So...what is your type???

blondeluver

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Not sure if this topic has been discussed before but what is your ideal type for a SP and for a partner in real life?

For myself, I love a thick lady with real curves and D/DD's. I totally dislike +2's in regardless how nice it looks but the moment my hands know they are not real, it kills the mood and junior instantly. I am also not into the "Koi fish lips" type that are pumped full with fillers nor a fake ass that looks like there are 2 balloons sticking out either! Just some natural, classic feminine look will win me over any days. :)

Since SP's of my type are so few, so I settle for what are available. But if I have it my way, it is thick MILF all the way!!! :giggle:
 

westwoody

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I have seen so many women destroy their good looks through cosmetic surgery. It’s a slippery slope, once they start they want more and more.
Sausage lips look fucking stupid.
Jailhouse tats no thanks.
Badly done tits look and feel awful.
Sharpie eyebrows, nope.

I see women daily who have never had anything done and yet they look better than 99% of SWs. Fit. Athletic. Well dressed, wearing clothes that fit properly looking good but not gaudy.

No doubt I will be corrected shortly. LOL 😂
 
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masterpoonhunter

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In general if a woman presents herself with some confidence, looks healthy, is fit (enough), ie HWP, and has a propensity to smile, I'm interested. Bonus of course if she is facially pleasing (to me) and is giving me 'la look'.
Of course overall if she has great tits, I tend to lose objectivity.
 

white Ninja

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My taste in women just like my taste buds is not static.
It changes sometimes in large amounts over yrs but also little preferences over months.

I try to see something beautiful in most women I meet ( although about 10% of the population is just plain miserable so in those I can see nothing appealing) .

For myself I find myself mostly drawn to someone’s face . There’s no rhyme or reason as I’m attracted to many different looks .But that’s always the first thing that catches my eye and the only thing that holds it.

Aside from that I find qualities and characteristics make or break it for me .

Including but not limited to ,

-Being comfortable in their own skin as well as their sexuality.
This includes being confident enough in themselves that they don’t need to over compensate in the way they carry themselves .

-Emotional intelligence especially in how it relates to someone’s social skills.

-life experience, this one just radiates from someone and can not be faked .

-Healthy Boundaries w themselves & others, no need to say more .

-Genuine in who they are .

On a more surface level, incredible style definitely doesn’t hurt.

These things all make a woman incredibly attractive in my opinion.
 
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KAM369

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I have seen so many women destroy their good looks through cosmetic surgery. It’s a slippery slope, once they start they want more and more.
Sausage lips look fucking stupid.
Jailhouse tats no thanks.
Badly done tits look and feel awful.
Sharpie eyebrows, nope.

I see women daily who have never had anything done and yet they look better than 99% of SWs. Fit. Athletic. Well dressed, wearing clothes that fit properly looking good but not gaudy.

No doubt I will be corrected shortly. LOL 😂
"Sharpie eyebrows"🤣
I once worked with a lady that had eyebrows that literally looked like a six year old drew them on with a marker
 

bigballs55

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The GND all natural is always the best when it comes to looks. However, some cosmetic adjustments are fine if done with restraint and taste.

In the end the most important part for me is the personality/chemistry. I can live without the perfect GND look, but I do desire that connection.
 
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204fun

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Absolutely love a thick girl with a big booty and a big natural chest. I'm a bigger guy so I'm not a huge fan of spinners as I always feel like I'm going to crush them.

With that being said, as much as that type of lady might be my go-to type, the SP I have spent the most time with over the years does not match this description at all so maybe physical type doesn't really matter.
 
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white Ninja

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With that being said, as much as that type of lady might be my go-to type, the SP I have spent the most time with over the years does not match this description at all so maybe physical type doesn't really matter.
Ditto, the sp I have seen the most does not match my usual type at all, so I agree, connection counts for a lot. In my case I’m not even fooling myself into thinking I’m something special, I just assume she knows how to connect w people in general and treats her regulars very well. But hell I’ll take it .
 

ShungiteSol

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This is such a great question. Right off the bat I will say I really love blondes with a natural look that can hold a great conversation, have a beautiful smile and an ass that loves to be spanked. I have found over the years that my tastes have changed as I have gotten older and it has a lot to do with me personally, and the connection I needed at that particular time. I have had a few long term relationships over the years with SP’s that were so valuable to me, because it helped me get through a crisis I had at the time when I needed a person to confide in. It varied from being a hard-ass lady that wasn’t afraid to tell me the truth about myself and my situation, to being a gentle lover that I could reach on a spiritual level. The ladies in this industry are so special when you can find that trust in each other. I know we can be kind of jaded sometimes because of the ladies that give this industry a bad name. But we should celebrate the real gems that have a positive impact on our lives.
 
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wincity23

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Not that i'm looking, but i wouldn't differentiate my parameters for a sp or RL partner. At least not early on. I'm partial to brunettes so that's where my eye usually wanders to first. After that, obviously looks-someone i find attractive. I'm fine with a wide range of body types etc so really after that it comes down to intelligence, sense of humor and chemistry which i'll need to find out in person. They say women hit their sexual prime in their 30's (i'm not saying this is necessarily true), and given my age (late 40's), i tend to look for women between 30-40 on average. The superficial things would get me in the door- intelligence, sense of humor and chemistry will keep me coming back.
 

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For me, bbw, natural look, hippie, short or tall makes no difference. little to no make up, jeans or yoga pants. That being said, attitude is the most important and kind of overrides everything else for the right personality and a genuine smile 😊
 
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