The Time Draws Nigh...
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I'll be around in blue, maybe forever! Thanks for caring!We'll miss you Alex!You are the voice of reason on this board!
Leaving a legacy...
So I've decided to leave some comments on my strategies for life as a successful SP. Of course 'successful' means different things to different people but from my perspective, here's some of what I've done to accomplish what I have. Feel free to plagiarize, ladies!
1. Always place ads that will attract the person that's looking for someone just like you. Think about who you'd like to see and then write to him.
2. Never use the following words and phrases with your visitors: session, appointment, client, I have another guy booked right before/after you
3. Always be nice on the phone. I have found that most guys are nice on the phone. They might be shy or nervous or wary or ESL. But my being short or curt with them doesn't help me get what I want. If you start out nice and someone comes across as a jerk, ba-bye. But why be short with everyone that calls, in order to protect yourself from the bad ones. There are very few bad ones (imho).
4. Always be there for your appointments; always be there at the stated date and time. Develop an iron-clad system for booking your appointments and keeping track of everything. When you're out with the girls and must take your phone along, don't agree to be home by a certain hour, unless you're 100% sure that you're willing to do that. If you're having lots of fun and drinking, just give in to the fun. Don't make appointments and then text and ask for just a few more minutes, and then a few more minutes, which is a recipe for disaster on many levels. If you make an appointment and something else comes along, respectfully get back to the visitor in ample time to see if he can be flexible. Always give his schedule precedence, whenever you can. It's only fair. If he agrees to change the time, BE THERE!
5. Treat visitors with the utmost respect. Even though guys have a reputation for being horny dogs, don't treat everyone like that. Expect the best, and life will often live up to your expectations.
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So I've decided to leave some comments on my strategies for life as a successful SP. Of course 'successful' means different things to different people but from my perspective, here's some of what I've done to accomplish what I have. Feel free to plagiarize, ladies!
1. Always place ads that will attract the person that's looking for someone just like you. Think about who you'd like to see and then write to him.
2. Never use the following words and phrases with your visitors: session, appointment, client, I have another guy booked right before/after you
3. Always be nice on the phone. I have found that most guys are nice on the phone. They might be shy or nervous or wary or ESL. But my being short or curt with them doesn't help me get what I want. If you start out nice and someone comes across as a jerk, ba-bye. But why be short with everyone that calls, in order to protect yourself from the bad ones. There are very few bad ones (imho).
4. Always be there for your appointments; always be there at the stated date and time. Develop an iron-clad system for booking your appointments and keeping track of everything. When you're out with the girls and must take your phone along, don't agree to be home by a certain hour, unless you're 100% sure that you're willing to do that. If you're having lots of fun and drinking, just give in to the fun. Don't make appointments and then text and ask for just a few more minutes, and then a few more minutes, which is a recipe for disaster on many levels. If you make an appointment and something else comes along, respectfully get back to the visitor in ample time to see if he can be flexible. Always give his schedule precedence, whenever you can. It's only fair. If he agrees to change the time, BE THERE!
5. Treat visitors with the utmost respect. Even though guys have a reputation for being horny dogs, don't treat everyone like that. Expect the best, and life will often live up to your expectations.
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6. Always be at your best.
Your visitor is looking forward to seeing you. He chose you above all others, even if just for today. Try not to let a bad day, a bad mood, or any stressful incident in your personal life take away from his experience. If this requires acting classes, so be it. You chose a career as a fantasy girl, now excel at it!
7. Keep your place impeccable.
Always present as perfect an environment as you can. Empty all garbage containers, even the one under the sink. He may go there to throw out his gum and it's not sexy to look at a bunch of your old chicken bones from last night's dinner. Never have any condom wrappers or condoms in the bathroom trash. Have a spotless shower and fresh towels for him. Vacuum, dust, put everything away that's not sexy. If you have a pet, make sure your pet is contained, unless the purpose is for your security. Little pets should be crated during the visit. If you have a pet, always mention this before you take a booking, in case of allergies.
9) Smile
If you don't have a natural, easy smile, practice. Smiling comes through, even on the phone.
10) Play nice
Even when someone touches you in a way that you're not thrilled about (nipple tweaking, anyone) respond in a nice manner. Your visitor may not have the best people or relationship skills (sometimes that's why they're seeing you) and you have to give them a break. This is not the case for any gross injustice, just the little things.
11) Be patient
Anyone who's been following me for any length of time knows that I am patience personified. Even though that doesn't work for everyone, practice your patience skills nonetheless. Breathe, listen, be kind, laugh easily, help your visitor feel comfortable.
Your visitor is looking forward to seeing you. He chose you above all others, even if just for today. Try not to let a bad day, a bad mood, or any stressful incident in your personal life take away from his experience. If this requires acting classes, so be it. You chose a career as a fantasy girl, now excel at it!
7. Keep your place impeccable.
Always present as perfect an environment as you can. Empty all garbage containers, even the one under the sink. He may go there to throw out his gum and it's not sexy to look at a bunch of your old chicken bones from last night's dinner. Never have any condom wrappers or condoms in the bathroom trash. Have a spotless shower and fresh towels for him. Vacuum, dust, put everything away that's not sexy. If you have a pet, make sure your pet is contained, unless the purpose is for your security. Little pets should be crated during the visit. If you have a pet, always mention this before you take a booking, in case of allergies.
9) Smile
If you don't have a natural, easy smile, practice. Smiling comes through, even on the phone.
10) Play nice
Even when someone touches you in a way that you're not thrilled about (nipple tweaking, anyone) respond in a nice manner. Your visitor may not have the best people or relationship skills (sometimes that's why they're seeing you) and you have to give them a break. This is not the case for any gross injustice, just the little things.
11) Be patient
Anyone who's been following me for any length of time knows that I am patience personified. Even though that doesn't work for everyone, practice your patience skills nonetheless. Breathe, listen, be kind, laugh easily, help your visitor feel comfortable.
