Think I'm done with this hobby!

[07lightning]

Well after attempting to contact providers for the last couple of years in this hobby I think I finally have to throw in the towel!! I have had some great times with some and some not so great with others!

Great times:
Tall Jasmine - very busy
Mona Bardot - very busy
Miss Diana - very busy
Electra - retired
Yuki- getting busy
Stacey King - retired
Sienna - good, not a fan of the oooing and the obvious smoking

Bad:
Hailey- gross apartment, not attractive, obvious smoker, smelled bad
Angel - very first sp I saw, turned from a massage to fs and was terrible!!!
Bella - saw for massage and fs, only does massage now, starfish and rushed!

There are far more that are all gone now or I cannot remember the name.... But the main reason now is because I am tired of trying to get a hold of these providers and getting "hey" back and nothing further despite multiple messages!!!! Sooooooo frustrating!! I am a very nice guy to all of these women as they deserve to be respected as a human, I am also generous, both in bed and after! Just extremely frustrating to try to book with someone and either never hearing back or one word messages and nothing after that! I know I'm just getting whiny, but don't others feel like it is harder to see a decent provider these days? And the good ones are always super busy(fair enough) but they are all generally on the more expensive side, I know you pay for what you get but sometimes it's just not possible to spend $300 or more dollars even at $250 it can be a little on the high side. That's pretty much my rant for the day.

 

[luvsdaty]

This hobby isn't for everyone. Takes a ton of patience and thick skin. Its just a job to these ladies.All of whom have lives with so's ,school, straight jobs, ad to that the shear volume of texts and enquiries that they get, be they time wasters, tire kickers and guys that actually want to book
Well it's hard to imagine any woman plastering a smile on her face and letting me jam my tongue into orifices that are probably better left unjammed. Sorry your experience in the hobby wasn't stellar but I guess we all can't have positive experiences in this hobby.

 

[take8easy]

By the number of girls you have mentioned, it sounds like you have been around for a while and in my opinion, by now you would understand how it works in this hobby.

Based on my 2 + years of experience I can tell you: Girls come and go. Girls are busy with work. Girls, like us, have lives too. Girls are allowed to have bad days. Some girls just are not as professional and last but not the least, some girls are just not for you.

So if you can't deal with all that, may be you should try bowling or .... darts.

 

[Leloup]

I'm an Indy guy, and a part timer. Once I've found a couple SPs that I like, I rarely stray. Repeat business is good for them, and I develop a greater level of comfort, allowing me to relax and enjoy the session more. I book in advance. Sometimes well in advance but it seems to work out for the most part. Trying to fit in something last minute rarely seems to work in my experience.

If booking is your problem, have you tried an agency? I've never gone, but my understanding is that booking hassles are less when dealing with an agency, and SVIPs was advertising in the Advertisers section regarding loyalty discounts, so they're anxious to keep your business.

 

[ddcanz]

If the "hobby" is bringing you down then probably best to back away for awhile.
I see some of the more common advice is towards establishing relationships with a select few. While always good to build a comfortable rapport leading to long term associations, some of us- myself included- are in this more for variety. I have a few go-to girls that are reliable and trustworthy and who always come through in a pinch, but typically I like to keep it fresh and explore new territory. Of course sometimes this leads to less than satisfying experiences. I also go through droughts where I won't see anyone for several months- I find this helps keep things in perspective.

 

[Onlyayogurt]

If the "hobby" is bringing you down then probably best to back away for awhile.
I see some of the more common advice is towards establishing relationships with a select few. While always good to build a comfortable rapport leading to long term associations, some of us- myself included- are in this more for variety. I have a few go-to girls that are reliable and trustworthy and who always come through in a pinch, but typically I like to keep it fresh and explore new territory. Of course sometimes this leads to less than satisfying experiences. I also go through droughts where I won't see anyone for several months- I find this helps keep things in perspective.

Agree with ddcanz 100% I too am in for the variety.
Also, I feel your pain lightening. In general, whenever an industry is under-served it is frustrating. When there are very few providers in any industry supplying a descent product/service, the prices go up - simple economics.
In some ways, Victoria seems like a larger city, but I am reminded all to often by the lack of variety of quality services (in this and other industries) that this is a pretty small and isolated market resulting in lack of competition, sub par service and high prices.
Lucky for me I do a fair bit of travel for work, so I am able to experience the variety I crave. Always hit and miss though.
On a side note, I am off to SK next month where they have massage providers that will give a very good massage with h/e and provide legit insurance receipts. I love it when my extended health plan pays for my hobby - one of the only things I like about my semi annual trip to SK

 

[07lightning]

Hahaha!! Awesome getting receipts for a run and tug!! Also thanks to all you guys for at least not flaming me for whining!!! I was quite annoyed last night with the lack of response from some women! I even got some replies today from messages sent early yesterday saying "yes, I'm available after 4" when the message was sent yesterday at like 3:30..... Annoying for sure! I also got a PM on here for a very lovely and eloquent Katerina Kova, she was very sweet in her response and offered to take care of my needs, although not full service, I'm pretty tempted by her response. I have not completely given up yet though, I will continue to try the ladies I know to be reputable and see where it goes. Thank you all and thank you Katerina Kova for the kind words of encouragement!!

 

[Booblover123]

I think everyone goes thru dry spells in this hobby,its tough when you get a good regular and they retire or move on.I guess it is best to have about 5 go to girls in your stable to keep things flowing.There does seem to be a lot of top girls leaving the business lately but i guess that is the nature of the beast.

 

[07lightning]

Well after attempting to contact providers for the last couple of years in this hobby I think I finally have to throw in the towel!! I have had some great times with some and some not so great with others!

Great times:
Tall Jasmine - very busy, but fantastic!!
Mona Bardot - very busy, and usually only daytime but is amazing and sexy!
Miss Diana - very busy, extremely sexy, great service but very limited availability
Electra - retired
Yuki- getting busy, can be hard to understand but still very very good!!!
Stacey King - retired, one of my favourites of all time!!! Super sexy down to earth and absolutely amazing service!!
Sienna - good, not a fan of the oooing and the obvious smoking, but very sexy
Chantelle Stylez- cannot say enough good things about this incredibly sexy woman, not full service but it might as well be with how you feel when you're done!!!

Good but not great:

Sophia- in reality I had a great time with her the few times I've booked, but..... I've tried to book over the last little while and while I know she's busy, I have been now told that I am not serious about booking and that if I want to book I need to be "more flexible" and "serious" although I've always been serious and respectful in my attempts to book. It has just turned out on more than one occasion that the times she was available would not work for me or the times I was available would not work for her, but apparently that makes me not serious...
Madison- "Come relax" - decent rub, good looking girl, but bad at getting back to people

Bad:
Hailey- gross apartment, not attractive, obvious smoker, smelled bad
Angel - very first sp I saw, turned from a massage to fs and was terrible!!!
Bella - saw for massage and fs, only does massage now, starfish and rushed!
Jasmine -2409 - one of the most annoying people to try to deal with, will not respond for hours and sometimes days, then gets you hooked like you'll be able to book but then radio silence.....

There are far more that are all gone now or I cannot remember the name.... But the main reason now is because I am tired of trying to get a hold of these providers and getting "hey" back and nothing further despite multiple messages!!!! Sooooooo frustrating!! I am a very nice guy to all of these women as they deserve to be respected as a human, I am also generous, both in bed and after! Just extremely frustrating to try to book with someone and either never hearing back or one word messages and nothing after that! I know I'm just getting whiny, but don't others feel like it is harder to see a decent provider these days? And the good ones are always super busy(fair enough) but they are all generally on the more expensive side, I know you pay for what you get but sometimes it's just not possible to spend $300 or more dollars even at $250 it can be a little on the high side. That's pretty much my rant for the day.

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