the hypocrisy of escorts and dating sites

[vancity_cowboy]

Just because you work in a steak house doesn't mean you can't be a vegetarian .

love your analogy... on an escort review board!!! ound:

 

[BallzDeep]

Lets try this in scenarios that you might be able to grasp.

Scenario 1:

You are a pooner in your hobbying life. In your business life, you call an accountant to arrange to prepare your taxes. The accountant asks you if you want to fuck right now. Reasonable expectation because you are a pooner?

Scenario 2:

You are a pooner in your hobbying life. You have a water leak at home and call a plumber. The plumber asks you if you want to fuck right now. Reasonable expectation because you are a pooner?

Scenario 3:

You are a pooner in your hobbying life. You feel the urge to have a more balanced social life, get out meet new people, hopefully find someone that you have a deep personal connection with. You've already tapped out the links from your existing circle of friends with no luck. You join a dating site. 90% of the responses to your profile are cut & paste boilerplate messages, most not even bothering to put your name in them, asking you if you want to fuck right now. Reasonable expectation because you are a pooner?

Do any of these scenarios indicate that the pooner is achieving his goal quickly and successfully? Is the pooner more likely to expend less effort in his task at hand if there was some way to filter out the folks that just want to fuck with him? Would he be a hypocrite to do so?

all this indicates to me is you didnt grasp a single iota of what i was getting at. please try again.

 

[jw90]

By checking the box that says you are not looking for intimate encounters, you are not saying you are against intimate encounters, you are just saying that's not what you're looking for on that site. You're not making any kind of statement about yourself by checking that, you're just saying you aren't looking for that.

 

[vanessa kelly]

By checking the box that says you are not looking for intimate encounters, you are not saying you are against intimate encounters, you are just saying that's not what you're looking for on that site. You're not making any kind of statement about yourself by checking that, you're just saying you aren't looking for that.

I've said this a million times and I'll keep repeating it. Escort are people with heart and souls...Period!! They are no different then anyone else on here, or in general when it comes to the bare wire.

Outside this board or industry, they can choose whatever they choose to do and live the way they want to live....like any one of us .

If they are on dating sites .......kudos to them :clap2:. Just another set of their own rules they'll go by :thumb:,
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You know Ballzdeep when I first started as a companion the first few years I was in a relationship and when my day was done and I had someone to hold me at night, it recharged my batteries and allowed me to be the best I can be, every human being needs to feel love. I am now single and and have thought about dating however I will not go into a relationship without disclosing what I do as I do not think it right and your attitude is part of the reason.

Those are dating sites not pooner boards we are all human and I am sick of people with your attitude.

Tired of the stereotyping

Dr.Vanessa Kelly

 

[BallzDeep]

Oh I understood every little nuance of what you wrote. It is wrong, but I did grasp what you wrote.

if you had we wouldnt still be going around in circles

 

[BallzDeep]

You know Ballzdeep when I first started as a companion the first few years I was in a relationship and when my day was done and I had someone to hold me at night, it recharged my batteries and allowed me to be the best I can be, every human being needs to feel love. I am now single and and have thought about dating however I will not go into a relationship without disclosing what I do as I do not think it right and your attitude is part of the reason.

Those are dating sites not pooner boards we are all human and I am sick of people with your attitude.

Tired of the stereotyping

Dr.Vanessa Kelly

what do you mean my attitude? why is everyone taking from this something that isnt there ie) that im against escorts having personal lives and wanting love and relationships. nowhere anywhere have i stated inasmuch.
and im just sick of people dancing around the issue and not calling a spade a spade.

 

[westcoast555]

this is just a quick rant i suppose. im sure ill get a few face palms and dont care really.

let me preface with :

1) im all for escorts doing their thing (work)
2) im all for escorts wanting to find love and long lasting relationships (dating)

but... what i cant fathom is how escorts on dating sites all say "must not be looking for intimate encounters" or some such, when any chump with enough change in his pockets can sleep with you, for a price.

im not interested in getting involved in their personal lives dont care honestly, and i wouldnt msg one saying "hey i know you" obviously discretion goes both ways, but how can a hooker say no to intimate encounters when thats the very thing they do for work? stumps me. and bogus really. but i guess everyone lies...

Not sure why you find this contradictory or dishonest? Maybe they already have all the brief, no-strings, emotionless sex they could ever want and more as part of their work and they are looking for a deeper connection?

I'm not going to give you a hard time, this thread seems tapped out but I think basically you're taking a very one-dimensional view of the women who do this work and not realizing they have an aspect to their personality that is totally removed from sport-fucking or quick anonymous sex.

There's a few analogies on here already.. consider this one. Remember these ladies are providing a service. Imagine a guy who works as a doorman at a nightclub... is he a hypocrite because he goes out on his day off and wants to enjoy a beer in a tavern and NOT have to break up a barfight?

 

[Mod-2]

I think this discussion is done. The ladies are allowed to be human despite what many seem to think. Enough is enough.