic,and,if I feel
a welcoming approach from her.

So, in a sense, I'm also enabling, but I'm only staying if I feel something,When the 21 yr old, DD cup magically transforms into a 41 yr old B cup,
I'm gone asap.

 

[toadsub]

I agree. It says a lot about a guy that never gives a woman that is not a perfect barbie doll a chance. Ive never quite understood how attraction could ever be based solely upon looks. I mean I can appreciate a good looking person but to be attracted to someone there has to be that special quality that when I have met persons with such a quality they become more beautiful to be every day. REading through some of the reviews in this forum makes me feel sad and disgusted at the way some choose to approach this area. Seems sometimes clients forget these are women being discussed NOT sex toys. Have some class...just because your sp may have been less than what you were expecting does not mean she should be spoken of like a piece of trash. Someone said somewhere on this forum and I thought it was brilliant... reviews and posting s reveal much more about the reviewer than the client. And I say that partly with my tail between my legs. Be gentle... there is beauty everywhere under what may appear to be a hard shell.

Very well said.