Q: why would a massage with a "hot guy" mean any more to her than if you went out of your way to give her a more personal massage...with scented oils, incense, clean/crisp towels and candle light?
Toss in dinner and some wine, and isn't that a little closer to the supposed point of valentines day?
Isn't sending her to a massage run by a "hot" guy kind of like saying "I want other men to touch you"? Just a thought...