Sound Effects and orgasms

[mimi]

Probably a silly title to this thread, but, I am having writer's block!

Tell me something! Most guys do not make a lot of noise when they cum....sometimes, there is no sound at all...maybe, a deep sigh, or wet grunting sound, but, I have never met a guy who screamed and moaned in the same way that women do when they orgasm...well, at least the ones that I have been privileged to hear.

I do not make much noise when I orgasm, even when masturbating with my extra special toys...in fact, I am for the most part silent, except for those absolute ripping, gut clenching, leg sweating episodes, and even then it is brief. I tend not to be very vocal....

But, this is what is expected in a session with a client and I have always obliged by adding appropriate noises during the nicer sensations, because, if one doesn't throw out some passionate yodels the client is apt to think that I am not enjoying myself...

The biggest conundrum, not for the client, but, for myself, is that if I am concentrating on making noises I get distracted from the sensation and it slips away....therefore, I am at a loss...a bona fide orgasm would no doubt be a silent disappointment to the client, but, I dislike faking noisy orgasms...really dries the throat out...although, I suppose (and here is where you can offer your opinion...) it is my responsibility as a service provider to give the client the expected performance, whether it is good for me or not....I am getting selfish in my old age, I think....

Well, for all the men reading this, I would like to know if making your orgasms more vocal, and I mean on par with the women your flogging, affects your performance?

 

[Evolve]

Probably a silly title to this thread, but, I am having writer's block!

Tell me something! Most guys do not make a lot of noise when they cum....sometimes, there is no sound at all...maybe, a deep sigh, or wet grunting sound, but, I have never met a guy who screamed and moaned in the same way that women do when they orgasm...well, at least the ones that I have been privileged to hear.

I do not make much noise when I orgasm, even when masturbating with my extra special toys...in fact, I am for the most part silent, except for those absolute ripping, gut clenching, leg sweating episodes, and even then it is brief. I tend not to be very vocal....

But, this is what is expected in a session with a client and I have always obliged by adding appropriate noises during the nicer sensations, because, if one doesn't throw out some passionate yodels the client is apt to think that I am not enjoying myself...

The biggest conundrum, not for the client, but, for myself, is that if I am concentrating on making noises I get distracted from the sensation and it slips away....therefore, I am at a loss...a bona fide orgasm would no doubt be a silent disappointment to the client, but, I dislike faking noisy orgasms...really dries the throat out...although, I suppose (and here is where you can offer your opinion...) it is my responsibility as a service provider to give the client the expected performance, whether it is good for me or not....I am getting selfish in my old age, I think....

Well, for all the men reading this, I would like to know if making your orgasms more vocal, and I mean on par with the women your flogging, affects your performance?

Here's a thought: make the noises when you aren't close to an orgasm, but don't when you are. He gets to hear you make noises and you don't have to sacrifice.

 

[mimi]

I have wondered if men feel inhibited to make too much noise....let's face it, sexual release for a man...well....it looks like he is pouring his soul into something, which, I suppose is not far off the truth if we delve into the whole reproductive thing, and passing on ones genetic material etc...so, with that intense release is a momentary exposure to vulnerability and I do wonder if there is a feeling of risk by adding voice to it.

Thanx for the validation Missy! Yes, I agree about the breathing, sometimes it gets me dizzy and the orgasm becomes quite cerebral. My pet peeve here is that men seem to be trained to measure their performance by the volume of yelps and yowls delivered, so that, my quieter responses seem inadequate and I am left to assure them verbally of my satisfaction...

This is not a constant theme with all participants; clients I have seen on a regular basis conform and learn to look deeper into my physical responses.

The coolest thing for me is when our faces are very close together, maybe 1/4" apart so the lips barely skim the surface and the tension and electricity can spark across the small chasm making the hairs stand on end....no vocal orchestration needed!

 

[hapkido]

Personally I enjoy the session more where there are some sounds of pleasure. It doesnt have to be overly dramatic. But other than pussy wetness, change breathing pattern, rosey cheeks, passion and orgasmic convulsions and muscle contraction, I need some vocal sensory feedback to close the loop for overall enjoyment

 

[GentlemanCaller]

I do not make much noise when I orgasm, (edit) But, this is what is expected in a session with a client and I have always obliged by adding appropriate noises during the nicer sensations, because, if one doesn't throw out some passionate yodels the client is apt to think that I am not enjoying myself...

I don't feel it necessary to have the lady scream at the top of her lungs or anything... but if I'm heading in the right direction with her, a soft moan or two is nice, or an "Mmmmm", or anything of that nature. Lets me know she is deriving some pleasure from the activity at hand. Guys do need some sort of indication in that regard, and it need not be verbal. If I can see the cords straining in your neck, or feel your legs start to quiver, or if your thighs are starting to clamp around my head - then I know I'm on the right track.

Well, for all the men reading this, I would like to know if making your orgasms more vocal, and I mean on par with the women your flogging, affects your performance?

I don't think much would stand in the way of a man's orgasm - if you prefer me to yell, just let me know!

- GC

 

[ezsmile]

a few moans and grunts seem real to me. yelling and screaming or telling me my cock is so big and hard seem contrived.
I don't expect it and actually hope the big noises don't happen too much, as I don't believe it and then it becomes distracting.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I also fall under the silent orgasm, you can tell by my breathing, clenching my legs, pussy size/wetness, sometimes shaking, that I had a good time, lol.

It is from my very bad teenage years of sneaking boyfriends into the house while my dad or mom was asleep, (depending who's house I was in) I got used to being quiet, (this is what I think) and if I have to make noise it feels contrived and kind of silly. My orgasms are bigger, if you just let me be, and do your thing, lol. I can still have an orgasm if I have to moan, fake, and pretend, but it will not be as intense.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I find stifling my voice when orgasming feels like I'm not cumming quite as intensely.. being vocal just feels better to me.

I had a wonderful client this evening who's orgasm sounds blew me away.. wow! So sexy, so intense and passionate. I must admit it added a lot to the experience for me.

God, he was so yummy... I love my life!

xoxo
Nina

Yes, it is a good life, lol!!! Some times it is fun to be vocal, but if there's pressure for it no way.

 

[Harmony-bc]

oh of course.. you have to do what feels right for you. Forcing yourself to do something unnatural for you can't possibly enhance things!

Some people have great voices, some people have great moves, some people have great skin, hair, muscles.. some know just what to say and how to say it, some just have the sweetest loving eyes you've ever seen...

There's always something sexy about a human being who's got an open attitude and passion for sensuality.

xoxo
Nina

I think you're sexy Nina. You can be loud, I'll be quiet and together, we'll lick the platter clean, lol

 

[Guardian Angel]

I am a silent person when it comes to orgasm myself. I stiffen my whole body and concentrate on the pulse of my orgasm. It tends to increase the intensity and strengh when I cum. To do this best I hold my breath which makes it tough to talk, scream or groan. When I am done cumming I finally let off some steam and sounds, usually they don't make any sense at that point, lol.

As for my partner, it helps a bit if she is on the brink and says to keep going or doing what I am doing, whether is is in a soft tone or louder as the tension builds towards orgasm. Stuff like, don't stop, that's it, keep going, harder, etc.

I really try to read the signs of breathing, internal contractions, fluids, moans, body movements and tensing as much as I can to get her to orgasm. If it brings loud screams along the way, or just total silence I am happy to see her afterglow.

Great time for cuddling after too!

G.A.

 

[seannachie]

I also fall under the silent orgasm, you can tell by my breathing, clenching my legs, pussy size/wetness, sometimes shaking, that I had a good time, lol.

It is from my very bad teenage years of sneaking boyfriends into the house while my dad or mom was asleep, (depending who's house I was in) I got used to being quiet, (this is what I think) and if I have to make noise it feels contrived and kind of silly. My orgasms are bigger, if you just let me be, and do your thing, lol. I can still have an orgasm if I have to moan, fake, and pretend, but it will not be as intense.

This has been my experience as well. Being quiet was a necessity to gain some privacy. I like to listen to my partner and if I'm hooting and hollering, I can't hear her. The natural sounds of sex are enough for me, however. I enjoy the sounds of her breathing, the feeling of her clenching me and her wetness. If the sex if passionate enough, I've limited air to devote to making noise anyways. A "mon dieu" or "holy moley" at the end kind of sums up a good experience for me!

 

[athaire]

I have always been very vocal, and get even more so as time goes on. I don't think it makes the experience better......it is just something that has always happened. I can't imagine being quiet when cumming......

 

[DQ Guy]

So when I jump Up on the bed and Start Screaming
OHHHHH MY FU*KING GOD I"M CUMMING

Thats a little over the top is it??..

But really for me, It really doesn't matter. If your cumming the guy can usually get the signs..
as for doing something right, simple moans and wriggles are more then enough.
No need for step by step instructions and wails of extasy