taking the plunge, need reccomendations

[Sunset]

Some parting words to everyone

Initially it seems easy to typecast people or put them in a category than it does to really know them in their own right. Conversely, when we search for and celebrate the unique qualities in others, not only do we feel accepting of them, but we ourselves are enriched from the experience.

Julia and Shari did not appreciate it when Tickletrunk categorized them with bad attitudes based on their posts without knowing them. On the other hand, I’m sure Tickletrunk hasn’t enjoyed having his personality scrutinized without knowing him.

Time will tell if Tickletrunk is honest about wanting to enjoy an hour or two with a lovely lady who has an excellent attitude. Personally, I'm looking forward to a Tickletrunk Review, it should be a pleasure to read.

 

[tom25]

Initially it seems easy to typecast people or put them in a category than it does to really know them in their own right. Conversely, when we search for and celebrate the unique qualities in others, not only do we feel accepting of them, but we ourselves are enriched from the experience.

Julia and Shari did not appreciate it when Tickletrunk categorized them with bad attitudes based on their posts without knowing them. On the other hand, I’m sure Tickletrunk hasn’t enjoyed having his personality scrutinized without knowing him.

Time will tell if Tickletrunk is honest about wanting to enjoy an hour or two with a lovely lady who has an excellent attitude. Personally, I'm looking forward to a Tickletrunk Review, it should be a pleasure to read.

Well put Sunset ... I love your posts ... They are so balanced and harmonious. I feel calmer just reading them (or maybe its the coffee wearing off) I'm beginning to think you've got to be a buddist!!!

Tom

 

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You ain’t looking for love in all the wrong places but you‘re looking for a sweetie pie “girl next door with an excellent attitude” and nothing to weird.

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“Any Pooner looking for all that kind of romance from an appointment has got to be jaded in himself. Jaded by regular dating and women and then looking for a good sucker.“

I don't quite understand the contradiction here. I don't think there is a definite connection or an equivalence between "enjoying the company of a sweet next door-type girl with an excellent attitude" and "searching for love/romance."

Let’s open you up a little bit and see what makes ya tick. You’ve not ever pooned in your life, you know what I mean, ya ain’t ever paid for any sexual acts or favors (e.g., strip clubs, massage parlors or escorts). So, why all in sudden do ya want to poon now? Okay, we got it; you have a problem in regular dating and now you’re looking for a “good sucker.”

Though I have not a clue as to what a good sucker is, the conclusion here is not necessarily true, although it's possible that it might be. I, too, had spent a long time reading and browsing before I decided to actually participate in the service. The sole impetus that led to my first appointment was to simply the desire to experience something new and hopefully fun.

... Think about it. You Trickletrunk with your rude and insulting words along with your highly contradictory statements have made it hard to believe that you are honest.

I have not read anything rude or insulting, but that may be because some of the posts had been deleted.

At any rate, IMHO some may be taking too seriously and personally what was probably meant to be an individual observation. Whether or not the observation in question is valid is a different question. If I were the target of the observation, I could care less what the observation said about me. If it were something good, I'd be glad I made your day. If it were not, oh well that'd be too bad; I wouldn't feel damaged in any way. Maybe it's just I, but why expend precious time & energy getting all defensive over something, or anything at all, that some unknown individual proclaims, even more so, in the cyberspace? But, of course, everyone of us is entitled to do whatever ey wishes and chooses