don't follow up or try to get her to "make it up to you" its been proven time and time again that she is a waste of time, just even read her response here to a member who told us she ghosted him the day of meeting, and then she comes on here and says " Next time you send me a text please tell me it's you, im drowning in texts messages so it's rally hard to know when there's one I'd like to answer! " like really, after back and forth text she should know exactly who she's talking to. these don't look like red flags gentlemen, they are!