I'm not sure how to ask this question with out offending anyone but here it goes. I know everyone wants to have fun, to be safe and clean and df. Do you Sp's have checkups regularly to make sure that you haven't picked anything up lately? Same goes to the guys out there, do u get checked out regularly to make sure you don't pass anything on to the ladies out there? You hear of some people continuing to have multiple sex partners even after knowing that they are infected. I haven't done anything with sp's for a long time and would like to have some great experiences again but am a little nervous of going home with something I won't be able to get rid of.
staying clean and safe
- Thread starter 2tall66
- Start date
Safe
I got checked on June 10 and I'm going again next week. Daisey in your mind is that frequent enough for a guy that poons a couple times a month. Seems that every time I ask a SP when her last check up was she says "she's going soon". I often wonder (and hope) if the ladies are as frequent as I am at 3 months. Is there any home test kits developed yet? SP's please weigh in on this topic also.
I got checked on June 10 and I'm going again next week. Daisey in your mind is that frequent enough for a guy that poons a couple times a month. Seems that every time I ask a SP when her last check up was she says "she's going soon". I often wonder (and hope) if the ladies are as frequent as I am at 3 months. Is there any home test kits developed yet? SP's please weigh in on this topic also.
Clean and safe
I go to the clinic at least every three months, and, i use condoms for everything. Nothing in life comes with out risk.... why take that chance? I even go as far to think that if I have a cleint very insitant on playing risky there must be a reason?!.............
I go to the clinic at least every three months, and, i use condoms for everything. Nothing in life comes with out risk.... why take that chance? I even go as far to think that if I have a cleint very insitant on playing risky there must be a reason?!.............
lol ooook Slim, thank you for that piece of info, we as females prolly wouldn't know that swabs tickle
but we do now.
Anyways myself as an active sp, and doing some of the activities I do, such as bare back blowjobs,and offering swallowing I get checked 2 times a month.
I have been told by the nurses and doctor's at the STD clinic that it is not nessecary to go 2 times in a month, but it is my choice if I choose to do so. To me it is alot easier and safer to narrow it down in a 2 week period rather than a 1 month, 3 month or a 6 month period and have infected god knows who else in that time frame IF I were to ever catch anything. And I am safe to say that even though some of my activities aren't as safe as someone who is monogamous with their S/O, I am clean and have been up to this point. If I don't feel comfortable with a client before activities get started, then it becomes "MY" desicion whether the activies will be covered or not.
Jenn
but we do now.Anyways myself as an active sp, and doing some of the activities I do, such as bare back blowjobs,and offering swallowing I get checked 2 times a month.
I have been told by the nurses and doctor's at the STD clinic that it is not nessecary to go 2 times in a month, but it is my choice if I choose to do so. To me it is alot easier and safer to narrow it down in a 2 week period rather than a 1 month, 3 month or a 6 month period and have infected god knows who else in that time frame IF I were to ever catch anything. And I am safe to say that even though some of my activities aren't as safe as someone who is monogamous with their S/O, I am clean and have been up to this point. If I don't feel comfortable with a client before activities get started, then it becomes "MY" desicion whether the activies will be covered or not.
Jenn
Crickey Jenn, I have the utmost respect for you! Good on you girl. Your diligence should serve as an example to other Sp's.
fresh
fresh
Thanks Daisy you've just convinced me to play as safe as I can as much as I would love to have a bbbj it's just way too risky, like you stated the health nurse said testing takes time and in that time many can become sick with multiple diseases, including (and the most important of all....) HIV (which takes many months to detect). I hope I get the chance to see you one day
you've just convinced me to play as safe as I can as much as I would love to have a bbbj it's just way too risky, like you stated the health nurse said testing takes time and in that time many can become sick with multiple diseases, including (and the most important of all....) HIV (which takes many months to detect). I hope I get the chance to see you one daywhat I have learned over the past year when going to the std clinic that I didnt' know in my first 6 months is:
In order to get a positive, negitive test result We ladies should NOT have any sexual activity for 3 full days prior to our tests. Without this I've been told by my STD Clinic the tests could come back as negitive when in fact their positive.
In order to get a positive, negitive test result We ladies should NOT have any sexual activity for 3 full days prior to our tests. Without this I've been told by my STD Clinic the tests could come back as negitive when in fact their positive.
