Stupid Parents

[LonelyGhost]

so to add to the latest list of idiotic things that happen
when stupid people have kids, the stupid kids are now
moving up from simple vandalism and the torture of small
animals to setting fires.

i don't give a flying fuck about the idiotic 'rights'
of people these days if their satanic offspring are
pulling shit like this, then at the least the idiotic
parents should be charged.

ironically, as much as i hate the little fuckers,
i also feel sorry for them ... they look defeated
most of the time and are not even near their teens
yet. it is the parents fault (god are THEY STUPID!)
but the whole PC crap doesn't allow anyone to do
anything ...

 

[gravitas]

Children are a product of their environment and a huge part of that environment are their parents. When someone breaks the law I appreciate that there needs to be a difference between the way you deal with someone who's 12 vs. 22 but fact remains they're both still criminals. If the 12 year old breaks the law its as much their fault as it is their parents and both need to be punished. If that means mommy and daddy need to pay a fine, do community service work, spend time behind bars so be it.

We've become a society of entitlements and everyone believes they can have what ever they want. No regard to how practical, realistic, affordable, manageable, etc. it may or may not be just gimme gimme gimme. On the list of entitlements that piss me off kids are close to the top. Just because mother nature gave you a cum stick or a womb doesn't mean you should start popping out kids like a pez dispenser spits out candy.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

But, but, but... they're so cute when they're born... (Yeah, right!)

Our governments share a great deal of responsibility in all this. When Statistics Canada tells them that the population growth is stagnant, or there are more people dying than being born, they valiantly step up to the plate (as they do in Quebec - $8,000 at birth + $7,000 in additional incentives) and start doling out wads of cash to would be mothers. And then, who do you think starts procreating en masse? Of course, the ones who can afford it the least - the same ones whose kids are raised on the streets...

So do the Moms spend all that money improving their childrens' lives? Sure they do; kids deserve big screen TVs and backyard pools too...

 

[LonelyGhost]

So do the Moms spend all that money improving their childrens' lives? Sure they do; kids deserve big screen TVs and backyard pools too...

i'd be more understanding if these kids were being raised by a single mom,
but there are two ineffective parents at home fucking these kids up!

 

[LonelyGhost]

Just because mother nature gave you a cum stick or a womb doesn't mean you should start popping out kids like a pez dispenser spits out candy.

no kidding! if these low-lifes had to pass even a simple IQ test they
would fail even the part about sharpening a pencil!

 

[gravitas]

as they do in Quebec

Two words.....FUCK QUEBEC.....those poutine eating fuckers already suck up more then their fair share of federal transfer payments and the last thing we should be doing is giving them more money to encourage breeding

And then, who do you think starts procreating en masse? Of course, the ones who can afford it the least

fuck me, I've never understood that......you're right it is the ones who can least afford it are the ones who just keep on cranking out the kids through the vaginal assembly line.....you take a drive through forest lawn (one of Calgary's shittier neighborhoods) and its a collection of stirrup pant wearing, chain smoking, white trash fuckers with a whole litter of dirty little snot nosed kids

But, but, but... they're so cute when they're born... (Yeah, right!)

I know you were sarcastic but they're are too many people who believe that statement. And they're not cute when they're born. They're annoying little wrinkled packages that just shit and piss.

 

[ladyluck]

My 2 cents

I have enjoyed reading this thread as my son nearly died because of a couple of juvenile boys. We lived in the core as they call it here in the Peg and he was a minority in his school. These two boys tied a skipping rope around his neck and left him tethered to the school door, (after school hours but they are still responsible for my son till he leaves the school yard). I contacted the police the school even a lawyer, the police said they couldn't do nothing because the boys were only 11, just one more year to go and then charges could have been laid. I wanted the parents to take some responsibility for the actions of the boys.
In the end I contacted the media, pulled my boy out of that school and secretly scolded the parents in my head. I would have even appreciated a phone call apologizing for their kids behaviour. These two deliquents got a 5 day suspension, I told the principal,oh lovely you gave them a holiday,they should have been expelled. The parents were probably more mad having to have the kids home all week. I am a single mom and do try to instill good morals into my 2 boys and think and have been told I got great kids.
I think parents should be completely responsible for the wrong doings their kids do, like what was said pay a fine, community services, even a night in jail might open there eyes up and learn that there are rules, and please instill them into your children.
Oh gotta love the Forest Lawn area in Calgary,,lol,, That couldn't have been more true. Didn't stirrups go out of style in the 80's along with spandex and big hair? But popping out 10 kids and living off the government will that ever go out of style??
Holly

 

[Avery]

Two words.....FUCK QUEBEC.....those poutine eating fuckers already suck up more then their fair share of federal transfer payments and the last thing we should be doing is giving them more money to encourage breeding

Actually, it's a provincial government program, and it's not working very well. Of the 13 provinces and territories, Quebec ranks 9th in terms of birth rate.

http://www40.statcan.ca/cgi-bin/get...e=fina&filename=demo04b.htm&sortact=2&sortf=6

Strangely enough, with a couple of exceptions, the birth rate rises the farther west you go.

 

[rickoshadows]

Children are a product of their environment and a huge part of that environment are their parents. When someone breaks the law I appreciate that there needs to be a difference between the way you deal with someone who's 12 vs. 22 but fact remains they're both still criminals. If the 12 year old breaks the law its as much their fault as it is their parents and both need to be punished. If that means mommy and daddy need to pay a fine, do community service work, spend time behind bars so be it.

Parents are a part of the enviroment, but not all. My family is a case in point. 2 of 3 brothers turned out well, were never in trouble with the police a day in their lives. Today, both have families with well adjusted children and earning above average incomes. The 3rd brother was a juvenile delinquent, was in and out of jail for many years, including an escape. Spent time on welfare etc. Fortunately, he has turned his life around and is married with a family and doing well.

If you're advocating that parents pay for trouble caused by their offspring, do you also advocate a reward for good offspring? Nah, of course not, this is gravitas we're talking about. Sometimes you're so full of shit, I can't help but reach for a shovel. Perhaps to swing at your melon with.

 

[shedevil]

Parents are a part of the enviroment, but not all. My family is a case in point. 2 of 3 brothers turned out well, were never in trouble with the police a day in their lives.

I would have to agree, I am from a bad home, bad parents etc.

I am not ill-mannered, rude or a bad person. I do believe that children are a product of their environment, and that a good part of behaviour is learned.


On the other hand, I should be a part of about 60 different statistics. By the statistical standard, I am supposed to be in jail, an alcoholic hard drug abuser with a propensity for violent behavior and a liar. Well, I am not.

We all have choices. I made mine. Hopefully as children grow, they can differentiate between the two and do the right thing.


SD

 

[Lurker 123]

Children are a product of their environment and a huge part of that environment are their parents. When someone breaks the law I appreciate that there needs to be a difference between the way you deal with someone who's 12 vs. 22 but fact remains they're both still criminals. If the 12 year old breaks the law its as much their fault as it is their parents and both need to be punished. If that means mommy and daddy need to pay a fine, do community service work, spend time behind bars so be it.

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Punishing the parents are difficult. However the whole family should have counselling sessions until both the parents and kids understand what's wrong with the picture!

Parents have to understand why their kids have problems,primarily the communication between kids and parents have broken down. They never have taken the responsibilities to look after the kids.Those kids are in desparate needs of attention. The only way to gain their parents attention is to break the law. The police , the principals ,the teachers or the social workers call home.Now the parents have to deal with the problems or at least they are forced to find out what their kids are doing. In a way the kids have won the battle of gaining attention!

As I said before if both sides understand what is happening in the family and are willing to do something about it.Then perhaps the consellors might let them off the hook temporary for observation. Or if both sides still keep fighting off, then they will have counselling everyday until they understanding their responsibilities. It is unfortunately parents cannot divorce kids.There is no way out!

LLG may be you should also add to the title"Stupid and selfish parents!"

 

[gravitas]

do you also advocate a reward for good offspring?

Why reward someone for doing the right thing? Do the cops give you a cheque if you follow the speed limit, CRA if you don't lie on your taxes, etc.....of course not. Your attitude is exactly what I mean about entitlement. Sure its good your brother for getting off welfare and pulling his shit together, that’s what adults do! He or your parents shouldn’t get a cookie just because he's no longer a useless fuck up.

Parents are a part of the enviroment, but not all

Did I say "all" you illiterate? No, of course they're not all of what goes into a child's development but they should be the most significant. For a parent not to take on that role is shameful and without excuse, if you have the ability to have sex you should have the ability to accept the consequences and responsibility.

I can't help but reach for a shovel. Perhaps to swing at your melon with.

Ya ya ya.....you're such a big man.....go fuck yourself before you get hurt.

 

[Lurker 123]

Did I say "all" you illiterate? No, of course they're not all of what goes into a child's development but they should be the most significant. For a parent not to take on that role is shameful and without excuse, if you have the ability to have sex you should have the ability to accept the consequences and responsibility.

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I totally agree!
The responsibilities of parents are not just confined to feed the kids but to bring them up,to nurture them, to educate them and to guide them to be a responsible citizens in the future! Some parents no matter poor or wealthy think that money can buy love or let the society look after their kids are damn wrong! That is absolutely irresponsible!

 

[gravitas]

Punishing the parents are difficult. However the whole family should have counselling sessions until both the parents and kids understand what's wrong with the picture!

Counseling is fine provided it helps the family to understand why they’re having problems and how they can fix them. If its nothing but a feel good hug fest it’s a waste of time and money.

They never have taken the responsibilities to look after the kids.

Exactly! Why do we disperse jail time or fines when people break the law? To hold them accountable. If a parent can’t control their kids and they break the law it calls out for a change in the status quo.

Those kids are in desparate needs of attention. The only way to gain their parents attention is to break the law.

OK, I’ll buy that. Your comments supports my opinion in that it’s the parent’s behavior as much as the child’s who needs to be corrected.

As I said before if both sides understand what is happening in the family and are willing to do something about it.

The key word is “willing”.

LLG may be you should also add to the title"Stupid and selfish parents!"

Absolutely its an issue of the parents being selfish, which goes back to the fundamental idea of responsibility.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

..you take a drive through forest lawn (one of Calgary's shittier neighborhoods) and its a collection of stirrup pant wearing, chain smoking, white trash fuckers..

He's right ya know. And we won't get started on what their wives wear!!!

 

[kafka555]

fuck me, I've never understood that......you're right it is the ones who can least afford it are the ones who just keep on cranking out the kids through the vaginal assembly line.....you take a drive through forest lawn (one of Calgary's shittier neighborhoods) and its a collection of stirrup pant wearing, chain smoking, white trash fuckers with a whole litter of dirty little snot nosed kids

In greater Vancouver, you see the most of that in Surrey's Whalley neighbourhood. Once saw a couple of chain-smoking welfare mom types pushing their strollers, blocking the sidewalk, and going on about how they finally got support payments, and all the good things they were going to do for their kids. I wanted to yell at them "You wanna do something good for your kids? Stop flicking your cigarette ash on their heads."

 

[gravitas]

And we won't get started on what their wives wear!!!

LOL.....that was funny

Once saw a couple of chain-smoking welfare mom types pushing their strollers

I stumbled across this pic the other day and it speaks volumes how fucking stupid people can be

You couldn't find a more stereotypical picture of white trash

 

[JustAGuy]

I recognized early on in life that I would be a lousy parent because I just don't give a shit about the things parents are supposed to give a shit about. My attitude towards most things being "in 100 years, who'll give a rat's ass?" definitely does not make for good parent material. As a result of knowing myself that well, I never had children and the world is a much better place for that decision, I'm sure.

Unfortunately, most people do not devote a whole lot of time to getting to understand what makes them tick and particularly not at an early age. So they go ahead and have a couple of kids and then their abysmal parenting skills become evident. But at that point, the horse is out of the barn and the kids turn into little monsters who will repeat the same process when it's their turn to be capable of reproduction.

I totallly support the idea of forced sterilization though not so much as a means of population control but rather as a way of stopping the hapless fuckers from continuing to breed. It's easy to enforce it with women (two kids and you are done!) but a little more complicated with men. But subjecting men to DNA testing would be one way of establishing when they've had their quota of two and that it's time for a little of the old snip, snip, I suppose.

 

[ladyluck]

LOL.....that was funny



I stumbled across this pic the other day and it speaks volumes how fucking stupid people can be

You couldn't find a more stereotypical picture of white trash

Well what we do know is that child is going to be able to sleep through anything. More then likely end up a chain smoker. I never smoked through my pregnancies (pats myself on the back) and I have 2 teenagers I believe will never smoke. God willing.

You should send that to the idiotic news ads with Jay Leno...Holly

 

[Lurker 123]

[I totallly support the idea of forced sterilization though not so much as a means of population control but rather as a way of stopping the hapless fuckers from continuing to breed. It's easy to enforce it with women (two kids and you are done!) but a little more complicated with men. But subjecting men to DNA testing would be one way of establishing when they've had their quota of two and that it's time for a little of the old snip, snip, I suppose.[/QUOTE]
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Perhaps Canada should adopt the Communist Chinese system. One kid will get finance support from the government. Second kid reversely will have a fine from the government and will loose all government benefit!