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naughtygirl

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Jun 8, 2003
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I am really sorry for all the messages I have not been able to return over the last week. I've been struggling if I should share my story. I was assaulted, and when I tried to get to a phone to get the police involved I was choked. I've been lying low letting the bruises heal, and the mind heal. It takes a real big man to knock around someone my size, and then to have the nerve to say don't cry foul when you asked for it. Funny how I don't remember asking for a nice swollen shiny black eye. :( I am dissappointed with the human race right now.

Once again I am sorry for unreturned messages, I will be returning them within acouple days.
 

Marvin

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Oct 28, 2002
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Get well soon Meg ... he is truly the coward here.
 

naughtygirl

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Jun 8, 2003
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I will be fine. Thank you for all the kind words and support. Thankfully, I have a few really good friends by my side, and the knowledge that I am stronger than I may feel. People are like cats, no matter what life throws, or how we fall, we always seem to somehow land back on our feet.
 

Marvin

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But people don't have nine lives ... always be careful.
 

Escort

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Meg I am sorry to hear you have been hurt. I hope the police deals with this violent person appropriately. Was he a client? If so maybe you could give the description and details so others may have a chance of avoiding him. In the meantime take some Arnica Montana for the bruising. Heal well girl.
 

naughtygirl

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Jun 8, 2003
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This was not a pooning related incident. Just an asshole in the "normal" world :( I should have clarified that in my first post. Dufferin you are very right trust and more was violated.
 

Herenthere

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May 17, 2004
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Best wishes Meg that you fully heal emotionally and physically. Good to hear you have some close friends you can rely on for support.
 

Cock Throppled

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Oct 1, 2003
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Meg - sorry to hear of this. Don't bother with the police unless you just want a file opened on this guy. Even if it was an attack there isn't much they can or will do. If he argues it was rough, consensual sex that got out of hand even less would be done. But I'm sure you have friends - here and elsewhere who could "talk" to the creep and explain to him the meaning of pain.
 

naughtygirl

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Jun 8, 2003
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It was a physical assault not a sexual assault. Doesn't really seem worth the time or effort to get the authorities involved, would be a lot of hassle for what would end up being a slap on the wrist. Just taking some me time. Thanks all for listening :)
 

Lilith

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I think you should absolutely start a file on him. It may deter him from hurting women again or result in a more severe sentence if he tries it again with another woman. Not to menion that the cops will take the next woman more seriously if there is already an assault charge filed against him. You never know, he may already have a file running and this could be the one that puts him away. NEVER let these guys think they can get away with it.
 

WC Drifter

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Really sorry to hear about what has happened to you Meg...All I can really do is wish you all the best and let you know that not all people are like that in the real world.

Take your time and heal your self.
 

joeboxer

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Speedy recovery.

meaghan
It was a physical assault not a sexual assault. Doesn't really seem worth the time or effort to get the authorities involved, would be a lot of hassle for what would end up being a slap on the wrist.
This is horrible. Very sad. Speedy recovery to you.
 

goldenpig

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I agree 100% with Lilith. I know it will be difficult for you and you might be right that he only gets a slap on the wrist, but if nobody ever makes a complaint against this guy, who knows how many women he will assault without being punished? The guy is scum and does not deserve to get away with it. It takes a very strong person to stand up and say something, but I hope you find the strength to do just that.
 

massageseeker

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I am sorry to hear that Meg .. best wishes in your downtime and a speedy recovery. I know its hard to recover physically and mentally from something like this but all your freinds at perb will be thinking of you ..take your time and rest ..
 

gymguy

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Sep 23, 2002
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Meg, I was brought up to believe that anyone striking a woman is the lowest form of life. You should absolutely report this to the police. How else is he going to be stopped? At least it will go on his record.
I hope you are better soon. We all wish you the best.
You could always carry "bear" spray since I believe pepper spray is illegal.
 

CJ Tylers

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WTF? Are the police involved now? I'm sorry, brutality is not acceptable in this society... no matter what some dumb f#uck might think!

:|
 

carefulone

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Meg:

My thoughts are with you. Get well soon.

And if you can, initiate a police file. Even if the response is just a slap on the wrist, it means a criminal record, which at the very least usually means harsher treatment the next time around. In addition, if he has treated you this way, there is a good chance this isn't the first time for him and:
1) the police will be more likely to push harder on this; and
2) it is more likely that be sentenced harshly.
There is also the possibility that he is currently on parole, on bail, or on a suspended sentence, and a new assault complaint will cause that to be revoked.
All the best.
 
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Hardatwork

Meaghan,

While we have never met, I too would like to offer my get well wishes. Even though I would love to see you get even with this A-hole, don't let us pressure you into going to the police if you aren't comfortable going. You seem like an intelligent person and since you know the situation I support whatever your decision might be.

Feel free to vent with a PM!

:)
 
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